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With the development of society and the popularization of social networks, the discussion of gender relations has gradually deepened, especially after the concept of independent women has become more and more popular, and there have been some changes in the interpretation and response to marriage and love issues.
From the perspective of big data, the stability of the current relationship between the sexes is greatly reduced compared with the past, and the divorce rate has risen and the marriage rate has declined, reflecting not only the transformation of society, but also the change of ideology and concepts.
People are gradually realizing that idealized marriage is difficult to be compatible with self-attention, so more and more people are beginning to accept the problems that may arise in marriage and love.
Younger generations, in particular, become more rational, more focused on enjoying the moment, and respond more calmly when problems like third parties arise in them. To know that in the past era, there are very few who can calmly accept and calmly face this situation, and what we want to talk about today is a woman with a very strong bone, Sheng Peiyu.
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Sheng Peiyu was born in 1906, the family is a highly prestigious family in Jiangsu, her grandfather Sheng Xuanhuai is a businessman, accumulated a very deep family business, knee children in groups, can be said to be a winner in life.
Born in such a family, Sheng Peiyu was of course a brocade from childhood, but heaven not only gave her an enviable family background, but also gave her outstanding appearance, among the relatives and friends, Sheng Peiyu's fresh and lovely appearance always made her the focus of everyone.
Sheng Peiyu has a cousin named Shao Yunlong who is similar to her age, and although she has heard about her cousin before, the family is big and the people are mixed, and the two have never met.
The first time the teenager saw his cousin was at Sheng Xuanhuai's funeral. It should have been a serious and solemn occasion, but fate is sometimes so inappropriate, Shao Yunlong had a heart-pounding feeling for her at the first sight of Sheng Peiyu, and the teenager who had just opened his heart opened the door to the emotional world and began to secretly crush this sister.
How deep is Shao Yunlong's feelings for Sheng Peiyu?
Because the two people were still young and did not know each other well, Shao Yunlong did not rush to make this feeling public, he silently put his infatuation in his heart, through various possible ways to get the news of Sheng Peiyu, he also changed his name for the love in his heart.
Because he read Pei Yu Qiongju's description in the poetry classic, he felt that his name was really incompatible with such a beautiful word, so he simply replaced Yunlong with another word that expressed beauty, so he had the name he had been using since then, Shao Xunmei.
Shao Xunmei's family was also a prominent lintel at that time, but he himself was somewhat different from the children of the same clan, others were keen to make friends with high officials and learn to do business, but Shao Xunmei was interested in literature and poetry.
Friends around him are engaged in writing work, Shao Xunmei himself often writes poetry, left a lot of good works, in the literati circle has a lot of fame, often people compare him with Xu Zhimo, think that his poetry is comparable to the latter in literary value.
At the age of seventeen, Shao Xunmei finally revealed this feeling that she had cherished for many years, and quickly made a request for marriage to the other party.
From the perspective of family background, the two people are undoubtedly the right person, but Sheng Peiyu's elders have some opinions about Shao Xunmei, they feel that this person is not doing the right thing all day, and there is no way to inherit the family business, so at first they did not agree with Sheng Peiyu to marry.
However, Sheng Peiyu was very fond of his cousin, and he just liked the good literary atmosphere on him.
In the face of the dissuasion of the elders, she is very firm, in her view, the success or failure of a marriage is like the fate of a person, the matter is man-made, as long as she is willing, there is no obstacle that cannot be passed.
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Soon, two people entered the palace of marriage, there was also a sweet time, the world is always changeable, when reaching a certain stage, the relationship between the two people will also go through the test of various problems.
No matter from what point of view, Sheng Peiyu is a very ideal wife, for the husband's career encounters in the unsmooth, she did not exert any pressure, for his emotional coldness, she is also very calm to face, hard to manage and reconcile, but the problem of the third party still appeared.
Shao Xunmei met an American female writer at work, and soon collided with a spark and became a boyfriend and girlfriend.
After knowing the truth, Sheng Peiyu was surprisingly calm, and she not only took the initiative to make friends with this beautiful female writer named Xiang Chinese, but also often invited her to come to her home as a guest, and the three of them lived peacefully under one roof.
Soon after, Xiang Mei left the local area for work reasons, and her relationship with Shao Xunmei ended.
After this, Shao Xunmei and the maid in the family had feelings again, and even with a child, Sheng Peiyu was able to deal with it calmly, which made many people in the know very emotional.
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When Sheng Peiyu faced the marriage change, the response made by many people was very incomprehensible, and her original intention seemed to be mainly to maintain the family.
Almost no one will accept it today, but it can only be said that it is a more decent choice that a woman could make in that era.