Is the pillow person pitiful or the sweetheart pitiful?

Are you a sweetheart or a pillow person? The pillow person has a home, money and identity, can show grace and love, the pillow person's words go home, he will not say a word and throw you back to her side. And the sweetheart has a identity that does not see the light and an endless tear. At the beginning, he may not have thought about having a future with you, and when things are exposed, he will weigh the pros and cons and let go of you and choose to return to the family, he can turn around and go back, what about you? Do you want to go back? He may also be a little reluctant to you, but he doesn't seem to want to do anything to you. You may also just be angry at home to filter on you, you coax him, he is in a good mood, he will go back to her again. All her sweetheart had was chat history, and the rest, she never got...