In Mr. Lao She's "Camel Xiangzi", in addition to the protagonist Xiangzi's experience of becoming a "child in the sick fetus of society and a ghost of individualism" from a passionate youth, the death of Tiger Girl also deepens the sad tone of the whole book.
As the young owner of the man and the depot, as the only daughter of Liu Siye, Tiger Lady would not have fallen to the end of one corpse and two lives, and died in childbirth. It's just that she didn't choose right, in those important choices in life, she didn't leave herself a way back, to a certain extent, it can be said that Tiger Girl was forced to die by herself.
She married Shoko and did three things wrong, each of which forced herself toward tragedy and taught modern women a lesson.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="3" >, breaking with his parents for men who don't love themselves, it's silly, and the final retreat is cut off</h1>
It was a matter of course that Tiger Lady looked up to Shoko, who at that time brought freshness from the countryside and was down-to-earth and diligent. Even after receiving the car, they will find things to do by themselves, presumably other drivers will smoke and drink after receiving the car, and they will not be polite to people. Compared with the two, the young and passionate Shoko will be looked at by the tiger girl, which is reasonable.
However, Tiger Girl likes Xiangzi, but Xiangzi does not like Tiger Girl, his plan is to own his own rickshaw, and then marry a diligent and neat wife from the countryside, and his requirements for his wife are incompatible with Tiger Girl. In this case, Tiger Lady used some means in order to marry Xiangzi, she seduced Xiangzi, and also deceived Xiangzi that she was pregnant, and also announced the relationship between the two at Liu Siye's birthday banquet, causing Liu Siye to lose face. In the end, the father-daughter relationship broke down, and Tiger Lady married Xiangzi as she wished, but broke off relations with her father Liu Siye.
This is the beginning of the tragic end of Tiger Girl, who abandoned her father Liu Siye for a man who did not care about her. Although Liu Siye was not a qualified father, he delayed Tiger Girl's marriage in order to let Tiger Girl help him take care of the business of the car yard. But he is, after all, tiger girl's father, and his father is more reliable than a man who does not love himself. Compared with the poor Xiangzi, Liu Siye can guarantee the life of the tiger girl. If Tiger Lady hadn't severed her relationship with Fourth Master Liu, her final outcome might not have turned out like that.
Women must remember that no matter how bad the mother's family is, it is also her own mother's family, parents love their daughters, it is unconditional, no one can replace. Your man may count you out, but your parents won't.
Don't be stupid enough to break off relations with your parents for a man who doesn't love you, and after many years, you see through the man's heart and realize how impulsive you were and how much you love your brain.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="3" > Second, no matter what kind of man she marries, women should have their own private money</h1>
What is the most reliable thing for a married woman? Not parents, not husbands, but money. No matter how much your parents care about you, it is not good to meddle in the affairs of the little two. The husband may divorce and cheat, but his own money will definitely be his own in the end, and others will not be able to take it away.
Unfortunately, Tiger Lady did not understand this truth, she had just severed her relationship with Liu Siye, and when she and Xiangzi had just married, she had four or five hundred oceans of her body, and these oceans were her guarantee.
But she had lost even that guarantee. She used the money to buy two new houses framed and whitened, and bought a rickshaw for Shoko.
In the courtyard where she lived, Tiger Lady felt proud that she was the only one who had food and clothing, did not have to worry, and could walk around.
She raised her face high, and brought some scraped bone meat, frozen cabbage, raw bean juice, donkey and horse meat into the house, and she spent her own body because of these foods.
One after another, the body she originally carried with herself is nothing left, the loss of this money, indirectly led to the final end of the tiger girl, if she still has some body, in the time of difficult childbirth, she does not have to go to the hospital because there are not dozens of oceans, can only be fooled by the toad Immortal Chen Er's grandmother, and finally dystocia.
For Tiger Girl, money is more reliable than Shoko. Shoko does not love her and hates her, so Shoko cannot guarantee her life, but money is OK, but she does not even keep the money, and finally can only die tragically.
No matter when a woman, she must leave some money for herself, reach out to others for money, and look at other people's faces, but she has money in her pocket, and she can spend it as much as she wants, without relying on people's sniffles. Even at critical moments, you can save your own life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="3" > Third, excellent women understand the transformation of identity before marriage and after marriage, enjoy blessings, and also suffer hardships</h1>
Tiger Girl's identity has changed greatly, she comes from a wealthy family, her father is the owner of the car dealership, and she is a young owner, and she does not worry about food and clothing.
After marrying Shoko, she became the wife of a poor puller, and it is clear that Tiger Lady did not accept this huge identity transition.
She likes Shoko's youth and hard work, but it is difficult to accept Shoko's life. When she was in the man and the depot, Tiger Girl's life was rich and secure, and after marrying Shoko, her quality of life dropped significantly. This kind of change was difficult for her to accept, in other words, she was too accustomed to her previous life to suffer at all.
In the beginning, it was her body that supported her pleasures.
The book reads:
"She took the bowl, raised her face, and brought these snacks into the house, as if she were a princess of some kind, she had come to enjoy, she could not, would not, did not want, did not want to see the suffering of others." 」
She is not like Shoko, Shoko is a poor boy, know what is difficult, but tiger girl is different, since childhood and good life makes it difficult for her to appreciate the life of the poor.
This is usually the case, and even more so when pregnant.
"Since the beginning of winter, she has not even bothered to get off the kang. Cooking and cooking are entrusted to XiaoFuzi, and in addition to meals, she also has to eat snacks. How much Shoko earned, how much she spent, her demands rose and fell with his money. ”
Although Shoko pulls the car with some input, but the left hand comes in, the right hand goes out, he knows how to save, but it is difficult to bear the cost of the tiger girl.
It was because of tiger girl's happiness that caused her final tragic death, and her superiority became her curse.
From breaking up with Liu Siye, to spending her own body, to enjoying happiness and causing the fetus to develop very large, Tiger Lady never thinks about herself. She blindly made choices about life, but never considered her own way back.
She likes Shoko, but she only thinks about the beauty of their lives, does not consider the ugliness in marriage, and does not think about how the husband and wife live. In this way, she is not prepared for the upcoming life, let alone leave a way out for herself. She did not look forward or backward, her vision was short-sighted, and she eventually went to extinction.
Tiger Girl could have lived a good life and had a good future, at least without having to suffer from life, all because of her blind choice. Since you have chosen, you will not plan for yourself.
Her tragic fate reminds women, no matter when, do not forget to live for themselves and prepare for themselves.
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