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Jiang Wen
In December 2010, Jiang Wen's film "Let the Bullets Fly" was released for a week, and the box office exceeded the 200 million mark. Since then, the radiant Jiang Wen has disappeared from the public eye. After Jiang Wen's short rest, he encountered "emotional exhaustion". The wise Zhou Yun pushed out the two lovely sons, and in the carnival of accompanying his son to the wilderness, the domineering Jiang Wen fell from the clouds to mortal dust and fell into the happiness of ordinary loving fatherly feelings...
In April 2011, when the early spring grass in Beijing was flying, Zhou Yun and the nanny took their children to flutter butterflies in the garden of the community, while Jiang Wen hid at home and did not want to go out, he felt unwell and tired of eating.
Zhou Yun is clear that her husband is fully committed to his work, and once he withdraws, there will be periodic "emotional exhaustion". Such a situation is very common among successful people, such as Bill Gates, Buffett, Jackie Chan, Jet Li, etc., have suffered from such troubles. As long as the fulcrum of passion and joy in life is rediscovered, these symptoms will automatically disappear and everything will return to normal.
Over the years, Zhou Yun, who is already a mother of two children, is calm as a chrysanthemum. She adopts the three noes policy of "no entanglement, no complaint, and no pessimism", and silently cares for her husband with the tenderness of women. At this time, Jiang Wen has entered "storm middle age", and his body is like a car that has traveled hundreds of thousands of kilometers and needs maintenance. Over the years, Zhou Yun learned massage techniques from books, and whenever her husband tossed and turned, she gently massaged his head acupuncture points until he fell asleep. The best supplement comes from food, since marriage for 6 years, Zhou Yun has cooked dozens of soups for her husband, slow-simmering soups, fragrant, and Jiang Wen's pride often melts in the soup of his beloved wife. However, a week later, Jiang Wen still had no appetite.
Jiang Wen and Zhou Yun
Because Jiang Wen was in a bad mood, the two sons also became particularly "sensible", just playing together, as soon as they saw their father, they immediately remained silent and quietly slipped into their rooms. "You look at your face, it's stiff, there's not a hint of a smile." This gentle woman, even if she counts her husbands, makes people's hearts warm. This time, Jiang Wen realized that his negative emotions affected his family, which was unfair to them.
The next day, Jiang Wen personally went to the pet store, bought two brass bells and pet costumes, and then loudly greeted his son: "Taro Jiro, come and help Daddy!" The two sons poked their little heads out of the room, and when they saw their father's bright face, they quickly dropped the toys in their hands and ran over. The father and son squatted next to the pet dog, hung a copper bell around its neck, and dressed and put on a foot cover for the pet dog. The puppy ran around the living room cheerfully, and the father and son laughed brightly. The two sons are truly happy and happy, but Jiang Wen is pretending to be happy.
Not only that, Jiang Wen insisted on accompanying his wife to make a cheongsam. There are dozens of cheongsam in Zhou Yun's closet, but in order to let her husband go out for a walk, she deliberately painted light makeup and walked out of the house with her husband's arm.
Jiang Wen "performed" happiness in front of his wife and son, but as soon as he left the sight of the three people, he returned to a confused mental state.
Zhou Yun
Wave after wave, wave after wave. In October 2011, The kindergarten where Jiang Taro is located held a parent-teacher conference, during the discussion, the teacher told him that Jiang Taro is very smart, but every time the teacher asks a question, he rarely raises his hand to answer the question loudly; every Monday to the kindergarten, he always does not like to eat, needs to be fed by the life teacher, and after two days of adaptation, he eats on his own. In the game, he seems very passive. The teacher kindly reminded Zhou Yun that boys should be "free-ranged" at home and should have more contact with their fathers.
After picking up her son and returning home, Zhou Yun was very worried. Since the birth of her two sons, Zhou Yun has slowed down the process of work and spent most of her time with her son; she has poured all her love into her son and done her best to take care of the housework, so that Jiang Wen is single-minded in her career. But now the situation of the son makes Zhou Yun realize that in the boy's growth process, the role of the father cannot be replaced by maternal love.
