Everything is free to do as you please

Life is short, tomorrow and accidents do not know when to come first, we all have to live well, cherish the people in front of us, is the best gift at the moment.

The road of life, whether it is wide or narrow, curved or straight, we must go on. Don't be too stubborn, don't be too deliberate in everything. The heart is not gloomy and sunny, and the belly is always worried. Lower expectations and care less about the eyes of others.

To be a man, you must be like a person, and you must not be like an official; you must act according to your true colors and act according to your role; if you offend everyone, no one will be offended; where there is oil and water, it is slipperiest, and it is difficult to get up and stand firm; silence is an attitude, and dragging is also a method; if you are not afraid of the masses scolding you, you are afraid that the masses will not look for you; you can offend busy people, and you must not offend idle people; small victories rely on wisdom, and great victories rely on virtue.

It is said: The mind does not move, all things do not move, the heart does not change, all things do not change. The mind determines everything. Don't care about the outside world's vision, care about evaluation, worry about the results, it is difficult to do whatever you want, naturally can not play their own strength.

In a person's life, you can't ask for too much. The adult world is even more complicated! Except for being easy to be poor, everything else is not easy.

The Diamond Sutra says: All appearances are illusory. Legend has it that during the Southern and Northern Dynasties, there was a farmer who had a very difficult family because of years of war and heavy taxes. On this day, the farmer watched the child cry when he was hungry, and his heart was unbearable. So I carried the hoe to the edge of the field, but the pest and drought had long since left the crops without harvest. In desperation, he muttered, "Since there is nothing to eat in the field, it is better to go into the mountains to try your luck, maybe you can still dig up some wild vegetables or something!"

Thinking of this, he went into the mountains. When he saw a clearing with weeds, he stopped and carefully looked for edible wild vegetables. When he encountered a difficult place to dig, he picked up the hoe and shaved it one by one, and suddenly with a "dang" sound, the hoe touched a hard thing and fell to the ground.

The farmer picked up the hoe and thought: What is this? So hard? Isn't it an iron lump? So, he shaved hard twice, and found the gold of Huang Cancan! The farmer hurried to dig deeper, and even dug out a golden statue of Arhat!

The farmer excitedly carried the hundred or so pounds of golden arhat home. It didn't take long for the news to spread throughout the city. The poor farmer became a multimillionaire overnight, and the couple was not happy for a few days, and the wife saw her husband's sad face all day, sighed, and asked him: "What is so difficult for you?" Now that the family is living a good life, what else are you worried about?" Who knew that the farmer replied, "How can you not be worried?" I only dug out one golden arhat, and the remaining seventeen don't know where to bury it."

Life, happiness or not, depends on yourself. There are no unhappy people in this world, only unsatisfied hearts. Those who are content can always be happy. A happy life, full of love and joy, these are not exchanged for how much money.

I have a friend who is particularly honest, many people feel very comfortable with him, he is a very frank person, talk very relaxed and natural, emotional intelligence is also very high, especially can talk, and has literary style, very sincere to friends, will be single-minded. He can say both good and bad! Everyone treats him as a true friend.

I have known him for many years, before we went out to play together, others often poured me wine, all the wine would be taken by him to drink, once because I had a fight with others, really special feeling! I was scared and blamed myself, thinking that because of me, he was hurt, but he said to me; it didn't matter how much other people were embarrassed, but he absolutely did not allow bullying girls. When I meet such a misbehaving person, he will always stand in the way for me.

I still remember this sentence, and I feel that he is a narrow man who came out of a martial arts drama, and he only knew it after he really understood him. In fact, we can only be brothers and sisters in this life, because his bottom line and his concept are very firm, should be influenced by Confucianism, and his care for me is in the boundaries of a righteous gentleman, doing the best.

At that time, I was particularly fascinated by him, thinking that he was the man I was looking for in my life, responsible, daring to take responsibility, and taking care of women, and in this life, I felt that he was not married. I was obsessed for several years, but he always treated me like a sister, no matter how I openly and secretly showed him kindness, his attitude never changed, nor did he give me the slightest possibility of misunderstanding.

The highest state of life is not to adhere to the plain, but to put it in every inch of time with a peaceful and shallow heart! Enjoy the warm fragrance in every serving. In order to live a simple and exquisite life.

Life always has gains and losses, and life is always helpless. But only if you look down, look away, and let go, everything can go as usual. The world is merciless, don't be true to yourself. I am blessed to have it, I have lost my life, I am grateful, cherish the present, what I have is not squandered, what I lose is not attached, and I am at ease with my fate.

Life in the world, for the sake of profit, in the end to find out, everything can not be taken away. It is better to go with the wind, honor and disgrace. Only when you can put it down can you see it openly; only when you can see it openly can you be comfortable. Live in the present, in order to look forward to the future!

In life, you and I are all guests, there is a chance to pass by, and then a hurry to say goodbye. When we meet, be kind, leave, and don't keep. In life, if you can't think of anything, don't think about it anymore and embarrass yourself; what you can't get, it is unnecessary, hurt yourself. What does not belong to me, why should I be entangled, the mood is normal, face it calmly, happiness, and blandness are the truth! Less calculating, more open-mindedness; less thoughtlessness, more tranquility. In life, the more contented, the happier.