Because I like "Dream of the Red Chamber", I can often brush up on the content of "Dream of the Red Chamber". One of the things I often brushed up on recently is that Lin Daiyu is careful with her eyes and temperament, so of course she must choose Xue Baochao to marry her wife.
How good is Sister Bao!
Sister Bao is gentle and virtuous; Sister Bao is generous and considerate. If you marry Sister Bao, with the ability of this girl, you will definitely create a harmonious family atmosphere for men;
He will definitely work hard and complain, teach his husband and children, and try to earn money to repay the mortgage.
In modern society, a wife must marry a woman like Sister Bao.
After reading such content, it will surprise me! Such a reader, how much he does not understand Sister Bao, dares to have such a yellow sorghum dream.
Sister Bao armed herself to the teeth with her ability, and people have a clear goal since childhood, and her marriage is used to climb high branches.
Sister Bao's family and Sister Bao's marriage goals are at least to be the Lady of the Commandments.
Affordable men can wash and sleep, Xue Baochao is not this group of economic strength, can climb the girl.
Regarding Bao's sister's view of marriage, it is worth breaking it up.
One. If there is a spare tire, Baochao's spare tire is Jia Baoyu
Many readers have only noticed that Xue Baochao is a girl of the Xue family, one of the four major families.
However, many readers do not pay attention to the fact that with the passage of time, the status of the four major families is no longer on the same level.
The Xue family is the family that has declined the fastest!
When the Xue family entered the Rongguo Mansion, the Xue family had already declined to the position of an ordinary imperial merchant.
The status of the Xue family, a farmer, industrialist, and merchant, was very low in feudal society.
The author of "Dream of the Red Chamber" pays great attention to the identity of the characters, and sees how the author himself describes the women of Aunt Xue's generation:
Aunt Xue's own sister, the author uses the title lady Wang;
Lady Wang's concubine, the author uses the title Lady Xing;
Even the stepmother of you clan in Ningguo Province, the author's description of her, is also a Youlaoan.
What does this mean?
It shows that the husbands of these women have official positions, and these women have social status because their husbands have social status.
And the Xue family is different!
In the dream of the Red Chamber, the author has only one title for Aunt Xue, that is, simple Aunt Xue.
It is enough to show that Aunt Xue's husband is also an ordinary imperial businessman, and this man has never had any official position.
The status of a woman in feudal society is determined according to the men around her.
Xue Baochao's father had no official position, and Baochao's brother had no official position, let alone a knighthood.
This means that at that time, Xue Baochao's identity was a rich lady, and this girl's body had lost the aura of Miss Shijia.
According to the ancient concept of marriage being the right door, Xue Baochao could easily marry into the family of another imperial merchant;
Sister Bao can also appropriately step back and use the high dowry that the Xue family can bring to marry into the ordinary Shuxiang Mendi.
For example, Mei Hanlin's kind of family, this kind of family has a high social status, but it is not a family family.
But Sister Bao's heart was high, and no one would look at these two families that were most compatible with her.
Sister Bao entered Kyoto, and the goal was to select a draft.
Sister Bao's first choice for marriage goals is not even an ordinary family family, but a clear goal and goes straight to the royal family.
Sister Kebao didn't want to think about it, there were many fallen nobles in Kyoto, and there were also many imperial relatives in Kyoto, even if she was selected to read for the princess and the lord of the county, she could not turn her as the daughter of a merchant.
Then, after the failure of the draft, will Sister Bao's family and Sister Bao see their true identity?
The answer, of course, is no.
After that, Sister Bao clearly positioned the goal of marriage on the concubine of the family family.
Must this concubine be Jia Baoyu?
I'm afraid not!
Sister Bao, who lives in Rongguo Mansion, actively participates in any social activities she can get on.
Every social event where the rich and noble women gather, with the participation of girls, means that this is a blind date, which is an open secret of the family family.
For this kind of activity, Xue Baochao never refused.
That is to say, if there are other rich and noble ladies, such as Princess Nan'an, who has a crush on Xue Baochao and wants the king of Nan'an County to marry Xue Baochao, then what are the consequences?
It was the Xue family who would happily agree immediately; it was Xue Baochao who would not refuse at all from the order of his parents.
If this is the case, a new annotation will appear immediately in the golden jade marriage, the golden lock, of course, is the jade seal with the prince.