At night, the nanny went to sleep with her two children. While helping her husband massage his head, Zhou Yun told him about his son's recent situation. Jiang Wen discussed with Zhou Yun: "My son's affairs are all big things, and we can't take them lightly. Let's do a division of labor, you are responsible for taking care of the child's diet and living, I spend more time with the child to do games, take the child to exercise. You can rest assured that under my influence, our son will be full of strength and confidence. ”
At 6 o'clock the next morning, Jiang Wen got up, went to Jiang Taro's room, clumsily helped his son put on his sportswear and sneakers, and then led his son to jog in the community. Along the way, he and his son share the joy of the birds' whispers, and the father and son watch the light of the morning sun refracting on the dewdrops... After half an hour of exercise, Jiang Taro's face was rosy, and he returned home and took the initiative to eat the breakfast prepared by the nanny. Zhou Yun, who was taking care of her younger son, looked at Jiang Taro in surprise at the "gobble-up" that Jiang Taro had never had, and quietly gave Jiang Wen a thumbs up. Jiang Wen returned her with a triumphant smile. No one knows Zhou Yun's double surprise at this moment: his son's appetite has become better after exercise, and her sparring husband has a bright smile!
Jiang Wen and his son
At first, Jiang Taro felt that running was fresh, but after half a month, the child was tired, and Jiang Wen used his brain to mobilize his son's interest. He promised Jiang Taro: "Run 500 meters every day, and Daddy will give you a mysterious little gift." "The child's appetite was lifted up and he ran happily. The child's attention is always quickly diverted, and after Jiang Taro's bedside is full of keychains, game cards, Ultraman and other gifts, Jiang Wen's trick has lost its attraction to him.
The weeds overgrow the corn. Jiang Wen came up with a new trick: "Taro, how about we play hide-and-seek?" The little guy nodded excitedly. In the evening, Jiang Wen put on a baseball cap, changed into dark clothes and pants, and took his son to the dense birch forest behind the community. Jiang Wen sometimes hid behind a tree, sometimes hiding in a flower bush, and Jiang Taro ran and chased after him. If after more than ten minutes, his son has not found him, Jiang Wen will deliberately stick his head out, blow a long whistle, or hum two songs, causing his son to run towards him... An hour later, both father and son were sweating profusely and panting. Unconsciously, Jiang Taro ran enough 800 meters or even 1000 meters. With enough exercise, Jiang Taro's problem of not loving to eat has completely changed, and he has obviously grown taller and stronger. Jiang Wen excitedly picked up his son and threw him around in the air, and the father and son laughed brightly. Zhou Yun's eyes were moist...
Over the years, the radiant and arrogant Jiang Wen has been hanging in the air of his family and life, and he does not care to worry about ordinary trivialities. This time to accompany his son to exercise, let Jiang Wen have a sense of accomplishment, this domineering man who does not eat human fireworks unconsciously fell into the family, fell into life, fell into the father's cumbersome. In the process of Jiang Wen accompanying her son in sports, Zhou Yun found that her husband's smile and happiness flowed from the depths of her soul. This also made her understand a truth, people have to be busy, have to do things all the time, so that they don't have time to think about those entangled things.
Over the years, While filming, Zhou Yun took care of her son and took care of housework, and found a double passion and happiness in her career and family. And Jiang Wen only has a career in his heart, floating in the air like a dazzling kite, just unilaterally harvesting the glory of his career; now Zhou Yun wants to return the joy and happiness in life to her husband, so that he can truly integrate with his family!
Poster of Zhou Yun's "Nie Yinniang"
In early 2012, Zhou Yun took over the film "Nie Yinniang" and told her husband after signing the contract. Jiang Wen was anxious as soon as he heard it: "You are gone for two or three months, what should Taro Jiro do?" Do you want your child's grandmother to come from Wenzhou to help? Zhou Yun replied that mianli was hiding a needle: "My parents are busy with business, and they can't get out." Taro Jiro is so old, you rarely accompany them all these years, please be a full-time father at home this time. ”
Jiang Wen sighed: "What drama will you take at this time?" Zhou Yun always smiled and melted: "In your play, I can't always play the female number one, in order to reduce expenses, you never give me a salary." It's hard to catch the opportunity, can't I go out and have a movie? Jiang Wen had nothing to say. In fact, Zhou Yun can not take the play this time, the reason why she did this is to deliberately throw her two sons to Jiang Wen, so that Jiang Wen is busy every day.
Jiang Wen is also enthusiastic, he arranges for a nanny to do housework, while he tries to take care of his two sons. Before going to bed, he gave his son hot milk, Jiang Jilang said that it was too hot and refused to drink, Jiang Wen called a basin of cold water, put the milk cup into the basin, and blew air with his mouth. At 10 p.m., Jiang Wen went into the small room to check whether his two sons were asleep. As soon as he pushed the door, Jiang Taro and Jiang Jiro's eyes were wide open and they shouted in unison, "Dad, we want to sleep with you." Jiang Wen waved his hand: "Let's all go." The father and son three brushed together and lay on the wide bed, Jiang Taro begged Jiang Wen to tell him a story, Jiang Jilang was not honest, while listening, he pinched Jiang Wen's nose and ears with his hands. At the behest of his two sons, Jiang Wen told 4 stories in a row, and gradually, the children's snoring began, and Jiang Wen also closed his eyes tiredly, and soon fell asleep... Strangely, since taking care of his two children, Jiang Wen's sleep quality is surprisingly good, because in the busy trivia, he has no time to insomnia!
