What is true love, everyone has different perceptions!
Love is like a fish in the sea, clouds in the sky, fluctuating, but I think love needs to be nourished slowly, as long as there is love in the heart, life will be wonderful!
Zhang Ailing once said: "Loving a person will be humbled to the dust and then blossom into a flower." ”
A love, no need to commit to vows, only to keep silently, a love, no need to miss every day, just ask for help.
Loving someone is not a cuddling, not kissing me, nor is it an exchange of interests, but to be able to read you, pay attention to your mood, two people who love each other do not need to be together every day, as long as they think in each other's hearts and love.
After loving each other for a long time, the personalities of the two people will gradually complement each other, the temper that loves more will become better and better, more and more accommodating, and the person who is loved may become more and more domineering, but still be able to walk together, because one of them is trying to cater to the other, and there is always a person who will change himself to put down the bottom line to cater to the connivance and gentleness.
Not everyone is born with a good temper, just afraid of losing you, only prefer to spoil you more and more badly, trapped in the arms of love in the heart, love a person in the heart without regret, feel just the original intention, the loved one has no shame in his heart, it feels very natural, Zhou Yu hits Huang Gai, one is willing to fight a wish, this is love, this is love.
Therefore, when I read Zhang Ailing's words when I was young, I was very puzzled and felt incredible, why would I love someone humble to the dust and be full of joy? Too spineless, too self-respecting, full of doubts.
When you are older, you have experienced the mental journey of loving and being loved, and slowly realized the sacredness of love and the heaviness of love. Reading Zhang Ailing's love story again has a different taste.
Zhang Ailing and Hu Lancheng, one was the most famous female writer in Shanghai at that time, the other was an important member of the Wang puppet government, in the chaotic world, their acquaintance, acquaintance, love, and final breakup, can be called a "legend". Hu Lancheng because he admired Zhang Ailing's talent, he felt sorry for each other, because they knew each other, so they understood, the two had a sense of friendship, and achieved a love. But Hu Lancheng is a gentleman, and while interacting with Zhang Ailing, he is also ambiguous with other women, which makes Zhang Ailing very painful, but still endures.
Zhang Ailing's love is the most kind, she is devoted to Hu Lancheng, see herself as very small and humble, pay for him all without complaint or regret, as long as Hu Lancheng is happy, she is willing, happy for this kind of payment, happy in her heart.
Love is not used to restrain the other person, nor is it used to defeat the other.
But love is a force, and love is a broad, flexible, enduring, strong force.
Between men and women, there is no superiority to be divided, who is better than whom, who loves whom more, who pays more. None of this matters.
How many people have you loved before this, and how many more will you love after that?
There is no way to calculate the past, no way to predict the future, only in this day and age, whether you are single-minded and keep this feeling that has no utilitarian interest in the world.
If the deep love of the other party is taken as the key to the constraint, it must be an extremely sad thing for both parties.
Loved people are not respected and cherished. Behind the arrogance of the beloved, what the beloved gets is vanity. Happiness, far away from the mountains and heavy waters.
In the beginning, when all people gave, they said that they had never asked for anything in return. And, no resentment, no remorse, no anger, no blame.
However, in the end, all people want to get a corresponding return for what they have to pay, and even more. Just because I have been giving, I have not been considerate.
Love is actually tolerance, and love is actually casual.
In fact, personality incompatibility is just an excuse for not loving, we must know how to cherish and protect everyone around us, and look back five hundred times in the past life in exchange for the encounter in this life.
People who truly love you will not only focus on your body or wealth, but more concerned about your emotions, you will be distressed when you are tired, you will not be able to bear it when you are sad, you will give in when you are spoiled, you can endure it without reasoning, this is true love.
No matter how close a feeling, there will also be misunderstandings and differences, there is no husband and wife who do not quarrel, only a family that is not harmonious, angry, can not solve any problem, roaring, the pain is the heart is split is love, cold war, will only let the contradiction escalate indefinitely, warm a heart takes many years, cool a heart as long as a moment.
Some reason, let a let go of the past, some words, endure a tolerance will be harmonious, some things, ask a question is clear, give each other a chance, is the crystallization of the sublimation of love, give love tolerance, is your love to be loved a part of understanding, mutual tolerance, mutual forgiveness, mutual acceptance, cherish with heart, feelings are good, will not give up, life is originally love, willing to be happy.
The power of love is so great that for a love, it can be humble and small, but in the heart it is willing to bear the torment and pain of love.
Life is very long, why should it be so difficult for yourself, since you can't hold the hand of your son, and grow old with your son, why not let go? He forgot about the smoke and water, and he was sorry that the white colt was racing towards it. Since there is no reason, let's forget about each other and give each other a blessing!
In a relationship, if two people are happy with each other, it is the happiest thing in the world.
But reality is always to create and trick people, there is always a person with deep affection, persistent pursuit, let go of reticence, let go of self-esteem, let go of pride, lower his body to please the other party, please each other, just to please the other party is satisfied.
But if you are well, it is a sunny day! This is the highest state of love!