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One day at dinner at home, my dad suddenly said to my mom: Thank you! At that time, my mother was stunned and looked at my father very doubtfully, but my father just smiled and did not say anything more.
When my mother washed the dishes after dinner, I saw her secretly wiping her tears in the kitchen, and I must have been touched by my father.
In fact, I am quite envious of them, 22 years old my father married my mother, a flash to help each other through 37 years, they will also quarrel, when my mother is angry, also vowed never to care about him again, but they just did not want to divorce.
Some time ago my dad was sick, he suddenly became very afraid of death, as long as my mom has been away, he will ask where to go, let us look for it.
So his thank you should have been to tell my mother: You have worked hard during this time.
Every time I see them helping each other to the market, I feel very touched, the sunset pulls their backs very long, and they snuggle through the four seasons and walk in the world.
In fact, when my father was young, it was very worrying for my mother, he loved to drink and play cards, every time he had to play a temper after drinking, once he was arrested by the police station, my mother braved the rain in the middle of the night to pay the fine, and when he came back, he said that he would never be able to live anymore, but he still cooked him a bowl of steaming egg noodles.
In a sense, my mom was more like my dad's ferryman, crossing the long river of years and carrying him to the other side of happiness.
I'm 30 years old, and my love affair is not smooth, but I think they are the most beautiful love in my heart.
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In 2016, I was working at a magazine and met a twilight couple by chance. The eldest lady was a bitter man, losing her son at the age of 43, a white-haired person sent a black-haired person, and at the age of 51, she suffered from bone giant cell tumor and had her left leg amputated high.
So sometimes it is lamented that disasters often fall on more unfortunate people.
When I went, Uncle was using a wheelchair to push the eldest bride for a walk, because of the loss of her beloved son, the eldest bride's mental state was not very good, and her memory was very badly damaged.
Uncle Told Me that the eldest lady had never even been out of the county in her life, and he wanted to take him around when she still remembered to please. Later, the uncle really carried the big bride on his back, all the way from Gansu to Shaanxi, with a wheelchair on the road, and stopped to see wherever he went.
After that, they went to Yunnan, Sichuan, Qinghai, Inner Mongolia... Turbulent, but also romantic.
At the last stop, they stopped at the Sichuan-Tibet Line, and considering the physical endurance, the great master did not take the eldest lady to go further. But miraculously, the eldest bride's memory was gradually restored, and many things could already be remembered.
In 2019, Uncle unfortunately suffered from lung cancer, when I saw them again, Uncle was already bedridden, this time, Grandma was not very pessimistic, but very strong to tell me, I plan to use the car to push your uncle, and then go to the place where we went together.
Unfortunately, the eldest lady's wish was not realized after all, and on the day of the uncle's death, the eldest lady shook his hand and said, "Thank you, old man, if there is no you in this life, I don't know how to live." Now you go first, go over there and arrange the row, and I'll be there. ”
Three months later, the eldest lady also passed away, walking peacefully and without regrets.
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You can't live together, but you want to die together, which is probably the most poignant vow in love.
Unfortunately, modern young people treat feelings too sloppily, I once met a couple in the circle of friends, just because the clothes in the washing machine forgot to dry, they proposed to break up, and then complained to each other, each wronged.
When we are in love, we all like to say that we can't leave it, but how many people can understand the meaning of this sentence?
Not leaving, just an emotion, not giving up, is a kind of morality, is to cope with all the unexpected close companionship, it is powerless, but there is moderation.
We blurt out words like old age and life and death, but we rarely realize its weight. For couples, it is a commitment, but also a responsibility, and even a belief in love.
Most of the time we are busy, and our lives will be staggered with many people, but in the end you will find that the only person who can accompany you when you are about to die is your pillow person.
Your children, relatives, they all have their own lives, only husband and wife are the guardians of life.
Your wife, your husband, will spend a lifetime to dissolve the hostility in you, so that you can better understand human beings and understand the world. Husband and wife are each other's ferrymen, she has tempered your past, you have tempered her future.
In the end, two people make lives intertwined, and who's to say that it's not the most romantic thing in the world!
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