<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="1,97" > the New Year, Rui Xiaodan feasted on Ding Yuanying with mixed feelings</h1>
Ding Yuanying after the dissolution of the private equity fund, hiding in the ancient city of seclusion, Rui Xiaodan, who works in the public security bureau of the ancient city, was entrusted by his friend Xiao Yawen to rent a house for Ding Yuanying, Ding Yuanying had no relatives in the ancient city, after he lived, Rui Xiaodan thought that it would not take long, Ding Yuanying would definitely call her, but eight months passed, almost the New Year, she did not have any news of Ding Yuanying, which was unexpected, out of the courtesy of the host, he went to see Ding Yuanying, saw Ding Yuanying carrying a box of convenient noodles upstairs, the big New Year, He only ate instant noodles, which surprised her again, Rui Xiaodan was a little unhappy with Ding Yuanying, but as Xiao Yawen's friend, she felt that she could not let Ding Yuanying only eat instant noodles during the New Year, so she asked her friend, Venus Hotel owner Ouyang Xue to send some fried tofu, croquettes, and fried crispy meat to Ding Yuanying to cook with instant noodles.
Another four months have passed, the rental house is about to expire, Rui Xiaodan went to the South Village Community to help Ding Yuanying to do the renewal of the rental house, in Ding Yuanying's residence she enjoyed Ding Yuanying's "Daughter of Heaven" song, was shocked by the music, felt that she had never heard the music that made her intoxicated, so she decided to buy a set of audio like Ding Yuanying, she asked Ding Yuanying how much the audio, Ding Yuanying said that it was more than 100,000, but later Rui Xiaodan went to several audio stores to ask, and could not find it at all, finally, Invite the small owner of the audio shop Ye Xiaoming to Ding Yuanying's home to see the audio, this is to know, Ding Yuanying's audio value is at least four hundred thousand, in this regard, Rui Xiaodan is very annoyed, feel that she was played by Ding Yuanying again, before Ding Yuanying up to eight months, no news, unexpected, and this time, actually cheated her audio price, let her run all over the audio shop in the ancient city, ugly, but also because of the focus on buying audio and did not have peace of mind to work, bus private use, was ordered by the leadership to suspend and reflect, This made Rui Xiaodan feel a wave of resentment in his heart.
Ding Yuanying and Rui Xiaodan (stills)
On the other hand, Ding Yuanying celebrated the Festival with instant noodles in the New Year, and learned from Ye Xiaoming, the small owner of the video store, that Ding Yuanying's life was difficult, and he had reached the point where he had to sell stamped records. Ding Yuanying was once Xiao Yawen's boss and friend, and Xiao Yawen was Rui Xiaodan's close friend, Rui Xiaodan felt that she did not take good care of Ding Yuanying in the ancient city, and was somewhat sorry, so she decided to invite Ding Yuanying to the Venus Hotel in Ouyang Xue to show her concern for him for the New Year.
Ouyang Xue (stills)
When Rui Xiaodan and Ouyang Xue discussed, they felt that they could not just invite Ding Yuanying to dinner, but also, they had to find a way to vent their grievances for Rui Xiaodan, who let Ding Yuanying fool her. Therefore, they recruited several cultural people in the ancient city who were very good at drinking, and wanted to give Ding Yuanying a little color to see. Therefore, this time the banquet is both an expression of apology and resentment, killing two birds with one stone.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="132" > the crowd toasted and besieged Ding Yuanying, and Ding Yuanying did not refuse</h1>
Rui Xiaodan invited Liu Jiang, a propaganda officer of the Gucheng Public Security Bureau, Wei Tianyi, editor of the Gucheng Evening News, and Du Xiaohui, a reporter from the Gucheng TV Station.
In the private room of the Venus Hotel, after everyone sat down, Ouyang Xue let the waiter serve, after the dish came up, Rui Xiaodan first took a cup of boiling water, and replaced Ding Yuanying with water instead of wine, she said: After drinking this cup of water and wine, what is unpleasant has passed. This obviously means that women do not drink, and men are toasted to drink.
Ouyang Xue and the three cultural people heard the meaning of Rui Xiaodan's words, and Ding Yuanying also understood in his heart that this time the banquet was to make him drunk, Ding Yuanying was silent, picked up the wine glass, and drank it all.
