One
The matter of eryu said by Lip Critics is known to everyone in Jia Province. Partial readers think that all the people in Jia Fu believe in the marriage of gold and jade.
It was too common for the ancients to believe in Buddhism and to ask for auspicious charms, and to bring a mascot: jade, gold, silver, the iron of the poor copper, engraved with auspicious words, who would pay attention to so much. It's just that the words on the golden lock and the psychic jade are exactly a pair, and Dai Yu has a heart. Daiyu's vinegar intention has triggered Bao Chao to avoid suspicion, and the love triangle has a story.
Anyway, except for these three people, I didn't see any master take it seriously. What a mascot is! Everyone has it, Xiangyun and Qilin it. For the little lover in the temptation stage, the big things are like the sky falling.
Two
But Aunt Xue believed in "golden jade good fortune". Otherwise it wouldn't have been called Baochao wearing it all the time. Bao Chao obviously did not like to wear these gold and silver things.
Aunt Xue believed, so she would mention it to her sister. Otherwise, more than ten years ago, who still remembers it, and knows that her daughter doesn't like it, and asks her to wear it. Aunt Xue and her sister Tijin Lock are the most natural human common feelings.
But faith is one thing, and it is one thing to put into practice whether there is action or not.
With jade talent, who knows who that jade refers to? The monk did not name Jia Baoyu. Aunt Xue's letter is only when someone comes to propose to her, she will ask the matchmaker, is there any jade? If there is jade, even if it is sloppy, it should be done; even if it feels that it is impossible to climb high, it should be; of course, if it is a stupid, poor and disabled person, Aunt Xue may scold: a hateful stinky monk, so as to tease my family.
Also, the author also wrote that Li Feng and Feng Jie joked about Eryu.
If Li Yi is brainless, then Sister Feng is a person who is so fine that she is dying. If she sensed that the Xue family or Lady Wang had this intention, would she still make a blatant joke about Eryu?
The auspicious words of the ancients, four words, five words, and six words, are nothing more than wishing people to rise to higher ranks, get rich, be healthy, safe, and live a long life, and it is easy to put them together as a pair. This is also the reason why Li Feng, Feng Jie and others know that there is a gold and a jade in the garden, but they are not concerned. Only the little lovers will be big as a windmill.
Three
If Aunt Xue's letter has reached the point where Jia Baoyu must not be, then when Jia Mu asked about the eight characters of the birthday, she guessed that it might be a pair for Baoyu Baoqin, and her psychological activities could not be "suiyi", thinking that "it is a good relative".
In her mental activities, there was no loss at all, and Baochao was her biological daughter. If you hope day and night that Baoyu Baochao is a pair, whoever hears that the supreme ruler of the people belongs to another person will have no feeling of loss at all. It even "fulfilled its will". Robbed of the kissing daughter, or is it good?
Moreover, Aunt Xue has a pre-marriage attitude of following fate. After the early death of the husband, people will be more convinced of fate. So, she believes, but she won't fight. She will pay attention to Baoyu, but she will not plot.
Taking a step back, she fully believed in the monk's words, and she believed that the one who had jade must be Jia Baoyu, so she was even more calm. Anyway, I can't run away, what's the hurry, there is a red thread tied to the mile. If you Jia Baoyu runs to the end of the world, he will still be tied up with his daughter.
Four
Fifty-seventh time, "Aunt Ci's love words comfort the idiot":
The mother-in-law also laughed and said, "Although my aunt is a naughty word, she is not bad. When I was idle, I consulted with the old lady, and the aunt and wife actually acted as a matchmaker to ensure that this family affair was absolutely appropriate. Aunt Xue said, "As soon as I come up with this idea, the old lady will like it." ”
Aunt Xue did not go to the media, not because she determined that Bao Yu and Bao Chao were a couple.
Aunt Xue was finally an aristocratic woman who had experienced the world. Daiyu's favorite object is Baoyu. As for Baoyu, there is Jia Mu Yuanchun on the upper level; There is Jia Zheng and his wife on the middle level. Besides, it was a family affair, and no one who was obedient would touch this mold.
If Aunt Xue could really do anything for Daiyu, the most she could do was to secretly test Sister Feng and Lady Wang. Sister Feng's attitude is needless to say. If Madame Wang was unwilling, she would say at most to Daiyu, "That child is still good, it hurts." So I confessed to being my dry daughter." But from the perspective of the sister's relationship, it seems that the sister is more powerful, and I think that Aunt Xue is more likely not to speak.
Therefore, aunt Xue's words, I am more inclined to just comfort at that time. In everyone's life, they will encounter many such small talk, good lies, and uncountable.
Five
In fact, the author is a bit fatalistic. Many things are unintentional and unintentional, and when the final result comes out, it suddenly dawns on me: it was already doomed. For example, the love of two jade. How much energy and heart Eryu put in to win this love, but it backfired, and in the end he was with Baochao. When deciding on the marriage of Jin Yu, Bao Yu heard the news, and he sighed: fate is destined, fate is destined.
From time to time in life, we will also look for clues and traces, regard many things as predestined by heaven, and regard small coincidences as heavenly arrangements to dispel regrets and pain in our hearts. This deep regret and pain, I think, there is no better and more delicate than Cao Xueqin's writing - the coincidence of the marriage of jin and jade, the highly compatible love between the two jades before the wood and stone, and the dislocation of the two makes "the end of the meaning difficult" get the deepest interpretation.
Zhang Ailing's "Half Life" can be said to express this emotion very well, but the dislocation between the two in her novel is promoted by the villain (instigated by the sister and raped by the brother-in-law). For this misalignment, people can use anger to solve it, more sense of justice, but less regret and pain in people's hearts that cannot be discharged.
Most of us ordinary people are still like treasure jade, with people who do not love each other. It's just that the reasons are different, some are weak, some are young, some are misunderstandings... And so on. Therefore, modern people understand baoyu's kind of regret and pain, and there is no sense of estrangement at all.