Why do you say that an ordinary girl obviously doesn't have too many requirements for boys, but still doesn't have a boyfriend?
Today I'm going to tell you the answer, come and play a game with me, take out a piece of paper and a pen, and write down the names of the boys you've been talking to in the last year or two that you've met. Four people in a row. If the process takes you only a minute to complete, then the reason why you are single has been found, that is, you know too few people, hurry out and meet more people. You named all of these boys single. If the proportions labeled are too low, then most of the people around you are no longer single, then this is interesting.
There are many reasons for this. Let's say that the people around you are older, or that the channels through which you know these boys are through their girlfriends. If that's the case, you don't want to dig into corners. Then you have to find a way to get to know more single boys, so after doing the above two operations, the next operation is the most critical. You put all the boys in there, including those who are not single, and you make an evaluation. The evaluation criterion is very simple, that is, if this guy pursues you, you are willing to try it, at least you are willing to understand. And then you count these boys, and he makes up this percentage of all these boys, and you remember that proportion, and that proportion is what you need to treat the other half. If it's less than 20 percent, then you're not a girl who doesn't ask too much of a guy. If the ratio is less than 10% or even 5%, then you are a very demanding girl. Next, let's do an interesting thing, which is that you list some of the factors that you don't like boys. For example, if you are less than 175 tall, you are ugly and have no money. Then you bring these reasons to this list and compare them one by one. Then you look at how many of these reasons are screened, and the boys stay again, and how many boys count it into this ratio. For example, for example, there may be only a quarter of the height that meets your requirements, and then there is still a quarter of the appearance requirements. Then you multiply these factors, and a quarter by a quarter is a sixteenth. Have you ever found that the objects you are satisfied with are actually much less than you think. Of course, the reasons why you reject those guys as your boyfriends above you can change through your own changes.
For example, your circle of friends in the north and your circle of friends in the south are definitely not the same as those who are less than 175 in height. For example, if you study abroad and your college classmates in China, the people you meet and the family background are definitely different. If you think that these reasons are not the problem of your conditions, but the problem of your circle, then you need to rely on your own efforts to get out of your existing circle and go to the circle you like to choose the person you want. Of course, the reality is that you may pass through the situation, you may work hard, there is no way to get into that circle. For example, you simply can't go to the United States to study like milk tea and find a big money. Because you will find that your family situation simply cannot support you to spend 100,000, hundreds of thousands, or even millions to study abroad. Let's say you're looking for a handsome guy, but you're surrounded by middle-aged greasy uncles. Then at this time you should realize that there must be a circle in this world that can meet your needs. But you can't get into that circle, so for you, it's that your requirements are a bit high. If you sift through and you find that none of the boys can get your heart moving, it means that you may not realize that your requirements are a bit high. At this time, there must be some girls' children who have raised the bar with me. He told me that I found that among these boys, I had snowed, and there were still a lot of boys in the snow, and I was still willing to try it with them. But why am I still single? Well, don't worry, now you do one thing, that is, you put these boys in this list who are interesting to you boys, and you change them to mark out what is interesting. It's not that those who want to confess to you are counted, as long as they take the initiative to chat with you, more than once, they can talk about anything, and they can talk about anything. Because at least it shows that these boys are still willing to get along with you.
Then you count the percentages, and that's what you evaluate among the boys. Then you tell you just now that among these boys, you are interested in them. That ratio, two numbers to make a comparison. If you say that the higher the number, the more qualified you are to be picky and selective about boys. I mean a little bit, Gao Yuanyuan can find a partner among 1,000 boys, but you can't. If you find that the opposite sex who actively chats with you is particularly small, then there is a good chance that you are not just ordinary, and you may not even be excellent. It's just that you think you're ordinary and can't find an object for a core reason, what is its underlying logic? It is that your other party's requirements are not worthy of your strength, either you are too demanding, or you overestimate your own level.
Do you understand?