Then, Ouyang Xue stood up, poured a glass of wine, toasted Ding Yuanying, Ding Yuanying gladly accepted, raised the wine glass, and drank it in one sip. After that, Feng Shijie also stood up and sincerely saluted Ding Yuanying to drink, and then, Liu Jiang, Wei Tianyi, and Du Xiaohui also found a very good reason, a cup of respect for Ding Yuanying, Ding Yuanying did not speak, they all drank it in one gulp. Ding Yuanying did not eat a mouthful of food, and this round of wine drank for more than three or two.
There was no toast for a short time, everyone chatted, through the strength of wine, wanton play, Liu Jiang talked about Rui Xiaodan's heroic deeds, and expressed confusion for her behavior, can go to Germany to study such a good thing not to do, but to stay in the ancient city as a criminal policeman. People are drawn up from this topic, talking about pursuits, talking about faith, talking about society, and accusing society of injustice, that they make too little money, and so on. Ding Yuanying did not participate in the chat and kan, he was silent to listen to others talking loudly, and from time to time he drank wine himself. The atmosphere was a bit stuffy.
Ding Yuanying (stills)
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="148" > drinking and composing poems, Ding Yuanying stunned "cultural people" with "self-deprecation"</h1>
Wei Tianyi, the editor of the "Ancient City Evening News", felt that the atmosphere at the wine table was a bit stuffy, and he drank wine in this way, so he proposed to attach himself to the elegant style and drink poetry to help himself, and if he could not say poetry, he would be fined a glass of wine.
At this time, Ding Yuanying asked the waiter to put together six glasses, all filled with wine, he spoke, he said: "Today I thank you for lifting me, I will pay tribute to you again, just drink these six glasses of wine, please let me go, don't let me fall here, the good guys also leave me a fig leaf." ”
Rui Xiaodan, who was very responsive, listened to what Ding Yuanying said, and suddenly felt that she had been pierced by an arrow, and she understood that Ding Yuanying was saying that she was deliberately looking for someone to besiege him to drink, and felt that she had some misunderstandings about her, and also showed an attitude of not giving her face.
Ouyang Xue was a man who understood, and hurriedly stood up to fight the round field, he smiled and said: "Mr. Ding, you can't drink this wine when you leave, aren't you sweeping everyone's happiness?" ”
It seems that it is not okay to leave the table early, and it is not okay to write poetry and gamble wine, and Ding Yuanying was forced to be helpless and had to make lyrics.
Ancient city culture people
Ding Yuanying composed a poem "Bu Operator Self-Deprecating":
Ben is a houshan person, and occasionally acts as a front visitor.
Drunken dancing scripture half a book, sitting in a well said the sky is wide.
Dazhi plays the name of merit, and the sea bucket measures blessings and misfortunes.
When you are shy in your pocket, you are angry and wrong.
This is a very difficult word, very meaningful, in line with the scene at the time, extremely ironic.
As soon as Ding Yuanying's "Self-Deprecation" was said, it stunned the cultural people present, and even Rui Xiaodan was very surprised. Although Ouyang Xue didn't quite understand, from the expressions of the people, he also felt Ding Yuanying's strength. Moreover, everyone felt ashamed in their hearts, they had no place for themselves, they were not qualified to embarrass Ding Yuanying as they had just done, and when they thought about it, they had a fever on their faces!
The three cultural people originally wanted to humiliate Ding Yuanying, a businessman, with their cultural knowledge, but what they did not expect was that the cultural attainment of this businessman was incomparable to theirs, and at this time, it was no longer a matter of writing poetry and gambling on wine, but the three cultural people felt convinced and felt the embarrassment of self-humiliation.
After Wei Tianyi listened, he hurriedly asked the waiter to bring a pen and paper, and he begged Ding Yuanying to say it again, and then he respectfully wrote it down. At this time, Rui Xiaodan felt that she was so childish, stingy, and bored, so under self-remorse, her resentment was completely eliminated; on the other hand, she turned to admiration for Ding Yuanying, thinking that he made her face very bright in front of her friends. When Wei Tianyi was recording Ding Yuanying's words, Rui Xiaodan analyzed the meaning of the words to everyone. Then, Wei Tianyi willingly conceded defeat, he drank several glasses of wine in a row, and he said to Rui Xiaodan: "Wei Moucai is shallow and shallow, and eats your meal in vain." If I had a friend like you, I would never treat him like this. In the end, after he and the other two cultural people said goodbye, gray slipped away, in front of Ding Yuanying, a businessman, he felt that this time his face was humiliated.
