Innocence defeats innocence

There is a relative who loves to take advantage of it beyond reproach:

Every time I go back to my hometown to see my parents (once or twice a year, the distance is 3 or 50 kilometers) I will call other relatives to go together, and when I see that they are empty-handed, the relatives who are called will buy gifts from my parents, and they will happily go home, and the old people will say that they buy so much, they say that filial piety to parents can not be stingy, eat quickly, it is delicious, they are bought what you like, between words is what they bought.

At this time, the parents will go out to buy vegetables or something, entertain, everyone is happy, the relatives who buy things have long gone, they will eat and drink, and when they leave, they will take some souvenirs from home.

More than half a year later, the relatives who bought things received a call again, saying let's go home together to see our parents, okay, one look is still empty-handed, three heads are carried by the shoulders.

Buy something, or people pay money, all three of them are fully loaded, and demonstrated the plot of the last time they went back, parents communicate privately, although the child said less, it is not stingy, it is what you like to eat. There are fewer grievances against this child, and parents do not say that they must have children to take gifts to be considered filial piety, they just want an attitude.

Half a year later, the old trick was repeated, relatives went downstairs to see it, 6 shoulders carrying 3 heads, said I will have a meeting later, can not accompany you home, they are gone, this time innocence was defeated by innocence.

Since no one pays for something, what to do? Pay for it yourself, 10 yuan is the bottom line, this time broke through the bottom line, spent 10.8 yuan to buy 10 bottles of beer.

After calling N times, they are no longer deceived, and then they go home, the bottom line is lowered, 5 yuan of strawberries or 5 yuan of small tomatoes, three people eat a meal, this is the small half a year once filial piety to parents.

I this person is a big grin, love to buy things, like to buy, do not like to send people, the early popular gold, buy gold rings, husband sent one, just gave her the original, half a year later feel the pattern to see bored to say, let's change the belt, the pattern is fresh and fresh, look at a glance did not answer, did not know why not talk, the original was to give her which gram is larger.

The father is gone, he took his mother to live with me, the distance is less than 5 kilometers, but also once every six months, the bottom line after this is 10 steamed steamed steamed steamed steamed steam 10 steamed buns lasted for several years.

Now in three years, 10 steamed buns can not be seen. My mother was always worried about her, was she unwell, why couldn't she see her, and couldn't hear any news from her?

Sometimes relatives let their mothers see the video of her singing and dancing on Douyin to solve her mother's lovesickness, because the phone call is not answered, and WeChat is not returned. WeChat notes and labels say: Please yourself for the rest of your life.

Every parent loves his children, loving his children is nature, children love their parents is human nature, parents' concern for their children is to stop the cup and throw a cup and can't eat, and the child's requirements for parents are: You should give me a life of fine clothes and food, give me a carefree and free day. Let go of the resentment of your parents, they raised you is really not easy, when raising you did not think to return you, as the son of man should do their duty to enter the good, and then can not be 3 years without news. How should you tell your next generation that you have done filial piety, that you are filial piety, that you are filial piety, and that please do not whitewash black.

I heard that now the mother-in-law's in-laws are not in contact, so I contact people who do not care about the family and do not honor their parents, I think there may be a common language.

Is this called only pleasing yourself for the rest of your life? I don't think so!