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Silence can be described in two sentences, silence is the real dead heart, and the dead heart is a flower called "nothing" blooming in the heart. The so-called time when I really decided to leave, the door was closed with the least sound, the hope was completely shattered, and there was no idea.
When the mouth can't explain how desperate this person makes you, silence is the only manifestation. The heart is dead, and nothing else.
Love and disappointment are accumulated, and every time you do something that disappoints me, my love for you will be reduced by one point, and if it does not erupt in silence, then it will collapse in silence.
If there is any sudden outbreak, it is just a grievance that has accumulated too much and too long.
If people's hearts are made of porcelain, then two people together, it is inevitable to leave some scratches on each other, in the event of a conflict of will, when encountering a contradiction in ideas, then on the surface, it will look a lot less bright and bright, but at least it can maintain its integrity.
Once broken, there are always a few pieces of debris that you can't pick up when it falls on the ground.
Men's silence is often unable to transform what they think into language, and can only be silent; women's silence is often not necessary for her to transform and express the content, natural silence.
I used to feel unwilling, but now I feel unnecessary.
Zhang Jiajia said: "Most of the silence of human couples is only two situations, one is that there is nothing to say, and the other is that there is no need to say much. There is also a third kind, that is, to perceive that love and non-love, compared with reality, are meaningless. ”
But in life, the most likely thing to happen to a woman is often the first situation. So you must know that when a woman becomes more and more silent, it is not called understanding, but dead heart!
02
What's it like? Whether you love me or not, I can do it; whether you are willing to change or not willing to change; I am casual; in the end, whether you are old or old, whether you cut it twice, I can look down on it. Then, from then on, there was no wave in the heart, and there was silence like a stopping water.
There is a kind of silence that calls me okay, I am casual, I don't care.
I began to completely hold a natural attitude towards feelings, no matter what kind of direction, no matter what kind of experience, anyway, I can't work harder and harder.
It is the result of the complete collapse of the original belief in the heart, and there is no longer the previous attachment, obsession and determination, until it completely closes up his emotions, there is no emotion, and at the same time he loses the belief that he must persist to happiness.
There is a kind of silence called not to calculate, not to argue, not to argue.
Without expecting any outcome, without needing any outcome, naturally there is no act of arguing about the outcome, no matter what you say, even if you say that one plus one equals three.
Tired, will change a person's original appearance, after thinking about the relief, will begin to pursue healthy selfishness, themselves to adjust a piece of tranquility, and then to enjoy the comfort, quiet, relaxed, but also suddenly realized, he is not worth his own consideration, so the more calculated, the more painful.
There is a kind of silence, called not to ask, not to care, not to care about anything.
It doesn't matter the whereabouts of the other party, it doesn't matter about the other person's life, it doesn't matter the mystery of the other party, this is the distance between the heart and the heart. From now on, only care about people who deserve to care, from now on only cherish people who are worth cherishing, and from now on only care about people who need to be cared for, obviously, the other party is not qualified.
Maybe once, he also made himself think it was worthwhile, and then he would always feel happy for his happiness, and he would always feel sad for his sadness, but later, he could no longer affect his mood.
When he can no longer torture his emotions, then he will no longer ask him everything, and at the same time, he will no longer tie everything he has to him, and completely draw a line in his heart.
There is a kind of silence, for your own sake, to take care of yourself, to arrange yourself.
If the first sign of death, what happens to a woman, is silence, then the changes brought to the woman immediately become selfish. In the next life, everything is centered on yourself, as long as you live happily, as long as you live easily, you can no longer consider the feelings of others.
In the future, I will only revolve around myself, only be good to myself, only feel sorry for my own grievances, and after I understand that it is not worth it, I will not leave any thoughts.
To live well in the present, you will also arrange your own future, plan and plan your future, but in this planning and planning, there will never be the appearance of the other party, that is for yourself, and even countless times in the expectation of the possibility of really leaving.
03
There are always many things in life that are difficult to put down, and among these many things, it is the most torturous emotion of feelings, and the most influential behavior of people, in fact, in a sense, it is also good, at least there is hope, expectation, want, and get.
When we are together, we really have to cherish it, love it well, and get along well. A very favorite passage:
"In a lifetime, to have one person, to love each other, how beautiful!" Don't destroy it, no matter how big things are, it's not worth destroying. Don't be clever in the people you love, move your shrewdness! To move, move your heart. Never say anything serious to your lover! Never do anything that ruins the atmosphere and mood! ”
Deeply.
If the heart is broken, it is impossible to be burned again, in fact, think again, a person who loves you so much, and then so desperate, this must be the accumulation of grievances, and how many tears have been shed.
Frozen three feet is not a day's cold, do not let yourself be wrong again and again, causing regrets in your life, when you love others, there is always a must and key premise, that is, to be able to manage yourself.
Some hurts and grievances are like a thorn in the flesh, as long as you think about it, your heart will faintly hurt. Here we can only say that when you love, you can love well, and when you don't love, you can say goodbye and break the heart of your lover, which is the least worthwhile thing.
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