In 2016, star Xu Ting was diagnosed with acute lymphoma.
In the days when she struggled with cancer, she finally made a statement that made everyone feel sad after watching it.
Xu Ting: "After I learned that I had cancer, I actually felt a little relaxed, but I felt that I was going to be relieved, and I had never lived for myself in all these years." ”
What did she go through that would make this girl who was only 26 years old not even afraid of death?
Even see through life and death?
Xu Ting, young name: Xu Jiani, was born in 1990 in a poor family in Anhui Province, her parents grew tea for a living, the third oldest in the family, and there were two older sisters on the top.
Other people's families are happy to have children, but Xu Ting's birth has not brought any happiness to the family, even disgust.
Xu Ting's parents had extremely superstitious feudal ideas, "they value sons over daughters, believing that only boys can pass on the generations."
Therefore, how much parents look forward to this child (Xu Ting) at the beginning, how disappointed they will be when they are born.
In her childhood, Xu Ting grew up in scolding, and if her parents quarreled, Xu Ting would suffer along with it.
But Xu Ting is unusually sensible, and also eager to get the love and recognition of her parents, and even learned to cook, wash clothes and collect tea leaves at a young age.
But the parents did not feel relieved because of Xu Ting's understanding, and the parents still wanted a boy.
Subsequently, in the next ten years, the parents gave birth to three younger sisters to Xu Ting, until finally gave birth to a boy.
The husband and wife must be overjoyed when they are old, and they also have to hold a banquet when they borrow money.
Of course, Xu Ting was also very happy to have a younger brother, but Xu Ting did not know that the birth of her brother was the beginning of her tragic fate.
Xu Ting's parents obeyed the boy, what he wanted to buy, and there were a lot more expenses in life.
Coupled with the sluggish tea picking market that year, the father borrowed a lot of money to meet the basic life of 7 children.
Her parents even hoped that Xu Ting would give up her studies to earn money to supplement her family, when Xu Ting knelt down and prayed, saying that she wanted to complete her college dream.
If he couldn't pass the exam, he would go home to help, and finally his father agreed to Xu Ting to continue studying.
In 2009, 19-year-old Xu Ting was successfully admitted to the performance department of Sichuan College of Media and Communications through hard work, without learning the basics of acting for a day, with the excellent results of the first place in Anhui.
But school needs money, and the sensible Xu Ting does not dare to ask her parents for tuition, in fact, she knows that even if she wants money, her father will not give it to her.
After graduating from high school, Xu Ting consulted with her parents and worked to earn tuition fees.
Selling in the store during the day and serving plates in the restaurant at night, Xu Ting was able to enter the university door as she wished.
During xu ting's school years, she studied acting hard and looked forward to the opportunity to participate in TV dramas.
Later, the teacher saw her efforts and recommended her to shoot a mooncake advertisement.
And because Xu Ting looks very similar to Zhao Yazhi, she is called "Little Zhao Yazhi" by classmates and netizens.
Xu Ting was famous in school and earned 6,000 yuan, but she saved enough tuition for the second half of the year and sent the excess money to her hometown in Anhui. She hopes that her parents can alleviate some of the stress in life.
But just when Xu Ting was looking forward to a better future, she received a call from her father.
Father: "My mother and I did some business, failed, there are a few sisters in the family, only you are the most successful, find a job, help the family." ”
It is said that after Xu Ting went to college, in order to provide a good living condition for his son, his father borrowed money everywhere to do business, and as a result, he did not run well and lost hundreds of thousands of yuan.
Xu Ting has been a responsible girl since she was a child, and she is sad to learn this news, and she is sad for her parents.
Although he was helpless, he left the school.
Xu Ting took the only 300 yuan of cash left on her body and started the life of North Drift.
In the process of Xu Ting's north drift, she lived in a damp basement, slept in the grass without a tent, ran through the dragon set to the movie city, and often ate the last meal without the next meal...
But she sent all the money she earned to her parents.
At that time, Xu Ting seemed to be back to a year ago, looking for work everywhere in order to earn money.
However, this time Xu Ting is not for herself, but to repay her parents.
After that, Xu Ting felt a lot of pressure, she did not dare to let herself rest, sometimes tired to the point of breathlessness and insist.
In 2010, 20-year-old Xu Ting participated in the "Chinese Daughter Hongqiao Township Beauty Model Contest", and the results were not very satisfactory, and won the top 50 in Chengdu.
In the same year, director Lu Chuan began filming "The King's Feast" and openly cast the role, Xu Ting did not give up this opportunity, and won the top 20 in the three districts of Chengdu at that time.
