The ancients cloud, fish and bear paws can not be both, there will be gains and losses, only dare to give up, in order to have a safe and peaceful mentality, will live more full, calm and relaxed.
In life, we often encounter many dilemmas. Choosing means that you need to give up one of them, but sometimes we are not faced with a simple choice like watermelon and sesame, it may be two equally beautiful flowers, two long-cherished things, making it difficult for you to leave both and choose.
At this time, how can you be good? In fact, the key is that we must see the direction of the road ahead. If you find the right direction, the choice is relatively easy.
Bill. Gates was the creator of a business miracle, and much of his success was the result of his good choices. The most important option he made was to drop out. Harvard University is the university of dreams of many people, and bill who was admitted to Harvard University. Gates, however, resolutely gave up studying in his junior year. This is not the determination and courage that ordinary people can make, and the facts have proved that he has done it. Bill. If Gates were to learn the same things in textbooks, would he still be able to revolutionize the computer world? Maybe he'll be a white-collar worker, but he can't be a world-changer.
Life is short, our energy and time are limited, so when making a choice, we must make a decision immediately, otherwise we miss the opportunity and can only miss success.
Of course, giving up is easier said than done, and people will always have a certain attachment to what they get. Just like every time we move, we will always find a lot of useless things, and to throw them away, but feel sorry, reluctant, just move around, more and more things, occupying not only the space in our house, but also our hearts.
There is a young man who wants to become a college inquirer, and many years have passed, and he is good in other aspects, but he has not grown up academically. He was so distressed that he went to a master for advice. After listening to his confession, the master said, "We climb the mountain, and when you get to the top of the mountain, you will know what to do."
That mountain has many small crystalline stones, which are charming. Whenever he saw a favorite stone, the master let the young man put it in a bag and carry it on his back. Soon, he couldn't eat it. Looking at the top of the mountain, it is still out of reach. So he stopped and looked at the master doubtfully and said, "Master, why should I carry this?" Back, don't say to the top of the mountain, I'm afraid I can't even move? "Yeah, so what to do?" The master smiled slightly. The young man said without hesitation, "Don't let it go." "Yes, put down, put down!" The master brushed his beard, and his face was brilliant. The young man suddenly realized, thanked the master happily, and left. Since then, he has devoted himself to learning, and his progress has been rapid...
People's energy is limited and it is impossible to do everything. People who want to get everything may end up getting nothing.
If you want both fish and bear paws, you may not get anything. A friend, 32 years old, was diagnosed with bone cancer by the hospital. Doctors immediately hospitalized him for surgery and amputated his right leg, which was the only way to save his life. However, he refused.
Family members, girlfriends, friends, doctors, and patients repeatedly advised him: "Let's do surgery!" After all, it's still fate! But he didn't agree. Without his signature, the operation could not be performed. He could only do medication, and because of chemotherapy, his full head of black hair soon became unusually thin. Eventually, he changed his initial decision and agreed to surgery to amputate his diseased right leg! After the operation, he looked at his empty legs and thought that he would never stand up again in his life, never have another chance to run, and his tears flowed instantly. He felt his heart ache violently, 100 times more intense than the pain in his body!
However, he finally saved his life, and the doctor told him that fortunately he had made a decision in time to give up one leg, otherwise he might never see the sunny world again.
Life is not perfect, demanding perfection will only make you lose more. Maybe giving up and letting go was painful, even a helpless choice. However, in a few years, when we look back on that past, we will feel gratified by the right choice at that time and feel worthy of life!
