As a reality show of family observation, "All the Way to Adulthood" always unabashedly presents real life clips between parents and children, and even the details of the previous two episodes of the show have reached the topic of going to the toilet. Don't get me wrong, of course, the camera doesn't really offend their privacy to record the process of going to the toilet, but records the reaction of the child when he encounters the parent's urging when he goes to the toilet.
When Old Li and Li Wenhan, who got up early to go to sea, finally dragged their tired bodies back to the residence, both of them were ready to take a bath. After Li Wenhan first went to take a bath, old Li waited outside. Later, the sound of the mobile phone came from inside, and Li Wenhan was going to the toilet at this time.
Old Li looked impatient and began to urge. After Old Li urged several times, Li Wenhan did not respond, and Old Li began to urge more intensively, and Li Wenhan lost his temper. After he came out, the father and son continued to quarrel over this matter, and Li Wenhan even made the move of dropping things when his emotions were out of control.
In response to this matter, some people in the barrage think that Li Wenhan is a bit excessive, and should not have this attitude towards his father; others think that Li Wenhan's reaction is very normal, and it is indeed easy to be urged to go to the toilet, and his father is also a little impatient.
Later, Old Li even ran outside alone for a while to sulk, but it was only under the mediation of Li Wenhan's mother who heard the news that the contradiction between father and son was eased.
Coincidentally, in the next episode, Wu Gang's son Yang Yang (Wu Yuqing) also encountered his mother's urging to go to the toilet before leaving, but relatively speaking, his mother's tone was milder, and Yang Yang was also very well-behaved and did not get angry. So this clip passes very briefly.
The program team deliberately cut this content into the main film, and I don't know if its original intention was to compare with the father and son of Li Wenhan in the previous issue. But as viewers, we can certainly feel that the two families in the two episodes have different reactions to the same problem, and we can also think about the reasons for this difference.
The father-son relationship between old Li and Li Wenhan is more similar to the traditional concept of Chinese father-son relationship, the father is generally not good at expression, the son will also have his own small stubbornness, because of the lack of communication and strong personality, so it is easy to produce seemingly unnecessary contradictions in some small things.
However, from the overall program presentation of "All the Way to Adulthood", because Li Wenhan rarely had contact with his father after leaving home at the age of 15, they actually loved you in a state of hard-to-open their hearts. Normal father and son care for each other, they actually have, but they will not show it very directly.
There will be a "toilet incident" where both sides are not doing well enough. Li Wenhan failed to understand in time that his father was already very tired and had to restrain his emotions, and Old Li did not realize that his urging was too frequent and caused pressure on his son.
In contrast, Yang Yang can maintain good communication with his father Wu Gang or his mother Yue Xiuqing, even if he is urged by his mother when he goes to the toilet, Yang Yang is only shy and self-ridiculing after coming out, and will not be angry. It can be seen that the work of ordinary people is very important.
But whether there have been disputes or good relationships have been maintained, "All the Way to Adulthood" shows the growth of parents and children in the process of getting along. And the way they handle the parent-child relationship will also bring some enlightenment to the audience watching the show, whether as parents or children, understanding and respect are always subjects that need to be learned.