The male protagonist in "Dream of the Red Chamber", the life that Sister Lin was obsessed with, and Jia Baoyu, who had also been in tears all her life, was just a spare tire man in Xue Baochao's eyes.
What is Jia Baoyu's identity?
Bao Yu's sister is a noble concubine, and the family is the real uncle of the little country;
Bao Yu's father, Jia Zheng, was the head of the Rongguo Mansion and was a concubine;
Baoyu's mother, Lady Wang, was from the royal family of the four major families.
Baoyu's noble status is just a spare tire in Xue Baochao's eyes, and economically applicable men please think about it, is Baochao a girl they can climb high?
Two. Xue Baochao, who could not climb high
The economic male of ancient times could not climb the height of Xue Baochao:
The status of the Xue family's imperial merchants was not noble in feudal society. But the Xue family is really rich!
What kind of education did Xue Baochao receive since he was a child?
Sister Bao received an elite education like a big lady in feudal society.
If we talk about the overall amount of knowledge, Sister Bao is the best girl in the Grand View Garden, and there is no one. Even the talented Lin Daiyu was beyond reach.
Sister Bao's knowledge reserves and talents will never fall from the sky!
So, where did Sister Bao's abilities come from?
Naturally, the Xue family spent a lot of money to ask Mr. and Grandma to jointly train.
Sister Bao is literate and hyphenated, good at poetry, these are just the basic education she can marry into the rich;
Sister Bao understands painting, and even understands part of medical science, which is part of the icing on the cake for the ability of the big lady, and Xue Baochao's education will never lack these;
Sister Bao is a female red and a good needle. For women in ancient times, these were part of women's morality. In the process of learning, Sister Bao can not be missing this, and it is inevitable that she will need to cultivate Grandma and train her strictly;
Sister Bao also pays attention to economic affairs, can be in charge of the family, the council, in her own home, she is already a real housekeeper girl.
Sister Bao's skills are piled up with money! Such a treasure girl, which ancient economic man did not have a long brain, dared to climb high.
What kind of wives were suitable for an affordable man in ancient times?
The wife of an affordable man does not need to know piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, but she needs chai rice oil and salt.
This kind of chai rice oil and salt is not a high talk on paper, but it must be really operated by oneself.
Families with affordable men cannot afford to hire cooks and old mothers.
But if you want Xue Baochao to wash his hands and make soup and cook it himself, this thing is tantamount to a fool's dream.
Xue Baochao, like any big lady in rongguo mansion, could not take off her luxurious dress, put on an ordinary apron, and go to the front of the stove to make a fire, and let the firewood blacken her face.
Sister Bao is even less likely to pick up corn, grind noodles, and finally make a pot of nests for economic men.
For Sister Bao, being served by servants and getting up in the morning to have a servant serve her a bowl of bird's nest porridge is her normal life.
Bao sister's bird's nest porridge, I am afraid that the economic man's one-month salary is not enough.
The wife of an affordable man does not need to have top beauty, but she needs to have a healthy body.
In the homes of affordable men, sprinkling and cleaning, washing and tailoring, these housework must be done by the housewife herself.
Sister Bao's body, can you expect her to sprinkle the kitchen?
Sister Bao is afraid of the heat, and there are days when the maid serves, and this girl can't stand the heat;
Sister Bao does not like to exercise, and when she flutters a butterfly in the Grand View Garden, she is tired and sweaty and breathless.
Such a treasure girl, let her clean the house once, only to be afraid of exhausting her, if not tired, also hot death.
Families of affordable men will not ask her to fan and beat her legs.
It is even more impossible to expect Bao Girl to wash and tailor clothes for the family.
The girls of the rich and noble families learned needlework, embroidered a flower, made a purse, knitted a fan sleeve and so on.
The female reds made by the treasure girl are exquisite and laborious, and it is expected that the treasure girl will make the family's clothes, which will produce fine products, but it will take 10 years and 8 years.
Counting on Bao Girl to wash clothes, it is absolutely impossible, through the entire "Dream of the Red Chamber", may not have seen Bao Girl squatting.
Squatting down this kind of thing, the manners are indecent, it really hurts the identity of a big lady.
A person like Bao Girl is not what an affordable man with a brain should worry about.
Ancient economic men could not marry Xue Baochao, and modern economic men could not climb Xue Baochao:
If you put Sister Bao now, then she is a proper rich second generation student bully.
This girl and the affordable man have a natural gap since childhood.
