Mizuma Yu of Kohana is a 2015 Japanese film based on true events, directed by veteran Japanese directors Nobuo Mizuda and Chiaki Akugen, and starring Ryoko Hiromi, Kenichi Takito, Sei hiraizumi, and Ritsuki Kimura.
The film tells a simple story in a flat and straightforward way, and the touch in the ordinary is even more moving.
Chie and Shingo are a couple in love, in a physical examination Chie was detected breast cancer, the hospital recommended that Chie surgery as soon as possible to remove the left breast, Chie did not want to drag Shingo, painfully proposed to break up, Shingo not only did not give up, but also proposed to marry Chie, in order to encourage Chie to face the condition, Chie was touched by Shingo's affection, bravely boarded the operating table.
The operation was successful, but the chemotherapy that followed would affect Chie's fertility, and although Shingo loved the child, her love for Chie overcame everything, and he firmly took Chie's hand and walked into the palace of marriage.
After the marriage, the two were sweet and happy, and a small life quietly came to Qianhui's body.
Knowing that at the moment of pregnancy, the couple were very happy, but reason immediately replaced emotion, and they both understood in their hearts that giving birth to a child meant that Chie's breast cancer was in danger of recurrence, Chie and Shingo fell into a painful entanglement, and with the encouragement of Chie's father's love, Strong Chie gave birth to her daughter's little flower.
The arrival of Xiaohua brought joy and laughter to the couple, but happiness was always short-lived, when Xiaohua was nine months old, Chie's cancer recurred, Shingo and Chie spent all their savings and borrowed a lot of money to seek medical treatment, a hermit doctor told them, let Chie eat simple brown rice and miso soup every day, maintain a regular schedule, cancer may be controlled.
Every doctor's advice was a hope, Qianhui listened to the doctor's words, and soon after, the cancer cells in Qianhui's body were really under control.
However, this happiness did not last long, when Xiaohua was four years old, suffering came to this family again, Qianhui's cancer cells suddenly spread to the whole body, the god of death did not know when it would come, in the next day, Qianhui was particularly cherished, she began to teach Xiaohua to live independently, cooking, washing clothes, cleaning, under the strict teaching of Qianhui, Xiaohua soon learned to cook and housework.
College classmates plan to complete her dream of singing on stage for Chie, at this time Chie has been tortured by the disease to go on stage are difficult, Xiaohua suddenly appeared with a large insulated lunch box, filled a bowl of warm miso soup for her mother to drink, after drinking the soup, Chie suddenly has strength, on the stage she used her own singing voice to tell her story, comforting relatives and audience.
After the performance, Chie leaves the world she lingers on. She left a letter for Shingo and Xiaohua, saying that even though this life was so short and tortuous, she still felt fortunate because of the company of Shin and Xiaohana.
The unforgiving love of Chie and Shingo is enviable, and the mother's reluctance to give up on her child and her nostalgia for life make me feel that I am healthy at this moment, and how happy it is to have my child around!
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > what would you teach young children to learn if life counted down? </h1>
I once read a hot topic on the Internet: If there was only one last day left in life, what would you do?
Some people say that they will be with their lovers and quietly wait for death;
Some people say that they want to go back to their hometown to stay with their elderly parents, and when they die, they find that they have so little time to spend with their parents;
Some people say that as long as you can see the child, there is a child's smiling face, even if you die, it does not feel so terrible...
Most of the content in the comments revolves around parents, children, and lovers, and in the faint sadness, I feel the nostalgia of everyone's affection.
If life is limited in time, in addition to not giving up on lovers and parents, there is also an extra layer of worry for young children: the child is still so young, what should he do after I leave?
He will definitely be sad, but after the sadness, he always has to face life.