Wei Tianyi apologized
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="160" > the "self-deprecating" and "mocking" expressed in the word "self-deprecation"</h1>
The subtlety of "Self-Deprecation" is that it shows both the author's ridicule of himself and everyone present, and it also reminds the literati that they should be "self-conscious."
The first layer of this word is the original meaning of the word: a person who has not seen the world and has no knowledge, because of the chance to ascend to the hall of elegance, he is intoxicated, and he shows off the fur learning in the ten thousand volumes of books, and this is just a hole in the well and the sky, but it is exaggerated, and the sea and the sky show the learning. He thought that his ambition was enough to tease his fame, and he thought that a broad mind could measure the misfortunes of life, but when he touched his pocket and felt shy, he angrily blamed it as an injustice.
The second layer means irony, self-deprecation and ridicule of those present. Ding Yuanying expressed his self-feelings: Originally hidden behind the mountain, it was a reclusive leisure person who did not want to show his face, wanted to figure out a quiet person, but because of chance, he came to the front hall, here is considered to be with everyone in the Hall of Elegance, just a little knowledge, sitting in the well and watching the sky, but after drinking, the sea and the sky are talking big, please don't be surprised. This is an expression of humility, but at the same time, it also indicates that if there is any offense in the words spoken now, please do not be surprised. Then there was a slight sense of ridicule for those present. But those who feel that they have great ambitions often show that they regard fame and fortune as grass and mustard, and seem to be able to see through the misfortunes of the world, but once they find themselves shy in their pockets, they point to the sky, only blame bad luck, do not blame themselves. Just now, when everyone drank the first round of wine, when they were chatting, they had a sigh of injustice in the world, and at this time, Ding Yuanying's words naturally made the cultural people at the wine table naturally feel something.
The deeper meaning is that some cultural people have a poor and sour mentality, and they think too highly of themselves, in fact, they are sitting in the well and watching the sky, thinking that they have great ambitions, in fact, they are self-righteous, incompetent, but complain about the world. Since ancient times, there have been "poor acid talents", they know only half of it, but they are always self-righteous, they sit in the well and look at the sky, but they like to talk about it; obviously they have a narrow vision, but they think they have great ambitions; they have no ability to earn money, and when they find that they are shy in their pockets, they blame others, thinking that the world is unfair and the times are not good.
Ding Yuanying used this remark of his to satirize the poor and sour "cultural people" and reminded the literati to be able to "consciously realize themselves" and have a clear understanding of themselves; the literati have ambitions, but they should not be self-righteous; the literati can be indifferent to Mingzhi, but they must not complain about the world for the sake of profit; the literati can talk about the world, but they cannot think that they are more knowledgeable and learned than others; the literati can have great ambitions, but they cannot despise others because of this.
The poor "cultural people" are those who have no success among the cultural people, who think that they can "make a big show of fame and fortune, and fight for blessings and misfortunes", but "when they are shy in their pockets", they "angrily point out that they are wrong". Ding Yuanying's words point out the weakness of poor "cultural people", which is worth noting.
Literati can engage in all kinds of work, they can do learning, fill in words, and so on, but since they are doing learning, they must be able to be indifferent to Mingzhi, not bound by interests, be able to transcend some, and pursue the truth; literati can abandon literature and engage in politics on the basis of martial arts, like Wang Yangming of the Ming Dynasty, Zeng Guofan of the Qing Dynasty, etc. Literati lead soldiers, called leading soldiers, in ancient times, they may only understand martial arts, but shuai often needs people with cultural knowledge to serve, and military commanders need to be educated. In modern times, literati can become Confucian merchants, like Ding Yuanying in "The Distant Savior", is an excellent Confucian businessman, he is a businessman, but his cultural knowledge is extraordinary, whether it is writing poetry and filling words or talking about the way of management, talking about Confucianism, Taoism, and interpretation, it is not comparable to ordinary literati. The three literati of the ancient city were loaded in the box of the Venus Hotel, which was not surprising, and It was not surprising that Ding Yuanying's knowledge and talent could be compared with Wei Tianyi, the editor of the "Ancient City Evening News", and the other three people. Among the literati, the "poor acid talent" is the most useless, thinking that they have high ambitions and detachment are false; they only know how to talk about it and are unwilling to do things in a down-to-earth manner; they have no real ability, but they often complain about the world and blame the injustice of heaven.
Ding Yuanying's "Self-Deprecation" not only made Wei Tianyi feel a fever on his face, but also reminded the literati to be able to "realize themselves", the ability is not blown, it is done in practice; knowledge is not used to show, but to let people use it to make practical effects.