Looking at others is not pleasing to the eye, it is not enough self-cultivation. Life in the world, less and more inverse, a lifetime is not easy, do not always live with others, let alone with yourself. In a person's life, there is always unfinished knowledge, there is always a truth that cannot be understood, there are always some intentional or unintentional troubles that break into the heart, maintain a calm state of mind, and we will have the whole world.
The truth of life is only hidden in the dullness. Time does not necessarily prove many things, many successes and failures in life, not in the advantages and disadvantages of the environment, but in whether to choose the right position; many of the emptiness of life does not lie in the loneliness of people, but in the loneliness of the heart; many realms of life do not lie in following, but in trying; many of life's searches do not lie in thousands of waters, but in the distance.
Life is painful, don't be lost. Happiness depends on yourself, no one can sympathize with and share your sorrow; strong on yourself, no one will pity your cowardice; try to rely on yourself, no one will accompany you to stay where you are; cherish yourself, others are not willing to squander their youth; all the way through relying on themselves, no one can always accompany you to the end.
In life, there are always many ditches to cross, and we must relax our hearts. In order to see the sunshine, we came to this world, let the wind and rain be used as the clothes of the years, let the heart wander peacefully, without sorrow, without fear. Even if the sun sets, it's not the end, just to welcome the next light.
Calmly watch the flow of water, look at the world coldly, and live a life with enthusiasm. Life is like flowing water, where time takes you, you have to learn to adapt to the environment there. With each step, learn to calm down, look at the flowing water, look at their humility, look at their tenacity, see their liveliness and calmness. Those who are worried about personnel affairs, look at them coldly, let them flow freely, take their own roads, look at their own landscapes, and face everything positively, even if they are sad.
There are no ifs in life, only consequences and consequences. The past is no longer coming back, and the coming back is no longer perfect. Life has its own ups and downs, and you can't lose anything by losing the mood. For the past, do not forget, but let go. Because tomorrow, today is always just the starting line. Life is simple and charming, people's hearts are simple and happy; learning to be simple is not simple. Life is a grand encounter, and feelings without an ending will always end; those who cannot have it will always forget. There is no eternal pain in life, no matter how deep the pain, the wound will always heal. Even if you love deeply in the past, you will become strange as soon as you are separated.
Smiling slightly when misunderstood by others is a kind of quality; smiling frankly when wronged is a kind of generosity; smiling happily when suffering a loss is a kind of open-mindedness; laughing at oneself when you are in a dilemma is a kind of wisdom; reaching a smile when you are helpless is a kind of realm; smiling calmly when you are in distress is a kind of atmosphere; smiling calmly when you are slandered is a kind of self-confidence; and smiling lightly when you are frustrated is a kind of freedom. Whatever happens, let's learn to smile!
There is a kind of understanding called cherishing, there is a kind of romance called plain, and there is a kind of happiness called simplicity. More thinking in life, less confusion. More calm, less trouble. More tolerance, less narrowness. More calm, less regret. The mind becomes simple, the days will be happy, and happiness will grow.
Sometimes we seek more and forget everything we already have. Through life and death, we will understand the importance of health; through gain and loss, we will understand the importance of indifference. Life is to go with the flow, and peace of mind is naturally happiness. If the heart is on the side, looking down on the pain of life, light on fame and fortune, positive and balanced in mentality, asking for something but not asking for something, doing something and not doing something.
Man has two selves, a sick self and a healthy self. The former is lazy and avoidant, the latter is positive. The more mature a person's mind is, the more he can perceive his laziness, the more he can self-reflect, and the more he can find traces of laziness. Sometimes a person thinks he is incomplete, but he is still young.
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