Come on, let's talk about "Spring Dream"

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Introduction

Frankly speaking, the first few times "old drivers drive", they were all pretending to be a lot of people to consult, and then I had to pull down the storyline to tell, the truth is actually that I happen to want to tell or simply want to be popular, that's all.

After trying a few times, I found that it was not too interesting, because there was so much sexual knowledge, and I talked quite vigorously here, but as soon as it was implemented into action, everyone was confused. Sometimes, people realize in hindsight that I can't help with the situation of "impulsive at the time, end regret". Most importantly, I found that I still can't write it like this!

It's like live eating, the point is not on what to eat, but on you have to be beautiful enough. Although I am beautiful, I still choose to rely on talent. This is the number of lives, it is difficult to escape...

But this time is different, some people do come to ask, divided into two categories, one is not pregnant, one is pregnant. They all came to ask questions about Spring Dreams, which made me a bit confused. Although I have studied medical psychology and know what the fifth chapter of Freud's "The Interpretation of Dreams" is about, what does this have to do with the six floors of serious literary creation?

Therefore, please ask the big dirty sister to talk about the spring dream!

(Knowing that the big dirty sister is the guy on the sixth floor, shut up the old woman!) ）

Well (charming dumping ~), listen to the big dirty sister lecture ~

What is Spring Dream?

Obviously, today's big dirty sister does not intend to talk about the spring dreams she has had over the years, because there are no less than a hundred and ten dreams that are not repetitive, so it may be banned when written down, so I am ready to pick a few scenes with grand scenes and absurd plots to talk about... (Hey, don't dream, how can you shake the baggage out of such a serious occasion first?) ）

Spring dreams, wet dreams, many scientists have studied this phenomenon, the cause may be curiosity. However, there are some differences between domestic and foreign data. For example, foreign surveys show that among people who had spring dreams before the age of 45, up to 100% of men and only 75% of women, and the corresponding data in China is 97% of men and 85% of women.

Through the above data, it is not difficult to find that the vast majority of people have had the experience of spring dreams. This in itself is nothing special, just like everyone wets the bed when they are young...

Dreaming is a brain activity in sleep, and for ordinary people, it does not cause any harm to the body because of the specific content. The content of spring dreams happens to be sexual activity, sexual behavior, or sexually-related stimuli, etc., and we are often ashamed to discuss sex-related topics.

Of course, I also know that some content is really difficult to talk about, the absurdity of the characters, the ups and downs of the plot, even if it is me, it is not easy to say. However, I can't say that I can write it ~ it's okay, in my lifetime, I have to write a "Spring Dream Collection" sooner or later.

Simply put, spring dreams by themselves do not cause physical damage or discomfort. In the process of dreaming in spring, the human body will produce different reactions, which is the most praised. Among them, the most prominent manifestation is that there will be a physiological reaction similar to orgasm in this process, and many people recognize the "dream legacy" accordingly. Speaking of which, a classmate in college used to wash his underwear every morning and get the Legal name "Dream Relic"...

The content and objects of spring dreams

For a thousand Hamlets, there are a thousand Spring Dreams. Even if there is only one Hamlet, it is possible to have a thousand spring dreams...

The content is varied and renovated, which is the characteristic of Spring Dream, and it is also a problem that some people are quite worried about. You know, there is a metaphysics in folklore - dream interpretation.

Many times, people think that dreams are a reflection of real life, or express a desire for real life. In some ways, there is nothing wrong with such a statement, after all, we have very little research on dreams, and some of the current theories are not agreed upon.

For everyone, there is no need to be ashamed of the unbearable content of the spring dream and the unexpected object of the spring dream - you have dreamed, and you are not a little fierce, how can you be worthy of the precious time of just a few hours at night?

Big Dirty Sister once dreamed of cheerful scenes with the same sex, the opposite sex, the alien, the xeno, the role changes rapidly, the identity transformation is natural, the content scene is smoothly connected, and even the background music is outrageous! Once I was very impressed, the background music was "Unforgettable Tonight", and the big dirty sister actually saw Teacher Li Guyi waving goodbye to our group in her dream.

