There is a very classic story about a father who found that his three-year-old daughter did not like to go to the supermarket at all, and every time she was asked to go to the supermarket, she cried and did not want to go in.
Dad is puzzled: the supermarket is much more fun than the family, and the average child likes to visit the supermarket, but why doesn't the daughter love to go?
One day, he led his daughter to squeeze through the crowd in front of the supermarket, and suddenly found that her shoelaces were open, so he squatted down to tie her shoes. Suddenly found that what appeared in front of his eyes was not a variety of goods, but forest-like thighs and large hands swinging back and forth with angular bags, from time to time to touch his daughter's small face and body, he finally understood why his daughter did not want to go to the supermarket, when he carried her daughter to her shoulders to prepare to leave, her daughter smiled, did not want to leave, it turned out that she saw a beautiful toy. One day, Feng Zikai and her daughter played together, and Feng Zikai asked her: "What is your favorite game to play?" The daughter replied frankly, "Flee." Feng Zikai asked, "Do you know what a fleeing is?" The daughter said: "The escape is the father, mother, brother and aunt together, everyone takes the car to see the big ship."
The experience of helping the elderly and the young to escape was simply unbearable for Feng Zikai, but in the eyes of the child, it turned out to be a very interesting thing, usually rarely had the opportunity to take the car, and sat when fleeing; Usually, I rarely go to the river to see the big steamer, but I saw it when I fled. In the eyes of her daughter, it is a family outing.
So that after the child returned home after fleeing, he often took the pen to draw the car, drew the ship, and in the child's "horizon", the car came and went, which was a game; Arguing, that's a game, they always see something different, we might as well crouch down, look at their world, listen to their voices. Learn more about your child's inner world!