Throughout the primary and secondary school stages, affordable men should not expect to meet female classmates like Sister Bao.
Because Sister Bao's family conditions are there, people will not go to school with future affordable boys.
After the future affordable men go to school normally, the family conditions are good, in order to have the opportunity to learn the talent of playing the piano, singing, painting and so on.
What about Sister Kebao?
When people learn a foreign language, they are foreign teachers 1 to 1.
Affordable men, when they are tired and tired of taking the 4th level, the sister of the people's treasure can already have a barrier-free dialogue with foreigners.
Affordable men can play a few pieces of music is not bad, people Bao sister listen to Haydn, Beethoven, you can also comment that this player does not play well.
Ordinary affordable men, with other people's treasure sisters, can not talk about a level at all.
At the university level, affordable men may have the first opportunity to contact girls like Bao Sister.
But do they have a chance to blend into Sister Bao's circle?
Just like the ordinary girl Qiu Yingying in "Ode to Joy", although she lives on the same floor as Qu Xiaoxiu, the second generation of the rich, she is a neighbor. But the circle of friends between them is always two parallel lines.
When Sister Bao wants to be a human being, she can casually invite her classmates to eat dozens of pounds of crabs, eat the whole meal, and spend nearly 10,000 yuan on alcohol!
That's affordable for men, living expenses for a year.
This meal alone is enough to scare off most of the affordable men who want to pursue Bao's sister.
If the affordable man and Bao sister are in the same class, they may know the girl more deeply.
What skin care products does Sister Bao eat?
That thing is called cold incense pills, and this kind of skin care product has to be paired with several years of kung fu. Up to now, cold incense pills are called top luxury goods.
More than carrying those foreign brand bags, you can show off your wealth!
Cold incense pills for Bao sister, is an ordinary skin care products, the body feels some discomfort, just take a pill.
A pill from Bao's sister ate the one-month salary of an affordable man.
Ask such a treasure sister, does the affordable man dare to contact?
Let's look at Sister Bao's dress:
As he spoke, he unbuttoned the buttons, and from the inside of the big red jacket, he pulled out the jewelry and golden splendor.
Readers should pay attention not to underestimate Sister Bao's most famous jewelry. Sister Bao carried not only a golden lock, but a whole set of jewels.
Jewel-encrusted, looks like this
On this ring, there are also many gemstones.
One of Bao's sister's jewelry is the down payment of the house that affordable men dream of!
This is just one jewelry of Bao Sister, if all the jewelry is added up, how much is it worth.
After reading Sister Bao's jewelry, look at her clothes:
Xue Baochao wore a lotus green bucket pattern with a brocade of flowers and foreign threads
Readers must not think that Xue Baochao has made the house where she lives like a snow hole and has no stubborn weapons, that is, a girl who maintains the tradition of diligence and thrift, hardship, simplicity and glory.
Sister Bao's dress is all low-key luxury.
Such a treasure sister cannot follow an ordinary affordable man to rent a house and save money for a down payment.
Sister Bao has always been particularly capable and ambitious.
When the students have just entered the university and the girls are still ignorant, Sister Bao has long used her mature coping skills to take the lead among the girls.
Classmates or colleagues, but they are all stepping stones for Sister Bao, and Sister Bao's attitude towards them is that they will be lost when they are used.
After Sister Bao accumulated enough experience, she would immediately use the family's financial resources and use her status as a rich second generation to start a business and open up her own world like Qu Xiaoxiu.
Those affordable men who dream of marrying Baojie, or wake up!
There will be no snail girl in the sky, take the initiative to wash and cook for them;
Heaven will not drop a treasure sister, take the initiative to help them share the housing loan.
Although Qu Xiaoxiu is a rich second generation, she is a fool who does not learn and has no skills, so she can look at Dr. Zhao of the intellectual family.
But Xue Baochao is completely different!
Xue Baochao himself is a university bully, and he is a rich second generation and looks beautiful.
Sister Bao has never had a childhood, she has been sober since she was a child, the person she wants to marry, the family she wants to marry, to help her achieve interests and the leap of the whole level.
The good wind, with its strength, sent me to the clouds.
From ancient times to the present, Xue Baochao will be like this, for economic men, they will not give a little chance.
Affordable men, don't worry about Xue Baochao. People Bao sister, want to step up the day, will never share the ordinary with the economic man.
Sister Bao will not wash her hands and make soup for any man.