Once, Jiang Jilang had a high fever of 39 degrees in the middle of the night, and his small face burned red. Jiang Wen rushed his son to the hospital. When the son was dripping, Jiang Wen stayed by his son's side, asking the son whether the infusion hurt or not, and checking whether there were bubbles in the infusion tube. The anxiety and heart-wrenching feelings of ordinary fathers were fully exposed to Jiang Wen. He didn't close his eyes all night, and it wasn't until 9 a.m. the next morning, when his son's temperature returned to normal, that he took Jiang Jiro home. Before, Zhou Yun had complained in his ear that her son had a cold and fever, how anxious and sad she was, Jiang Wen could not understand; now that he had experienced it himself, he understood that his father's heart was as soft as his mother's!
For a while, the crew of "Nie Yinniang" was stationed on the outskirts of Beijing, and Zhou Yun would involuntarily worry about Jiang Wen and a pair of sons when he played. It took only 3 hours to drive home from the crew, and on February 3, 2012, Zhou Yun sneaked back to see her husband and son. Unexpectedly, Jiang Wen was not driven crazy by a pair of sons as she imagined, and his life was a mess; on the contrary, Jiang Wen's emotions were high, and he had more words with Zhou Yun, and the two sons were also cleaned up by him.
Gradually, Zhou Yun's arrogant husband was willing to do trivial things for his son. In May of that year, Zhou Yun's attitude towards life made a major change, no longer tied herself to the house all day, going out to party with friends every three to five minutes, and handing over her two sons to Jiang Wen to take care of. He shined his son's shoes, bathed him, and led his two sons to mow the lawn in front of the door.
When the family is gathered together, Zhou Yun often gives multiple choice questions to her two sons: "On the one hand, Dad goes out to shoot a movie, does not come home for three months, and buys you chocolates and Transformers; on the other hand, Dad buys nothing, only stays at home with you." Jiro Taro, which one do you choose? Jiang Taro preemptively replied: "I chose my father to accompany me at home." Jiang Jilang's thoughts were the same as his brother's, and he quickly trotted into the study and hid Jiang Wen's mobile phone and car keys, afraid that his father would leave immediately. Fiery affection boiled and burned in Jiang Wen's blood...
Zhou Yun really understood that the two sons were Jiang Wen's special medicine to fight against "emotional exhaustion". On June 20, Jiang Taro and his brother sat on the floor playing with blocks, and Zhou Yun squatted next to his son and placed two hard-boiled eggs in front of them: "You tell your mother, where did the eggs come from?" Jiang Jilang looked up at the small red face and said in a milky voice, "Raw in the refrigerator." Zhou Yun shook his head: "No. Jiang Taro tilted his head to correct: "My brother is wrong, it is produced in the supermarket." ”
Jiang Wen, who was sitting on the sofa reading the newspaper, laughed when he heard his son's answer, and after laughing, his heart was a little heavy. Jiang Wen was born in a military family, grew up in the chief of the army, and in the process of climbing and fighting, he created his domineering character and resilience not to accept defeat. The two sons grew up under the care of Zhou Yun. Boys should be like eagles on the prairie, they must be released and tempered to soar in the sky.
Seeing her husband's worries, Zhou Yun gave him a trick: "My son is trapped at home all day, his life knowledge is pitiful, and when he grows up, he will become a 'spiritual nobleman' who does not distinguish between grains." We should create the conditions for them to embrace nature. In the past, we were always afraid that because of our special status, it would be inconvenient to take them out, but in fact, we should put aside our worries, take them out for a walk, and contact more people and things. Jiang Wen nodded in approval.
