#Marriage Cultivation Treasure Book #The rising divorce rate makes people wonder if marriage is really so fragile? After understanding the following 10 marriage models, I believe everyone knows where the key to the rise in the divorce rate is.
1) Blind date type
Husbands and wives have their own grievances, but are able to understand each other, tolerate and bear and adjust and correct each other's love.
2) One side loves, one side does not love type or other love
One partner is very satisfied with the other half or marriage and is doing his best to do his best to pay for love. But the other half is dissatisfied with the person in front of them or the marriage, and is picky or avoids being unwilling to take responsibility. Or to satisfy personal selfish desires through marriage, unwilling to pay for marriage or the person in front of you, change and bear, so that love and being loved do not develop on the same track.
3) Want to love and don't want to love type
I don't know what I want, I can't tell what my attitude toward my other half is, and I don't know how to cherish or appreciate everything. As a result, it is impossible to fully devote yourself to the relationship, and you are half-hearted or ambiguous.
4) Want to love but dare not love type
When there is no confidence in the person in front of you, or marriage, or even love, you dare not devote yourself to love wholeheartedly, and even fear deep love. In the end, let yourself be unable to feel love, enjoy love, be grateful for love, and it is difficult to dedicate love, and even desire to escape.
5) Want to love but will not love type
Both sides are very satisfied with each other, but some concepts, attitudes, habits, etc. are inconsistent, and they do not know how to adjust and correct them to make love and being loved incompatible. Just as many handsome men and women are married because of love, but after a few years, the relationship between two people has died in name only and even divorced.
6) The heart has a difficult to love type
The past or experience makes it impossible for them to face love again, make it impossible for them to love others, and make it difficult for lovers to be loved, and finally make it impossible for two hearts to know each other, and there is no sense of happiness.
7) Don't want to love and just want to live a life type
Past experiences, hurts or disappointments have made this type of person afraid to place hope in love or love. I just want to find someone who is willing to marry and have a baby with myself, and take the road that life should take. Therefore, love is simply too luxurious for this kind of heart-dead person. But subconsciously there is still a desire for happiness, just more to transfer to the child or career.
8) Regret being together and not daring to type
There are many dissatisfactions with the people in front of you, but they dare not separate themselves or everyone to give themselves a chance. On the one hand, there is no better person to appear, on the other hand, it lacks the courage to leave the nest and dare not live alone, and finally the lament continues to make it difficult for everyone to get along harmoniously.
9) Living in confusion
I don't know what I want, I don't know what I already have, I don't know how to appreciate, be grateful, and cherish everything I have, as if I lack a certain consciousness to face myself and life, let alone the problem of love or not.
10) Dissatisfaction and resentment type
From childhood to adulthood, I feel dissatisfied with myself or everything around me, lack of respect and understanding, and I am unwilling to bear and tolerate life or the other half is not good enough, and even criticize each other everywhere, making the other party unhappy, and I am also miserable. In the end, let everyone live in dissatisfaction and resentment, and make everyone more painful.
From these conjugal relationships, we can see that only the first is the happiness of loving and being loved. Everything else is at odds with love, or passes by, or even has nothing to do with love. In addition, many of these relationships that have nothing to do with love are mixed with various problems that make people feel difficult to solve. There are also many people who think that "fate is predestined", or that this is "fate" cannot be changed. But in fact, it can be changed, and every relationship has its emotional characteristics, as long as both parties are willing and solve the core problems, all kinds of relationships can return to love and let everyone love each other. Not convinced? You can follow me, I will give you the answer!
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