Husband and wife are most afraid of distrust of each other, any relationship is based on trust, including husband and wife relationship, if there is no trust between husband and wife, it will inevitably quarrel continuously, suspicion will continue, sooner or later the relationship between husband and wife will collapse, or in name only!
In addition, there is respect for each other, anyone has the need to be respected, including husband and wife, in the husband and wife, if you do not respect each other, then your feelings will inevitably fade away, do not know how to converge because the other party is your closest person, you do not know how to converge, to know that the closer the person is more sensitive, the more concerned about each other's words, so do not wait to hurt each other after regretting, at that time, everything is too late, the harm to the other party has been caused! There is already a rift in your relationship! When the time comes, I will sigh "if life is only like the first sight" Why bother, why bother!
Of course, the respect mentioned here is not only respect for each other, but also respect for oneself, and only by respecting oneself can we respect others! We must not neglect to respect ourselves while respecting others, only by truly respecting ourselves and loving ourselves can you have the ability to love others!
In addition to trust and respect, the relationship between husband and wife also has acceptance and tolerance, including accepting themselves, accepting each other, accepting their own good and bad, accepting each other's good and bad, and also embracing themselves and accommodating each other.
The relationship between husband and wife is not only the contractual relationship of the marriage certificate, but also a long-term partnership, but also the companionship and companionship day and night!
If you want to have a long-term relationship between husband and wife, respect, acceptance, and tolerance are all essential. Know that your significant other is also a living flesh-and-blood person!
He or she is also the protagonist of his or her own world! Don't forget that he (she) was also the favorite child of the parents in the family before he met you, he is not parachuted, he has his social support, he has his pursuits and hobbies, don't always hit him!
Don't keep saying "I'm for your own good!" "Don't you think that just listening to this sentence is uncomfortable?" Just by saying this, you are in a different position! How harmonious is your relationship? After countless "I'm here for your own good," you'll one day fall apart! By the time you realize there's something wrong, it's too late! Life is not acting, no repetition, no rehearsal, every day is live broadcast, if you are always willful, sooner or later one day, you are responsible for your own behavior! Don't say that if you can't bear it, if it really comes to that day, you will definitely be able to bear it!
Respect is embodied in respecting each other's hobbies, respecting each other's feelings, respecting each other's vision, respecting each other's choices, respecting each other's views, and respecting to be implemented in practice, not an empty word! Although money is very important, you should not use money to measure whether this thing has value, whether it is practical, and whether you can get money through this thing in the end, and then count the other party's pursuits and hobbies. You say, "Even if you have taken the test and what is the use, you know every day that it is useless to tinker with some useless, you look at what is said on the Internet, it is useless, it is all fake, a day of reality is a little bit of sprinkling..." She did not want to listen, so she walked away! Do you know how sad the other person is when you say these things? Interests know? Do you know hobbies? There is no use for anything important, even if it is not useful, ask for a later thought of it and do not regret it! Nothing else!
Any relationship is indispensable to respect, not to mention the relationship between husband and wife!