I think it is precisely out of such a worry that Chie, as a mother, is almost paranoid and strictly requires Xiaohua to learn to cook, and there is such a clip in the movie:
Qianhui's sister came to see Qianhui, and also prepared a beautiful picture book for Xiaohua as a gift, Xiaohua happily looked at the picture book, the time to cook came, Qianhui called Xiaohua to make miso soup, Xiaohua had no time to pay attention, Qianhui called several times, Xiaohua has been completely attracted by the picture book, and even did not respond, Qianhui angrily snatched the picture book from Xiaohua's hands, Xiaohua cried, Qianhui's sister couldn't see it, reprimanded Qianhui: You can't selfishly treat children as your own hands and feet!
In the face of her sister's accusations, Qianhui did not argue, but squatted down and told Xiaohua: If you are sick, your parents will be very sad, so to eat well, if you want to eat well, you must cook with your heart, whether it is eating, or cooking, you can't be fooled, as long as you can cook, you will definitely be able to live!
The body is the foundation of everything, there is no good body, everything else is empty talk, and the energy that provides it is food, even the basic needs of the body cannot be satisfied, survival is a problem, how can Qianhui leave with confidence?
Therefore, Qianhui wants Xiaohua to learn to cook, and only if she can cook can she survive!
Some people say that what a person wants to do before dying is what you think is the most important thing, and Qianhui realizes before she dies that raising a child into an independent child is the most important thing.
If the child can live independently, the mother is relieved.
Not only is mom like this, but isn't dad?
The same approach as Qianhui also appeared in Jet Li and the article starring in "Ocean Paradise", when the father Wang Xincheng knew that he had liver cancer and had four months to go, in the face of the reassuring autistic son Dafu, he taught Dafu to fry eggs, know the banknotes to buy vegetables, take the bus... These life skills that we can learn at a glance, but become The survival skills of Daifuku, seeing that Daifuku learned to boil eggs, my tears followed...
Parents know that their time is short, and they choose to cultivate their children's ability to live independently, because they know that independence is so important, independence can live, and living is qualified to talk about life.
The efforts of Qianhui and Wang Xincheng have not been in vain, whether it is 4-year-old Xiaohua or 21-year-old dafu, they have all moved towards independence under the guidance of their parents.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > face difficulties, do not complain or give in, and teach by example to infect children. </h1>
The plot of "Miso Soup of Little Flowers", placed around, is definitely a tragic story: the mother died after suffering from breast cancer and ran out of savings, leaving her husband and young children behind, how miserable!
But after watching the whole movie, in addition to feeling sad about The death of Qianhui, it is more touching, and there is also a feeling of positive energy. In addition to the well-intentionedness of the mother who taught her daughter to live independently, the child's well-behaved and sensible understanding is lamentable, more importantly, although the Qianhui family is facing illness and debt, they have never complained about the injustice of fate.
Neither complain nor give in.
Chie is diagnosed with cancer and has no hope for life, so Shingo encourages her not to be knocked down by the disease by getting married, so that Chie can rekindle her desire for life;
The cancer returns, the couple strives to find the legendary "divine doctor", spends all the money, they have to fight against fate, let Qianhui live;
Even if the cancer spreads throughout the body, it is necessary to actively cooperate with the treatment and not give up lightly...
Japanese painter Takehisa 2:
Whoever you are will meet, and who you are will choose whomever you are. The life that always hangs on the lips is your life, and people are always easily hypnotized by the words they say. I'm afraid that the many complaints you always hang on your lips will become all your life.
Perhaps, the more bitter life is, the less you should complain, because complaining is not only useless, but also makes life more bitter.
Qianhui should be a loyal supporter of this creed. And her strong optimism and never complaining and not giving in the face of difficulties have also infected Xiaohua.
In the last scene of the film, in the early morning, Shingo walks out of the room, Xiaohua is already busy in the kitchen, Shingo puts the prepared meal well, and eats breakfast with Xiaohua, Xiaohua drinks soup while sweetly smiling, "So hot!" ”
This girl who lost her mother, some time ago, was still crying at her mother's funeral, but her mother has left forever, without her mother, there are many unexpected difficulties in her future life, but she has not been negative, but chose to face life optimistically.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > love of life is the life posture that parents should have, and it is also necessary to teach children the ability. </h1>
Qianhui not only teaches Xiaohua to live, but also teaches Xiaohua to love life and cultivate her ability in life.