Later, I heard that you Xiaogang's TV series "The Secret History of Xi Shi" was selected as an actor in the country, that is, she only won the top 30 in the country.
Perhaps it is her parents who force themselves to earn money, Xu Ting must rush forward, she also believes that as a member of the family, and as a sister, she must pay for the family.
At the age of 21, Xu Ting participated in the "Miss Oriental Beauty Pageant", but this time she won the top 8 of the national finals.
Work harder than ever, better than ever.
The directors also found this beautiful and motivated girl and began to invite her to participate in their own plays.
In 2012, the 22-year-old Xu Ting starred in the TV series "My Father and Me" with Zhang Yishan and Yang Zi for the first time.
In the play, Xu Ting plays (Lin Ranran) Yang Zi's girlfriend, her interesting and real personality characteristics, so that she is very popular with the public for the first time on the screen.
And Xu Ting and Yang Zi have also become good friends and good girlfriends in private.
Xu Ting also earned the first bucket of gold in her life, she was happy to show off to her parents, but her parents said: Hurry up and call the money, you shoot a little more, our account can be repaid.
At the end of the year, Xu Ting transferred the 50,000 yuan she earned to her mother's passbook, and then continued filming.
The next year, Xu Ting, Liu Yan and Qian Feng starred in "The Little God Is Coming", Xu Ting played a couple with Qian Feng in a wheelchair, and her chuchu and moving appearance attracted many fans.
Since then, her parents who have tasted the sweetness have constantly urged Xu Ting to take over the play, so Xu Ting is willing to take any play, as long as she gives money, she will act.
However, filming is not as simple as it seems, sometimes a shot has to be filmed repeatedly,
In winter, Xu Ting still soaked in cold water.
Any of them had flaws to start all over again, and Xu Ting had no one around to help her, so she could only wait in the water.
But even though her body was in different degrees of pain, she persisted.
When there is an activity, Xu Ting can only sleep for 3 hours, sometimes answering the phone in the middle of the night, even at 2 a.m., she also has to get up and put on makeup and leave.
Her eyes are also inflamed often when she stays up late, but she seems to be "a small strong who can't die" and has always been very strong.
After that, Xu Ting successively co-produced works with stars Shen Mengchen, Di Li Reba and Guan Xiaotong.
According to netizen statistics, Xu Ting has received dozens of TV series in three years, and she even received more than Liu Xiaoqing during her peak period.
But Xu Ting worked so hard and did not get the care of her parents.
Once, Xu Ting did not call her parents in time because of continuous filming, and her mother called the next day.
Saying that the family needs money, let her find a way, and said that the girl can't keep money on her, and it is dangerous to go out.
But the seemingly concerned statement, in fact, subconsciously the mother just wants money, wants more money.
Xu Ting's mother would not know that her daughter had to fly to 5 different cities in a row during filming, and her body was obviously tired.
At this time, Xu Ting not only did not get the care of her mother, but waited for a stinky scolding, and then Xu Ting set an alarm clock on the mobile phone, and at the end of the month, on the 30th, she would be reminded to transfer money to her mother.
Due to the intensity of filming, Xu Ting's waist disc protrusion rested for 10 days, and the attitude of Xu Ting's parents actually began to change.
Occasionally, he would call and ask about Xu Ting's work.
It was in these ten days that Xu Ting felt unprecedented warmth, expressed her feelings on the platform, and thanked her mother.
Then Xu Ting heard that her father was going to buy a house for her brother, and Xu Ting gave all the money she had saved in the past two years to her parents.
Xu Ting also wanted to prove herself, and she was also willing to buy a good house for her brother, and after transferring money to her parents, she was only 1,000 yuan in her card at that time.
Xu Ting has always reported good news and not worry, and suffered herself.
From filming to illness, Xu Ting used the money she earned to pay off all the debts owed by her parents, including the tuition fees of her younger siblings.
Even the dowry for her sister's marriage was prepared by her, and it can be said that Xu Ting supported a family of 8.
In 2016, the 26-year-old Xu Ting collaborated with Zheng Zhongji on "Funny And Wonderful Nights", but then was diagnosed with acute lymphoma!
It was sudden, but it was also fate!
The cause is that the paint used by the younger brother to decorate the house is unqualified, and the parents did not use qualified products in order to save money, which indirectly induced Xu Ting's condition.
At that time, my parents and brother and two sisters all developed cough symptoms and went to the hospital for examination.
The final diagnosis was confirmed as formaldehyde poisoning, and Xu Ting was the most serious one.
In fact, the reason why Xu Ting is more serious than others is because her immunity is worse than normal people, but it is not excluded that she has been tired from filming for many years.
