Sweetheart Chen Shan and good girlfriend Zhang Li stayed in two places and got married sweetly, and Yu Xiaowan actually endured grief to witness the marriage, and volunteered to run to the hospital for treatment when his girlfriend was assassinated.
The admirer Zhou Haichao killed his husband Xiao Zhengguo and framed his sweetheart Chen Shan, and Yu Xiaowan actually disobeyed his superiors' will, even if he was deducted from his salary, he had to save Zhou Haichao.
What is even more frightening is that after being rescued, Zhou Haichao later kidnapped Yu Xiaowan and carried out inhumane revenge and abuse on her!
Oh, my God! What kind of fairy plot is this? This scene of "The Farmer and the Snake" is constantly staged, which simply abuses the hearts of the audience.
Yu Xiaowan, played by Kan Qingzi, is also too tragic! It's really heart-wrenching!
Heartache for her efforts, heart for her true feelings, heart for her kindness, heartache for her to abandon everything for love, but also lose all the sadness.
<h1>A woman's greatest pain and suffering is the loss of love and betrayal</h1>
Whether in reality or in film and television dramas, the betrayal of girlfriends and sweethearts is a tragic drama that can make women despair, discouragement, and even collapse, and no longer believe in everything.
And Yu Xiaowan in the play endured the greatest pain and suffering in a woman's life.
I still remember the scene where Chen Shan and Zhang Li got married, which made people feel pain and tears. When the sacred music in the church sounded, Chen Shan and Zhang Li's warm style appeared in the envious eyes of everyone.
However, at this moment, with a burst of footsteps, Yu Xiaowan appeared in the middle of the auditorium. The moment she walked onto the stage, step by step, she could hear the sound of heartbreak.
That's her despair of love!
Chen Shan Ah Chen Shan! How can you do this? Risking my husband's name to make me fall deeply in love with you, but you are far away from others?
It was her disillusionment with friendship!
Zhang Li Ah Zhang Li, how can you do this? You are my sister who depends on each other for life and death, and you trust me incomparably, but you actually took away my beloved person and flew with him?
At that moment, I was in tears. Yu Xiaowan's mood at this moment cannot be simply explained by the loss of love, she is like a knife cutting, she is a fountain of tears, she is discouraged, she is sad and sad.
However, just when everyone thought she would go on stage and make a big fuss, she just said with tears in her eyes that she would bless them and witness their marriage.
And this made Zhang Li and Chen Shan, who "betrayed" her, engulfed in a flood of guilt. It's better to scold them a few times and hit them a few times to make them feel better!
Although Chen Shan has never been just Chen Shan, he is not Xiao Zhengguo, but he has inadvertently used his own goodness to stir up Yu Xiaowan's heart, making her want to knit a scarf for him, want to stop dancing and play mahjong for him, want to put away his sex, give everything to him, and have children to live.
However, the concubine Yilang was ruthless, and Chen Shan loved Zhang Li.
No matter what kind of pain Yu Xiaowan, who has lost his love, can only choose to let go with tears.
I have to say that the powerful actor Kan Qingzi played Yu Xiaowan's bitter love drama too much and too much! Let people follow her heart, for her heartache, with her tears.
<h1>There is a pain called having to let go</h1>
Why can Kan Qingzi play this love-loss drama so movingly? I think it has something to do with her own experience.
It is the actors who have experienced various twists and turns in life that can interpret the true feelings of the characters in film and television works. Because she and the character have similar experiences, with empathy and empathy, she can appreciate the tears and pains that rush out of that moment.
After Yu Xiaowan appeared on Chen ShanZhang's wedding scene, on October 31, Kan Qingzi also posted an article about his experience in filming this scene at that time. She said:
This scene was filmed smoothly, and at the end I crouched in the doorway and suddenly thought of the four words that life is like a drama. Why is the loss of love so tragic? All the beauty of the previous two people no longer exists, and it is even more regrettable that there will be no more in the future, what is the point of living?
Oh, yes! Yu Xiaowan once thought that she and the fake Xiao Zhengguo had a future, and she even mischievously called him "shoemaker", and the days when the two of them usually hated each other and protected each other at key moments were too beautiful!
Oh, yes! Kan Qingzi once thought that she and Ji Lingchen, who had been in love for four years, had a future, and they also had a romance of "you like the sea, I loved you", but in the end they broke up.
When Kan Qingzi filmed this drama, she must have thought of her and Ji Lingchen's love affair that had passed away with the wind and only left sadness in her heart. That's why she acted so deeply and heart-wrenchingly.
How happy it was before, how painful it is now. This is the most painful wound that the loss of love brings to people.
In the days to come, you will remember the troubles you have done together, the parks you have visited together, the flowers and plants you have seen together, and the scenery you have traveled together.
Every time you go to a familiar place, you seem to be able to see his former figure; every time you eat the food you have tasted together, you seem to be able to see the smile that once hung from the corner of his mouth.
However, as netizens said, women who have not lost love are not enough to talk about life.
As long as there has been a vigorous, real love, at least that moment, you have loved him, he has loved you. That's enough!
The pain of lost love is only temporary, and the road of life is still very long. Whether it is Yu Xiaowan or Kan Qingzi, he should not and cannot be immersed in the memories of the past, waste time, and make himself more painful, more hurt, and more sad.
Only when you learn to let go can you continue to look for people who are truly worth cherishing, and truly worthy of your own love.
Therefore, Yu Xiaowan tearfully blessed Zhang Li Chen Shan at the wedding scene, so Kan Qingzi posted:
"There is a pain that has to be let go, but we must still bless each other, do not easily deny their past, after all, they have been beautiful, and I hope that the future is getting better and better."
Yes, the past has become a memory, and things are people and things are not things. Don't worry about what you lose, just experience it! Don't regret what you miss, you have better in the future!
Kan Qingzi's mentality is really worth every girl who is immersed in the emotion of lost love and can't help herself to learn well.
In addition, Kan Qingzi also did a lot of work, retaining the last bit of dignity for his former love and former lover.
It was like Yu Xiaowan said to Chen Shan, "You guys should do it for yourself!" She did not expose Chen Shan's ruthlessness in public, nor did she scold Zhang Li's betrayal, but chose to go all out to rescue them when they needed it most.
Just like Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingchen broke up, some people said that Ji Lingchen transferred his feelings and did not fall in love, some people said that Kan Qingzi forced marriage attempts, she can also come out to end the feelings of both sides to clarify: "No cheating, no adultery, no contract, really broke up, thank you." ”
Indeed, love comes and can be embraced. Love is gone, and I can say let go with tears in my eyes. This is the greatest respect for a relationship, the greatest fulfillment of the former lover.
This is far better than those couples in the entertainment industry who have broken up and are still sarcastically scolding and tearing up. For example, Ma Rong, who has been divorced for so long, often pulls out her ex-husband to sneer, such as The Korean actress Gu Hye-sun, who accuses the other party of cheating and goes to court because of the divorce.
There will always be experiences like lost love in life, and they will teach you some truths.
Falling out of love is really painful, and it is really bitter. But as long as everything collapses in the past, with tears saying let go, the future may not be the phoenix nirvana, the splendor after the rebirth of the fire!
Kan Qingzi, Yu Xiaowan, just by virtue of your life experience and understanding this time, you should praise!
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