At the beginning of "Little Flower's Miso Soup", it told the audience that this 25-year-old person named Chie is a terminally ill breast cancer patient, but watching the entire film, except for the diagnosis of cancer and the last spread, Chie was tormented by the pain and cried late at night, Ande was smiling, always giving people a bright feeling, not at all like a terminally ill person.
Not only does she smile at life, she also tells Xiaohua: "You must strive to be a good child who always smiles at others, healthy and strong."
When the cancer spread throughout the body, she also opened a blog for herself, sharing her daily life with Xiaohua, and when her blog attracted attention, she took on the responsibility of cheering up other patients and sending her own fried rice snacks to people who were also breast cancer.
She also told her husband and friends not to always mention "cancer" in front of herself, saying that it seems to treat cancer patients as a special group, there is a feeling of rejection, if you have to mention, then use "boo" instead of good, because this is more cute, when the husband and friends stumbled and said "breast boo", "cervical boo", "thyroid boo", Qian Hui laughed and said: Listening to your words, I am alive again!
Every bit, you can feel her love for life.
Fudan professor Chen Guo once said that loving life is an ability.
People who love life can always find surprises and emotions from life, enrich their hearts, and make themselves happy. Qianhui herself is the beneficiary of this ability, and she naturally passes this ability to Xiaohua.
The little flower, is simply a copy of the mother, the mother is in the hospital, she prepared dinner for the father and told the father, today's soup has a surprise Oh, Shingo tasted a bite did not taste the surprise where, had to honestly ask the small flower, the small flower told the father: is a sesame oh! Then laughed.
Although at this moment my mother is still living in the hospital, life is so bad, but the little flower that loves life can always "conjure up" surprises to make the family full of joy, perhaps, life is the same, if you add a "love" to it as a raw material made of "sesame", is it not instantly brightened!
< h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > the last words:</h1>
Xiaohua was born in 2003, and in 2012, her father Shingo sorted out the family's diary of fighting against the disease, and published it as a book under the name of "Xiaohana's Miso Soup", which became a bestseller once it came out, and only then did this movie, which basically restored the scene at that time from the perspective of respecting the facts.
Whether they read books or movies, people were touched by the Shingo family's struggle against the disease and the mother's good intentions to cultivate their children's independence.
At that time, the 9-year-old little flower attracted the attention of the society, people were surprised to find that this little girl showed a talent and optimism that did not match the age, every morning at 6 o'clock in the morning, she began to be busy in the kitchen, and said in the essay written in the school, Mom, thank you for giving birth to me, I will eat well every day, life to protect myself, this is my agreement with my mother.
After Xiaohua's experience and composition were discovered, they encouraged a group of children who had lost their parents/mothers, making them realize that even if they lost their parents/mothers, they could live well and rekindle their love for life, Xiaohua's figure seemed to overlap with Qianhui, and like her mother Qianhui's blog to encourage breast cancer patients, she also used her own behavior to warm others.
Now Xiaohua has been 17 years old, grown into an optimistic and cheerful girl, many people think that Xiaohua Xiaohua is so excellent, because Qianhui strictly cultivated her ability to live independently, it is true, but in my opinion, just cultivating independent life is not enough, Qianhui not only taught Xiaohua the skills of independent life, but also taught her own difficulty of not complaining, not yielding and loving life through the bits and pieces of life to edify Xiaohua, taught Xiaohua these skills, and now this girl who is full of enthusiasm for life.
The so-called education, some do need to be deliberate, but also need spiritual inheritance, parents' attitude to life will be directly reflected in the child's attitude to life, so what kind of child you want, first become that kind of parent. As a parent, only by constantly strengthening their own strength can they become the source of strength on the road of children's growth.