Two kinds of people, two attitudes to life!
Since ancient times, there have always been people who say that "life is not satisfactory nine times out of ten", for this negative attitude, according to our current values, for this kind of negative handling is always with a spitting mentality, and the other is to face anything, the mentality is "the bridge to the bow of the ship is naturally straight", we will always praise the latter, of course, optimistic treatment is of course good, but too optimistic, it is also particularly fatal. Too pessimistic, let alone, at every turn will doubt the purpose of existence.
Whether it is too optimistic or too pessimistic is not advisable, only to let yourself calm down, to integrate optimism and pessimism into it, this is the realm of "not to be happy with things, not to be sad with yourself", in such an attitude to life, you can better seize every opportunity, especially the opportunity to change your destiny.
So no matter what state you are in at this time, if you feel that everything is not going well, don't think about "resigning yourself to fate" to escape, first of all, you must recognize yourself, examine the current situation, and see if you have these three signs. If you meet, then congratulations, even if there is only one kind of that, it is also worth celebrating.
first. Missing out on old love, let's find new love.
Every mature love needs careful care from both sides, and love is not only the most beautiful soil, but also the catalyst that prompts people to slide into the abyss.
Although in today's life, people who love vanity abound, people are lost in money and desire, but there are still some people who have no doubt about the loyalty to love, often many people will devote themselves wholeheartedly when they meet her "He", thinking that this is the person who accompanies them for a lifetime, of course, there are often some people who finally lose their armor.
In recent years, too many people in life have betrayed their love, and they can't think of losing their lives, and even want to use their lives to save their other half, and the results are often tragedies.
For those who are dedicated, the other half is the sky, once lost will have no direction, at this time what to do will lose motivation, that is, life will be out of color, if at this time a person into your life, become your new support, it will get new motivation, of course, this is a very small probability, but once you encounter it means that you are lucky, to learn to be content and grateful.
second. Dragon swims in the shoals, without any directional target.
Life ups and downs, the trough period is often unavoidable, we must understand that many people's trough period is caused by their own hands, do not know how to judge the situation, opportunities are always flowing, details of factors can often determine success or failure.
We always hear people in our lives complaining that "life is too stressful... If I am born well, I can also succeed" and so on, or fate is unfair to me, not to give myself the opportunity to succeed.
All day long is either complaining about this or complaining about that, in fact, the root cause is because of not examining one's own problems, which is tantamount to ignoring one's own incompetence and blaming these faults on God, pushing them to the illusory fate and social injustice.
Suppose we are at a low point in life, this is an established fact, accompanied by certain failure, optimistic people will look to the future, face the difficulties, and find ways to minimize the immediate losses; if it is a pessimistic person, it will feel like this! After all, giving up, running away will be simpler.
Many people will be oblivious in the trough period, without seriously thinking about their current situation, is there really no way to change? As the saying goes, "a good man three gangs", have you taken the initiative to seek help? No one will reprimand you or provide a way to help you out of the predicament, if you notice, then congratulations, this is a sign of your luck, if you do not notice, then you will continue to fail.
third. Sick and sick, there is no cure for itself.
"Disease" is strictly wide-ranging, can not be cured, requires long-term drug control to maintain, such as diabetes, need to pay attention to diet, but also after years of medication, convalescence.
People's body from the inside out has been in a state of "discomfort", who will be very uncomfortable, in this state to do anything will go downhill, in the trough period is also a common thing, after all, the body is the capital of the revolution.
If you wake up, the stubborn disease that has been wrapped around the body for many years is cured, and the whole body is in a happy state, I believe that for any patient, it is happier than winning the jackpot.
The old saying that "people are refreshed when they are happy" is what this means. The mental outlook comes up, the work life can have motivation, and the living conditions will become better and better, so if the stubborn disease is not cured, this is also a precursor to good luck.
epilogue
Most of our luck is in a bland state, there will be no ups and downs and there will be no surprises and surprises, but what about others who work hard in order to achieve outstanding achievements under the same conditions? This is to look at ourselves, find our own problems, and actively face corrections, perhaps in the near future, these three signs of good luck will also take care of you.
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