Be a person
Get used to silence
And get used to it
A person's life
1
I think that everyone will not talk about some big truths or share some things that they think is good or bad to strangers, and in the face of strangers, they are usually concise and concise, and they can say as simple as they can, and they will never add more nonsense.
Most of the people who often nag you in life are close people, in their words, it is "for your own good", and it is true that "for your own good" is used as a starting point to talk to you a lot of words, and each sentence is followed by a lot of explanations, I am afraid that you will not understand, it is precisely because of this that you feel that TA is very long-winded, making you feel very bored listening.
But the people who are willing to nag you are often the people who want you to be good the most, maybe the method is not used correctly, but the heart is always towards you, hoping that you will take fewer detours and be less hurt. But if you always refuse again and again, disappoint the TA again and again, slowly the TA will begin to be silent, and slowly the TA will get used to this silence, no longer say a lot to you, of course, not as much as the original care about you.
2
The friend's little sister talked about a boyfriend, all aspects of the conditions do not look very good, when the sister's is a little nervous, several times to persuade the little sister to consider clearly, it is best not to be with such a boy, the future will suffer a lot, and this boy has no ambition, there is no special talent, the future to support the family will become a problem.
But the little sister insisted on going her own way, did not listen to persuasion at all, or chose the boy.
After getting married, it is true that there are many problems, the little sister often cries and calls her sister to complain, and the sister also gives her a lot of advice, and there is a way to tell her to learn a little better, and some things should be planned for herself early. The little sister kept nodding her head when she listened, but as soon as she turned around, she forgot her sister's words, and continued to be a little fool in the marriage, often being bullied.
Every time I was bullied, I complained to my sister. But after repeated persuasions, and repeated denials, her sister's patience was worn out little by little, and she sighed helplessly: Some things are fate!
She didn't care about her sister as much as she used to, and every time she complained, she wouldn't be as bitter as before. She only felt that some roads were chosen by others themselves, some detours had to be taken, some walls had to be hit, and she had become the one who provoked dissension by saying more, and it was better to remain silent and quietly watch from the side.
3
No one wants to be a nagging person, always being likened to a mosquito, who is willing to be such a person? It's just that your relatives and important people around you always want to say more, if you always disappoint him, the response to him is cold, or one day he will choose silence.
When a person becomes more and more silent, it means that he sees away and looks down on many things, and is no longer as persistent as before. He gradually understands that everyone has their own way to go, and sometimes talking too much is disgusting. There are many things, there are many words, and if you say it, you always don't meet someone who understands, or silence is the best.
If someone around you always has a lot to say to you, whether it is right or wrong, first listen carefully, when he gives you some good advice, remember to really put it in your heart, don't perfunctory, don't chill the heart of the person who really cares about you.