Some people have not had the opportunity to meet, and when they have the opportunity to meet, they hesitate, and it is better to see each other than not to see.
Some things have not been given the opportunity to do, and when they have the opportunity, they do not want to do it again.
Some words have been buried in my heart for a long time, and I have no chance to say them, but when I have the opportunity to say them, I can't say them.
Some loves have not had the opportunity to love, and when they have the opportunity, they have not loved anymore.
If people drink water, cold and warm self-knowledge, no matter what the result is, they may have had sincerity at the beginning, but this sincerity cannot withstand scrutiny.
A few days ago a friend and the boyfriend who is about to get married broke up, I can't say what the reason is, but I feel very tired, the two have met the parents, walked through the formalities, and there is only a certificate.
This separation, very calm, without any anger and collapse exists.
Time will make a person grow, but also make people change their attitude towards people and things.
I remember three years ago, when she and her first love were separated, she cried to death, WeChat deletion, mobile phone blackout, everything related to the two was handled cleanly, just to prevent any contact.
And now, she may cry in the middle of the night, but in our eyes, she will become calm, will rationally analyze the bits and pieces of the two people's getting along, and will also know very well that they are not suitable for each other, even if they are tough together, it will not take long, and they may also divorce.
Calm down so much that we can't feel her change at all.
Some people say "the first person she loves, the second she doesn't love", but I know that it is not, she has given her heart, but time has made her grow, not to indulge in pain and extricate herself, nor to be like a little girl, there is love and everything.
The more you experience, whether good or bad, the more you grow up, the more many things need to be handled by a person, the more you deal with, some people think that you don't understand love, but in fact, you just add a protective shell to yourself.
In the past, after the breakup, you could throw everything away in one go, and now you can pull him out from the inside after the breakup.
Some time ago, I saw a discussion on this issue, some people said "keep WeChat, maybe in the future to do micro-business or a customer", at that time felt that it seemed very reasonable.
Keeping the ex is not exactly nostalgia, dare to love and dare to hate, these things may just be a testimony of their past, but also an inspiration for the future.
Some people will say after a breakup that they want you to have a good life. But there are a few people who really hope that you have a good life, maybe when the other party sees that you are living better than him, the heart is sour, and when you see that you are worse than him, you can't help but think that you are fortunately separated, very realistic.
After separation, it is not the point to lose everything about the ex, the focus is to put it down from the bottom of your heart, not to read the past, not to be afraid of the future, the coolest thing is that you have to live better than him in the future.
The more you grow up, the more introverted the vision of love, life is always forward, those love and hate in the past, have nothing to do with you, the only thing you can do is to be good, amazing everyone, losing love is not terrible, you can also work hard to live a wonderful life.
May every girl who has been lost be able to regain a new life, pay attention to me, I am the butterfly of the heart, and give you warmth and companionship with words!