Divorced for 3 years, my ex-husband contacted me to remarry: this time, it will not be easy for you to get my love
When it comes to marriage, how many people's love begins with the eyes, fading enthusiasm and passion in ordinary days? No matter how good the marriage, if there is no intention to operate and accompany, it will be strange and changeable.
Divorced for 3 years, I still think of my ex-husband occasionally, who called me last week to say something about compounding, but how can I forgive him so easily? It could even be said that I am not going to forgive anymore.
My husband and I met at a dinner party, and we got acquainted with each other later, and he said that he was very fond of me, so we were together. After getting married, I finally quit my job because I was pregnant, and I concentrated on taking the children at home, doing housework, and doing full-time work as a husband and godson.
Husband is the marketing director of a small factory, because of the nature of the work, he has to go out from time to time to accompany guests, all kinds of socializing, career seems to be slowly improving, he is more and more confident to do his own career, but at the same time, the problem is that the time and energy he spends with his family at home is relatively insufficient.
My husband was still drinking, which I knew, and I thought he was just a little polite gesture, but then I found out that he was getting worse and worse in his own world.
My husband knew me before I was a small supervisor in a factory, we got married not long ago, he said he wanted to open a small factory for processing, because the money is not much, so he also supported him to go. Unexpectedly, he still has the potential to start a business, the small factory can actually develop to dozens of people, and two buildings have been built for the family in the back, which is a very proud and decent thing in the village.
Especially once, he called his father-in-law and said that he would let him pick a few young and strong boys in his village to work in his factory, so that he could also help his relatives in his hometown, and second, he also made the old father happy and proud, knowing that he had a fairly good son.
Because I was mainly responsible for taking care of the family, he took care of the factory most of the time, and I believed in him. When people in the village talk about my husband, everyone appreciates it and envies that I can get married without working and have a good husband.
But what outsiders don't know is that the better the business in our small factory, the more our marital problems will be. Because he was getting busier and busier, he didn't have the heart to put my body at home. As a wife, as a woman, how can you endure being snubbed for a long time?
I don't know how other people are, but I don't want to do that anyway.
Later, I talked to him a few times, and he all prevaricated and said, "Now that I have a family, it is time to establish a good career, so many socializing and so many things are basically taken care of by me, we men talk about things, do not drink?" ”
I know no, but he doesn't just drink, but he often drinks day and night, often going home drunk in the middle of the night.
Rather than making more money, I wish he could put more thought into being at home and on me. But every time I say this, the last two people end up arguing, talking more and making more noise, feelings more and more weak, and directly ignoring my existence later.
I also planned to let him care more about the family, but he blocked my words with a word, and even more intensely disliked me for not working, the whole family relied on him to raise, and even once took the child out of anger and gave the child a kick!
I was frightened and got into a big fight with him, and he knew he was wrong, knelt down and begged me for forgiveness, admitting that he was indeed impulsive. I felt sorry for him and gave him a chance, but I didn't expect that a month later, he would behave the same way again, and now, I couldn't bear it anymore.
I filed for divorce and he thought about it for three days and agreed!
Our fragile love ended like this. Originally thought that we would continue to live like this, but it is useless, many couples can only share the pain, can not share the same happiness.
It is easy to persist together under the conditions of hardship and suffering, but after really having material and various good economic conditions, the feelings of two people are often not as precious and solid as before.
After 3 years of divorce, my ex-husband contacted me many times and asked about his intention to remarry, but how could I forgive him so easily? I'm not going to go on, just like this, unless I see if he has changed or sincerity in the future.
In fact, marriage is a very important thing to manage, if either party slacks off, the marriage will not be complete and happy.
Men drink normally, because they have to work to socialize, but don't drink too much, get drunk, drink hurt the body, so it is counterproductive.
Not all wine can be drunk, nor can it be eaten, so marriage needs to be managed with heart, drinking needs to be carefully selected, and decent and high-end can do good things without hurting the body! Don't forget, no matter how busy you are, you need to spend some time with your lover.
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