After the diagnosis, the doctor suggested that Xu Ting be hospitalized immediately, and gave a treatment plan, saying that through chemotherapy treatment, the minimum mortality rate is not 100%.
But what is infuriating is that after Xu Ting was diagnosed with cancer in the hospital, her mother strongly opposed it and dragged Xu Ting away.
The next day, Xu Ting's mother took Xu Ting to the Affiliated Hospital in Shanghai, but she was still diagnosed with acute lymphoma.
My mother called someone from her hometown in Anhui and heard that Chinese medicine was more effective than Western medicine.
So Xu Ting's mother took Xu Ting to live in the Academy of Chinese Medical Sciences, and carried out cupping, gua sha, acupuncture every day...
The pain of the disease made Xu Ting miserable every day, and she was scraped by the doctor thousands of times a day.
The aggrieved Xu Ting wrote with tears, saying that her pain was unbearable.
However, at that time, Xu Ting's second sister actually calmly recorded a video, and even wanted to rub the heat, and sent it to the circle of friends.
This kind of behavior made Xu Ting very cold, but after all, she was her own sister and did not say anything.
Xu Ting had a hard time every day, and she even shivered when she saw the doctor come over, but she didn't dare to say.
Due to a large number of cupping, bloodletting and acupuncture, Xu Ting's condition suddenly occurred, and finally led to serious lung and skin infections.
Xu Ting's condition worsened and blisters appeared on her body, so her mother took her to the 304 Hospital in Beijing.
When she arrived at the Beijing Hospital, Xu Ting was suddenly relieved and acted unusually calm, and she said that she was very relaxed.
Never felt this way before:
In the past 26 years, it seems that she has never lived for herself, her parents have a total of 7 children, she ranks third in the middle, since she began to go to college, the tuition fees are earned by herself, after being diagnosed with cancer, it is so relieved...
There is no doubt that Xu Ting's grievances and regrets are not revealed between the lines, she is actually very eager to live, hope to get the love of her parents, and long to be cared for.
Maybe she knew her time was running out—
But Xu Ting's mentality is very optimistic, in the hospital, even if she knows that her chances of survival are unlikely, she still insists on treatment.
The process of chemotherapy is very painful, and she also said that she believes in miracles and believes that good people have good rewards.
Xu Ting also said that everything is predestined, and she does not blame anyone.
But netizens are not vegetarians, the post was quickly reprinted, and many netizens began to stand up for Xu Ting.
Netizens said: Xu Ting is simply a realistic version of Fan Shengmei!
At the same time, Xu Ting's parents and her 6 brothers and sisters were exposed, saying that they got it for nothing, enjoyed their success, did not understand gratitude, and even fell into the well.
At this time, Xu Ting's second sister also quickly removed Xu Ting's video and said that she was very sorry and did not expect things to be so serious.
After Xu Ting saw the comments of netizens, she also vigorously defended her family, and even replied in the comments: Don't hurt my family and brother!
Although netizens are very angry, in order to let Xu Ting walk peacefully, they are also willing to let her family go.
In the following month, Xu Ting's physical condition became worse and worse, and she lost only 78 pounds!
Occasionally you can sit up and eat something, but soon spit it out, netizens hurt Xu Ting, bought her a kitty cat she likes, and wished her a speedy recovery.
However, when Xu Ting was admitted to the hospital, the lung infection was already very serious, and the doctor could only postpone her death.
Later, various parts of Xu Ting's body ulcerated, and the mother did not know what she was busy with, often not around to wait for her daughter, until the daughter died, the mother could not see her daughter for the last time.
In September 2016, Xu Ting's condition deteriorated sharply, and finally the rescue was ineffective, and she died at 3 p.m. on September 7, at the age of 26!
Because Xu Ting signed an organ donation agreement in 2013, her organs were also donated to people in need after her death.
Subsequently, netizens expressed heartache, regret, anger...
Netizens said: Now that the idea of preferring sons to daughters has long ceased to exist, why should the couple do this to Xu Ting, and it is still their own daughter.
After Xu Ting's death, her parents even wanted to let their son enter the entertainment circle through hype, but the two thought too simply.
The reason why Xu Ting can be recognized by everyone is because of her hard work and kindness.
Not everyone can be a star casually, and then Xu Ting's brother was cursed and did not dare to appear in front of the public.
Poor Xu Ting, even after her death, was used by her parents as a money-making machine, and if Izumi had knowledge, she would be more sad.
In the end, I only hope that heaven will not be sick, and I also hope that Xu Ting will reincarnate into a happy family in the next life and be a little princess who is loved by her parents!