Jiang Wen and his daughter
Then, Zhou Yun said his true thoughts: "Many people in the community buy land to grow vegetables and raise chickens in the suburbs, and adults and children live happily. We should live that life too. Jiang Wen agreed with his wife's idea: "Listen to you, the child's childhood should be happy." I think that back then, we couldn't go home all day long, and we fought and killed with a bunch of friends all day, and boys should grow up in wrestling. ”
A week later, Jiang Wen drove Zhou Yun to Shunyi, a suburb of Beijing, and subscribed to a greenhouse. The couple planted cabbage, radish, cucumbers, beans and other vegetables in the greenhouse, and also bought more than 20 ducklings and 5 old hens, which were kept in the fence of the greenhouse. After that, Jiang Wen ran to the greenhouse with his wife and son at both ends for three days. He and his son fed the chickens and ducks with water; when the hen layed eggs, he led his two sons to crouch by the fence, often forty or fifty minutes, and accompanied his son to witness the egg coming out of the hen's body. Jiang Wen pinched the ears of his two sons and said, "You are like eggs, coming out of your mother's body." Jiang Jilang scratched his scalp: "Then where is the eggshell on my body?" The son's funny expression caused Jiang Wenhaha to laugh. The three fathers and sons rolled up in the grass, their heads and clothes were full of grass and mud, and Zhou Yun, who was wearing a straw hat, smiled like a flower.
In September 2012, the vegetables in the greenhouse were growing happily, and the Jiang Wen family of three carried baskets through a green vegetable field. While picking vegetables, Jiang Wen taught his son to identify: "This is a cucumber, that is an eggplant, and what is hidden in the ground is a carrot." The two sons took the cucumbers, wiped them with their sleeves, and stuffed them into their mouths. After picking the vegetables, Jiang Wen also chopped the remaining vegetable leaves, mixed with crushed rice, and fed the chickens and ducklings with his two sons. After returning to the community, Jiang Wen took his son and delivered vegetables to the neighbors. Under the encouraging eyes of Jiang Wen, Jiang Taro and Jiang Jilang took the initiative to knock on the door of the neighbor's house and gave the harvest of fruits and vegetables to the neighbor's grandfather, in the sincere thanks of the old man, the two children experienced the happiness brought by friendliness. A few times down, the two children learned to give love and also learned to be grateful.
Jiang Taro also took his brother to record the process of sowing and harvesting with a paintbrush. Looking at himself in his son's brush, the corners of his mouth flying, and his eyes smiling bently, Jiang Wen couldn't help but laugh.
Emotional burnout retreated little by little on Jiang Wen, and he enjoyed an ordinary and trivial life. In October of that year, Jiang Wen and Jiang Yilang, the daughter of his ex-wife Sandlin, came from Paris, France, to Beijing to visit their father. 18-year-old Jiang Ichiro has become a naturally beautiful big girl with a gentle and quiet personality. She loves her father and has a good relationship with Zhou Yun and her two younger brothers. She taught the two little ones to speak French, took them to the computer to draw stick figures for each member of the family, and then printed out the drawings and pasted them on each person's bedside. Watching his two sons follow their daughter like little tails, entering from one room to another, Jiang Wen couldn't help but be moved again. Three children are three happiness stars, and Jiang Wen has experienced the happiness of being a father.
Under the subtle influence of Zhou Yun and his two sons, Jiang Wen realized that he was not only a father and husband, but also played multiple roles such as son, son-in-law, and brother, and built an inseparable "multilateral relationship" with his relatives. In November 2012, Zhou Yun told Jiang Wen: "My parents often think of me, and I don't have time to see them often. "The wife is the only daughter in the family, and the parents-in-law are in the "empty nest of affection", can they not think of their daughters? Jiang Wen shook Zhou Yun's hand: "I have decided that in the future, we will go to Wenzhou once a quarter to see my parents." He also scanned hundreds of photos of the family and stored them in electronic photo frames for his in-laws. Although the parents of the Zhou family are far away from their daughters, they feel the warmth of family affection.
For many years, his father, Jiang Hongqi, had a wish, that is, to return to North Korea to mourn his comrades who had been buried there. In mid-December, Jiang Wen accompanied his father to the banks of the Taedong River in North Korea. Decades have passed, and tall monuments stand on the banks of the river. Jiang Hongqi took off his hat, sprinkled wine, and offered flowers, and hung his old comrades-in-arms who were buried underground. His father felt a lot of emotions about the past, and Jiang Wen also had a new understanding of life and life.
Today, Jiang Wen is physically and mentally happy, his face is rosy, and his emotions are full. On New Year's Day 2013, the new year is coming, Jiang Wen told Zhou Yun: "My passion is about to overflow, I must start working!" 10 years ago, Jiang Wen was ready to shoot a biographical film of the legendary woman shi Jianqiao of the Republic of China, but these years have been delayed for various reasons, and now that all the conditions are ripe, he intends to let Zhou Yun play the female number one. Zhou Yun naturally couldn't ask for it. At present, the couple is revising the script together, choosing the location and actors, and is very busy.
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