The movie "Love Holiday" depicts Alice and Amanda, two beautiful and kind girls who encounter scumbags and fail to fall in love, in order to ease their emotions, they exchange residences on E-House.
As a counselor, I often look at things from a psychological perspective. After watching the beautiful movie "Love Holiday", I have a feeling of not spitting out unhappiness, and I very much want to talk about my understanding and opinion.
"You are the protagonist of your life, why should you think of yourself as a supporting role and let others make decisions for you", this sentence was said to Alice's neighbors after the change of life, the lonely old man and the well-known editor learned of her story.
The neighbor was in his old age, needed to be cared for, relied on a walker, often couldn't find his home, and even the easy task of opening the door with a key took a whole day. However, he is a wise old man, and his words untie alice's heart knot that has been suffering for three years, let Alice see her kindness and blindly pay, invisibly give the scumbag a reason to hurt himself, and the other party takes everything for granted.
The old man was also a well-known figure in Hollywood, and he silently dedicated himself to fame and fortune. Alice's arrival made him young and radiant, threw off the pacemaker, walked several steps on the award stage, and drew a perfect end to his life.
"It's all because of you that makes me so sad!" "If you cherish me, I will feel happy!" People often pin their happiness on others, begging for emotions and happiness that they can control. Alice is no exception, and her boyfriend's loopholes are full of deceitful lies, which can also make her feel very satisfied and happy.
Painfully, Alice grows up, and she bravely rejects the scumbag's greed to make her a lover, driving him away in the middle of the night. The moment she closed the door, she won, she defeated herself, she became the protagonist of her life. At the same time, he ushered in a boy who cherished her from the inside to the outside, and also won true love.
Amanda is another kind and lovely girl in the film, whose parents divorced when she was 15 years old, which caused her great harm, causing her to cry although she felt very uncomfortable. To use the words of psychology, it is: the body and mind are inconsistent, and they are not living in the present moment.
On the one hand, Amanda's boyfriend complains that she only cares about her work and indulges herself, but on the other hand, she enjoys the material life that Amanda has worked hard to earn. After being exposed, he was forced to argue and was eventually swept out of the house.
The broken birth family brought Amanda not only not to cry, but also to fear entering an intimate relationship. The encounter with Alice's brother makes Amanda forget the pain of lost love and walk out of the hurt of being a scumbag. And the fear of being hurt again made her want to run away five times, not daring to accept Alice's brother and sudden love.
Until, in the "tent" of the two little girls, she felt the warmth of home and heard the metaphor of the long-lost "three musketeers"; until she made up her mind to leave, but she shed tears for it. Her broken heart was healed, and she bravely faced her own heart and enjoyed the sweetness of love.