If you have read the literature, you will find that people who have had sex are more likely to have spring dreams than people who have not had sex. This is easy to understand, because sometimes it is difficult to make up a story by imagination alone.

The chance of acquaintances appearing in spring dreams is greater than that of strangers, and it is not difficult to understand why people have greatly increased the chances of having spring dreams after watching Korean dramas, football matches, men's diving, men's weightlifting, etc. The complexity of the specific plot of Chunmeng is related to the level of education, that is, it has a certain relationship with imagination, books, film and television works, etc.

After all, this is a very difficult thing to think about.

The reason for spring dreams

Spring dreams actually have complex reasons, which seem to occur spontaneously, and on the whole, they are related to hormone levels, psychological states, suggestions, stimuli and other factors. The rest is not much to say, because if it is said, it will not be broadcast.

Take hormones, in the ovulation period and menstrual period, changes in hormone levels will make women's desires grow geometrically, and it is inevitable to open their teeth and claws when they dream of spring.

Hormone levels will peak during pregnancy, and after some people become pregnant, hormone levels in the body may soar to thousands of times before pregnancy, which can explain why about 90% of pregnant women will have spring dreams. In addition, many people choose to stop having sex during pregnancy, and they are more likely to have such a situation when their sexual needs are not met.

What are the effects of spring dreams?

Finally talking about this link, I believe this is also the reason why you clicked on this article.

Women who are not pregnant

1. Under normal circumstances, women will have spring dreams about 3 to 10 times a year. Some people have too frequent spring dreams, which may affect the quality of sleep, even the next day's work and study.

2. Some people do not have a correct understanding of Spring Dream, which will produce negative emotions such as uneasiness, disgust, and self-blame, and if they cannot be guided correctly, psychological disorders may occur.

3. When dreaming in spring, there will be a physiological reaction similar to orgasm, which is due to the increase in the secretion of prostaglandins, which in turn leads to uterine contractions. If the contraction is strong, it is possible to cause ischemic pain and even irritate the lining, resulting in a small amount of bleeding. If you encounter such a situation, do not worry, pay attention to cleanliness, and treat it correctly.

Pregnant women

The physiological response caused by spring dreams may cause the uterus to contract, a feeling similar to pseudo-contractions, which usually resolves spontaneously after waking up from a dream. If spring dreams are frequent, it is possible to induce contractions, especially in the second trimester, which can affect fetal and placental function, and in some cases can lead to bleeding and even miscarriage.

Although this kind of situation rarely happens, even if it happens, don't be afraid, keep calm, take a deep breath, divert your attention, think about the blue sky and white clouds, participate in Zen... That being said, it will make expectant mothers sweat in their hearts, because the matter of dreaming of spring is really difficult to control...

How to reduce spring dreams?

If you do it once in a while, don't panic. If it's already obviously causing trouble, then you have to find a way to control it - after all, the old washing panties, who can stand it?

Here, the big dirty sister gives four suggestions to readers and friends who have this need:

1. Arrange sexual life appropriately. For normal women, the matter of sexual life is not to be said, focusing on pregnant women. During pregnancy, scientific and reasonable arrangement of sexual life can help alleviate the frequent situation of spring dreams. (The topic of intercourse during pregnancy has been written before, you can click to read "The Problem of Intercourse During Pregnancy...") Again, remind: When sex occurs during pregnancy, you must pay attention to safety.

2. Appropriately reduce sexual stimulation. The focus here is on books and film and television works, whether it is Song Joong Ki or Wolverine, to have moderation, and of course, this ambiguous strawberry.

3. Wear loose clothing as much as possible. Try to avoid wearing tight underwear and covered with heavy quilts, reducing external stimuli can also reduce physiological needs.

4. Appropriately increase communication with husband or boyfriend and intimate actions of non-sexual contact. In this way, psychological stress and physical needs can be reduced.

Okay, that's it for today.

(Hold your glasses, throw your bangs, turn around, leave, go far...) ）

finish

Well, here we go today.

Good morning, I love the world.