In life, if a person wants to truly control his life, he must first keep his own wisdom in mind, and if a person wants to reach a distant place, he must step on the right pedal and have a healthy attitude towards the world.
If we want to be a good person, we should first learn to build a world in our hearts that is free from external objects.
Have their own basis for being a person, the way of doing things, and standardize their own behavior in this way, in order to "everyone is drunk and I am awake", and maintain a sober and rational self.
1, be a person, still water flow deep, tension and relaxation
A person, who has experienced vicissitudes, but still remains silent, responds to changes with no change, and sees everything with wisdom, such a person has a strong heart, and has the calm and calmness of the still water flowing deeply.
As a person, you must first let yourself be "quiet", the power of quiet is invincible!
Jing is not only a kind of wisdom, jing is also the soil that produces wisdom, which is exactly the so-called "jing sheng bai hui.""
As the saying goes, the mind is naturally cool, the "quiet" here is the meaning of quiet, "cool" is a cool, quiet feeling of the heart, we are upset, extremely hot when it is impossible to produce wisdom, so the more critical the moment, the more we have to quiet ourselves, quiet can produce wisdom, wisdom is the power, the power to overcome difficulties.
Being a person, tension and relaxation, in order to be able to retract freely
Everything has a degree, no matter how good things are, they must be stopped appropriately, excessive is a bad thing, being a person is the highest realm, and grasping the size of life is equivalent to mastering their own destiny. Doing things just right is also a not shallow knowledge.
Don't be crazy when you're happy, and don't languish when you're depressed. Do everything to maintain a balance, including your own work, life. Only a moderate life can bring about a healthy body.
For example, drinking alcohol, the right amount is good, excessive will lose nature.
Exercise and fitness in moderation is the best, excessive is the overdraft of the body.
In the face of other people's mistakes, just put them forward, not excessively endless, that is, to be unreasonable.
Don't over-consume, you must earn more than you spend, excessive is for your future list.
When your career is tense, you have to stop and take a break to work hard, otherwise it is an overdraft of health.
Life is also impossible to be completely controlled, just as the so-called "planning in people, success in the sky", there are always some unpredictable things in life, sometimes there is no need to be too attached, it is better to follow the laws of nature, busy when busy, rest when resting.
One by one, the way of literature and martial arts, one by one, one by one, the rational world
2, do things, not impatient, thick accumulation
Quiet is better than restlessness, cold is better than heat, and quiet is the right thing for the world
——— Tao Te Ching, Chapter 45
Restlessness overcomes cold to make people warm, calm victory over heat makes people cool, and quiet and inaction can make the world peaceful and tranquil.
Without rushing to make a quick profit, with a quiet mood, Rome was not built in a day.
Not being disturbed by the outside world, not being trapped by temptation, gaining and losing, success and failure, gathering or dispersing, peacefully accepting all good and bad, indifferent, is a kind of maturity in life.
Pruning potted plants is like life, and you need to observe carefully. Which branches and leaves to cut and which to leave.
Only if you are clear in your heart can you trim it perfectly. And this pruning process, the most taboo is the impetuousness.
If you want to do something, remember not to be impetuous, everything has its own laws, only peace, calmness can accumulate thick and thin, water to the water.
The so-called success is nothing more than the result of thick accumulation
When it comes to thick accumulation, we cannot fail to mention "the law of bamboo".
The law of bamboo is that bamboo has only grown 3 centimeters in 4 years from the day it was alive. From the fifth year onwards, it grew rapidly at a rate of 30 centimeters per day, and in just six weeks, it had grown to 15 meters.
Before it seemed to stop growing, in fact, the bamboo was secretly rooted and had extended hundreds of square meters in the soil.
Those who have been for a long time will fly high, and those who are the first will be xie du early.
The longer the bird lurks, the higher it will fly, and the sooner the flowers bloom, the faster they will wither. We understand this truth, so why worry about the temporary absence of talent? There should be no impatient thoughts of progress.
Not impatient, thick and thin, not sound, a blockbuster
After King Zhuang of Chu succeeded to the throne, for a long time he did not pay any attention to the government, hunting and playing during the day, drinking wine and admiring the moon at night, and after three years, the ministers treated him as a faint prince.
In fact, the king of Chu Zhuang had his own plans, at that time, the Ling Yin of the Chu state was too powerful, he had just succeeded to the throne, his position was not stable, he did not know that those ministers in the dprk were loyal to him, even if he wanted to make a difference, it was difficult to achieve things. Therefore, he simply drank and entertained, and did not ask about state affairs, so that He could make Yin Zhaocheng delusional and think that he was an incompetent person.
There were ministers who advised the King of Chuzhuang, but their words were fruitless, and they could not say anything at all. King Zhuang of Chu did not want to hear it at all, so he issued an order that whoever dared to speak more would be condemned. As a result, no one really dared to speak. In fact, King Chu Zhuang himself was very disappointed in his heart, lamenting that there was not even a minister who was not afraid of death.
King Zhuang of Chu saw the signs and seized the opportunity
Finally, one day, doctor Shen Fearless came to see King Chu Zhuang. King Chu Zhuang then asked him, "What are you here for?" Is it for me to drink or to have fun? ”
Shen Fearless replied, "Someone gave me a riddle that I couldn't guess." The king is very clever, and I hope you can help me. King Chu Zhuang said, "What riddle?" And you say come and listen! ”
Shen Fearless said: "There is a multicolored bird, it lands on the earthen hill in the south, does not spread its wings, does not fly, does not chirp, is silent, what is the name of this bird?" ”
King Chu Zhuang heard that he was metaphorically referring to himself, so he smiled and said, "This is not an ordinary bird." Three years without flying, one soaring; three years without sound, one hit. This cannot be rushed. Shen Fearless prostrated his head and said, "The Great King is wise in the end!" After saying that, he went out.
In the next few days, a few ministers risked their lives to advise King Zhuang of Chu to administer the government, and those ministers said: "If you continue like this, let alone become the overlord among the princes, I am afraid that even those small vassal states will not be able to control it." ”
King Chu Zhuang found that the time was ripe, so he disbanded the band, sent the dancers, and began to exert efforts.
At this time, he had a basic understanding of the political situation of the Chu state and the ministers of the DPRK and the Central Government, he abolished many laws that were not conducive to development, killed five corrupt ministers, including Ling Yin, appointed Sun Shu'ao as Ling Yin, reused Wu Ju, Su Cong, and other loyal ministers, attached importance to social production, developed the economy, and enriched national strength, and eventually became one of the five hegemons of the Spring and Autumn Period.
To make oneself invincible, it is necessary to see clearly one's own situation according to the changes in the external situation, flexibly preserve strength, observe the trend, and calm down to accumulate strength, so that in the end, we can "saw the rope saw the wood, drip through the stone", decisively strike at the critical moment, and win the victory.
Be a person, the still water is deep, the tension is moderate; the work is not impatient, and the thick accumulation is thin.
2021.10.30