I saw this video yesterday, although I didn't see much information in the video, but the pain of despair as a mother made people feel tormented across the screen: as a mother, I worked hard to pull the baby to the age of 5!
Almost every time students take a vacation, various safety accidents occur frequently, and many cases are impossible to let go.
Just some time ago, there was an old man in the community who committed suicide, the reason is that the grandson of the family fell from the third floor, although the child was saved, but caused serious sequelae, basically the probability of standing up in this life is very small, and the child is just 4 years old... As a grandmother, she did not look after her grandson, could not face the reality of her grandson's paralysis, and finally committed suicide.
This parent is definitely very painful now, we prefer to pray for the twins to have good results, what we have to do is: how can we let the common sense of safety protection make the baby understand?
Safety Education Platform of China Education Association
About two years ago, the baby at home was 3 weeks old, and then climbed the window, because on the fifth floor, the first time quickly installed anti-theft windows, in fact, more precisely, the security fence. I remember when the master said to leave the guardrail door, my first reaction was: quickly lock it.
But then it was changed to a wire tie, and the idea was that if there was a real danger, the small door key of the safety fence might not be found at the first time. If the key is hung near the window, it provides an opportunity for the ignorant baby to open the small door.
So, when I saw this video yesterday, Yingwu's first reaction was: Hurry to the windows to see if the pincers are still there? Because even if the baby can use pliers, he can't cut the wire on the small door of the guardrail.
For the safety protection of children during the holidays, we remind everyone of a few points:
(1) Whether it is going downstairs to take out the garbage or taking the courier, if there is no adult at home, even if the courier time is exceeded, it is not a big deal to pay more money, and the child cannot be left alone at home. In fact, many times we always feel that the child is fine, and even think that their baby is very smart, in fact, this kind of fluke psychology really can't have!
(2) Pay close attention to the baby's cognitive development level. Yingwu was previously because of the baby at home, paying special attention to developmental psychology. According to the developmental psychology of 3-6 year old babies, their cognitive development level, the main sign is: this time the baby appears self-centered thinking. The so-called egocentric thinking here, in other words, is "seeing the world from your own perspective" and looking at everything. At this time, the baby is only interested in a certain aspect of a certain stimulus, that is, an incomplete "centralization". Even if we have told the baby that opening the window guardrail will be dangerous, but if you know that the mother is downstairs (or think that the mother is out, you should be able to find it downstairs), this time the protective window is not the focus for the baby. Instead, it is possible to "find" mom through the protective fence.
Therefore, as parents, we must pay attention to the baby who has just entered the middle school, we must not let the baby be alone at home, we must have adults at home.
(3) Safety education, which is a common topic, many parents are either busy at work, or feel that there is not much effect, safety education is only a verbal warning. In fact, safety education can also be carried out by our parents through the following ways: buy more picture books for safety education, combined with the situation at home, parents "accompany" their children to read books together, and together at home they find out which are dangerous actions and which cannot be touched?
Of course, there are still many big cities that have safety education experiential education, and you can also let children participate more, but now that the epidemic is affected, it is best to watch and write animated educational short films online.
Hearing the hoarse voice in the video, I really feel desperate, what a career, what a big house, the safety and health of the child is the most important.
The holiday has begun, each of us parents must stare at the baby around, especially the 3-6 year old baby, this time is too naughty, even if there are adults in the room, once the house is suddenly quiet, as a parent must go to see, this time either the child is asleep, or is destroying things or painting on the wall, or there may be an accident.
In any case, we must do a good job of protection and look after the baby around us!