My sister met my brother-in-law when she was working, and the two of them had a good relationship, and when they returned to their hometown, they got married. Simple and happy wedding, I envy. I felt that I would have to find my brother-in-law when I looked for my husband in the future.
After marriage, the eldest sister gave birth to a son, and when her son was drinking in the full moon, she sent her guests across the street and was hit by an oncoming car on the spot. I stood behind her, and the moment my eldest sister was hit, she pushed me away. I was holding my eldest sister's child in my arms and I fainted on the spot.
The eldest sister was gone, and she walked away with hatred. My brother-in-law broke down and stayed at home for days without eating or drinking. I held the child that my sister had left behind, looked at my brother-in-law, looked at the child, and I said to my brother-in-law: I will help you with the child. After 3 years, I offered to marry my brother-in-law. The family did not have any opinions, and looking at the child's sake, the brother-in-law said thank you to me. There was no wedding and we simply moved in together. After marriage, I want to have a child, and my brother-in-law said, don't have children, just have a son. For the sake of my sister who died, I went to the hospital with tears in my eyes and had surgery.
I thought that when I entered this house, I would take the place of my sister to hurt my brother-in-law and hurt my child. Didn't expect me to be wrong.
My brother-in-law would always be alone and drunk, and he said he missed my sister. I said I was here with you, and he said, "You can never replace your sister." I asked sadly: Then why did you marry me? The brother-in-law said: You look like your sister, but you are not her.
When my children grew up, I was troubled inside. The child knows that I am not his mother, just an aunt. When I was a child, he called my mother, now he calls me aunt, I beat the child, I don't have children for you, I don't have children myself, how can you call me aunt?
The child asked to live on campus, and I agreed. In fact, even if I didn't agree, I couldn't stop him. The two of them would look at the pictures of my sister, and the children would listen to their brother-in-law talk about my sister's original affairs. As I spoke, my brother-in-law would cry, and the child said to me: If my mother is sick and dies, it will be forgotten. You send guests together, why is it that my mother died but you are okay? Why did my mom push you away?
I am desperate, the child's rebellious period will pass, he will know my suffering in the future. I knew he would understand me later. But brother-in-law? I've lived for more than ten years, and he never treats me as his wife, only when I'm a sister stand-in. Was my choice really wrong?