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The years are long, and in an instant they are old. After retiring, I have been working part-time, feeling that I am in good health, and there is no chore at home that I need to do by myself, so I found a job for myself to help others see the store.
Although it is only more than 1800 yuan per month, it can be added to the pension, which is similar to the previous work. I still feel very emotional in my heart, and I feel that although I am retired and old, I have not paid too much.
The other day, our formerly nice old sisters got together at the home of a sister who could do baking. Four people, each making a dish of their own hand, drinking red wine, tasting Keemun black tea after dinner, looking out the window has been dark yellow ginkgo leaves, the heart is quiet.
The sisters persuaded them not to do it anymore, although they felt that their bodies were fine now, in fact, the parts on their bodies were indeed old, and they were too late to get tired of anything, and it was too late to lose more than they lost.
What they say I understand in my heart is very clear, but after retirement, everyone has thought about it, but without these four things, I will feel somewhat lost.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="53" >02, narrator: 54-year-old Wen Jie</h1>
I am 54 years old, my only son is working in the field, he has not yet started a family, and his wife has been gone for a few years.
After I retired at the age of 50, I felt that my health was not bad, so I went to the small commodity wholesale city to find a job as a shopkeeper for myself. Every day, it is said to be a half-day shift, but it takes more than 6 hours a day to come and go with some chores.
This job of looking at the store can give me a salary of 1800 yuan per month, and if the sales are good, there will be a higher commission than the amount given by the boss.
When I first looked for a job, my girlfriend who retired with me advised me not to do it, and then I was tired of problems, and the money I earned was not enough to see a doctor.
But I didn't have such a good life as hers. The girlfriend's wife is a middle-level leader in the unit, and the only daughter has long been married and has a baby, and she does not need to take care of the baby and take care of the elderly, she is only responsible for taking care of herself.
She is not short of money, nor is she short of affection, of course, life will be comfortable and leisurely. And I can't, my wife is gone, and I still have to make preparations for my son's future marriage and children.
When my wife left, the family's savings were almost spent, and he did not keep his life. Although my son has been working for several years, a suite today will be out of reach.
The son talked about several people, and people said that the burden in single-parent families was heavy and could not support the lives of young people. Now that his son has no heart to talk about the object, he has to buy a house first and then consider starting a family.
How could I, as a mother, look at my son's future?
Retired, I feel that my health is fine, there are not so many miscellaneous things, and then do a job, not only to make my life full, but also to save some money for my son to buy a house.
Those sisters around who no longer do it, most of them are wives who can earn money, the family is relatively rich, do not have to be busy with this money, just exercise well.
Sister Zhao, who is 2 years older than me, has a daughter in the family, and she has already joined the work and is married and has children. Although the monthly pension of Sister Zhao's two sons adds up to more than 10,000 yuan, every New Year's festival, people's daughters will send red envelopes to their old two, saying that they are filial piety money for their daughters and sons-in-law, and they must be accepted.
Life is like this, many times, happy families are similar, unhappy families are also their own misfortunes.
Sister Zhao's two old families are so rich, and the daughter of the family is still so filial and sensible, which is really envious of others.
Sister Zhao is now going out with her wife every day, walking in the square or park, playing tai chi, and occasionally, the old couple is still very romantic about watching a movie together and having a meal together.
My sisters around me also persuaded me that it was better to find a companion before I was old. The sisters also introduced me to men with good conditions, but people didn't hear that my son was not married, so there was no following.
I know and understand that all these people who have been polished by years and tempered by life understand the ideas and things in life.
To say that I don't envy my sisters whose wives are alive is self-deception. During the day, when I am with others, although there are also talks and laughs, but the loneliness and fear at night are a chill that penetrates into the bone marrow.
Especially in the winter evening, it gets dark early, the north wind outside whistles, and most of the time, I curl up on the sofa by myself to watch TV, or curl up on the big bed to look at the mobile phone.
If you want to drink water, you must put the kettle on the bedside in advance, otherwise you will not want to go to the ground, and when you are too lazy to move, you will be thirsty. If you have a companion around you, and you have a coddle with him, someone will pour you a glass of water and nag you.
Women who are single and say they are happy and happy, how strong they are at heart, and women who are also financially free, can truly enjoy the life of living alone.
Like me, a single woman who still has to run for her son's future, there is no happy life, some just calculate how much money to save for her son this month.
Some people will say that I am stupid, retired, and a person, why do I make myself so hard? Mothers are the same all over the world, who can really let go of their disregard for their children?
I'm very happy that I keep exercising and getting me to this age and still be so healthy. The annual physical examination does not even have a superfluous arrow, and all the indicators meet the standards.
There was a sister who worked, and she was also the kind of person who was outspoken, and when we all looked at our respective physical examination reports, she told me that you don't look at people there are not very comfortable, but often such people can live for a long time, and people like you who are healthy are often Gaba and leave.
At that time, my sister apologized to me after saying that she could not speak. In fact, I think, that is also very good, at least I do not involve my son, and I do not have to spend a lifetime of savings to treat me, I myself am not guilty.
Nowadays, why do many single elderly people want to find a partner to live with? Don't you just feel that there is no one around you, and no one knows that you left that day?
I think it doesn't matter, if there is a blessing that is really willing to be accompanied by a partner, there is no one who can walk alone for the rest of his life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="54" > written at the end:</h1>
Whether you can live a comfortable and leisurely life after retirement depends on these four things:
Whether your body is healthy, you have a healthy body to enjoy the beauty of retirement life and leisure after retirement, on the contrary, it is a hardship to spend the rest of your life.
Whether there is an adequate pension and a good stable income, that is, a higher pension. When you are young, you save more pension money, and then work hard to work hard for your career, then the salary after retirement will be relatively higher than that of ordinary people, so that you are old, healthy, have money in your pocket, and your heart will be at peace, and you can live a comfortable and leisurely life.
In addition, whether there is a companion around, the original wife can hold hands with himself and share the white head, which is the most beautiful sunset red in the world, and it is also the spiritual pillar that can live a comfortable and leisurely life after retirement.
Finally, filial piety does not nibble on the children of the elderly. Understanding and understanding of the children of the elderly is the blessing of our retirees, and having such children, even if there is nothing, can live comfortably and peacefully.