It is said that men must have the appearance of men, all kinds of hot blood, excitement, sadness must be hidden under the cold appearance, for the breakup of this kind of thing, it is even more necessary to be free and calm to deal with.
The truth is also true, most men behave coldly, dashing, desperate when breaking up, and even immediately find a new love, they do not seem to care much about feelings, and girls usually take a long time to get out of this relationship that has ended.
But sometimes, they just hide their sadness and reluctance in their hearts, and they don't easily show it, but they will drill the pain in their hearts and miss it hard to breathe in countless sleepless nights.
There is a saying that is very correct, women go from pain to freedom after breaking up, while men are from seemingly free, but slowly enter the abyss of pain. A man may have many girlfriends, but the person he loves the most in his life may have only one, or love but can't, or hold it in the palm of his hand.
Of course, there are also many men who do not have a little nostalgia after breaking up, how free they are on the surface, and how comfortable they are inside. After the breakup, if he has these three behaviors, prove that he still loves you.
I still have your previous things and often look at the previous photos
If he still has something about you, a photo of you in a social platform or a mobile phone photo album, there is a good chance that he still has you in his heart, and if there is still a photo of you in his wallet, then most of you have carved indelible memories in his heart. He will still greet you on your birthday, and he knows your dynamics, and the login password he once told you has not changed. He'll still call you when he's drunk, say a bunch of things and apologize the next day that he shouldn't bother you.
If you have something he will do to help you
You are very sick very seriously he does not hesitate to hit your Alipay, you meet the scumbag he is eager to rush to the grandson two punches at once, he always looks down on every opposite sex close to you, he did not delete your contact information, your message he is still seconds back, he will often contact you, although the title is not as intimate as before, but the exclusive title of yours will still be called. He still cares about your business, does his best to help you, and he still remembers what you have said.
He broke your bad habit of always nagging him before and tried to be the ideal him in your heart
In the past, nagging always made him smoke less and play games less, he always disagreed, and then heard his friends say that he quit smoking, and he did not download games on his mobile phone. He still made changes and concessions for you. He often asks you about your recent situation through others, always touching the scene, he goes to the places he has been together, he once said he wants to go, he tries his best to get rid of those bad habits of the past, to try to develop towards the way you like, he will work hard, try to be excellent him, although he knows that it is impossible, he seems to be waiting for you to turn back.
In fact, love or not love, can be felt, from the eyes, from the words, from his degree of concern, although broken up, but once together, the things done together, the road traveled, is indelible, although the good man does not eat back grass, but now it is not easy to meet the person who really loves each other, if it is possible, please do not miss, do not wait until the complete loss of regret.
Love is accumulated, will not disappear at once, some love is unforgettable, some memories remain in the heart to let the passage of time will not be diluted, men always hide love in the bottom of the heart, you need to carefully understand, face is not the biggest obstacle, miss is the biggest regret.
Feelings are most afraid of missing, just like "Journey to the West" can not save you without wearing a golden hoop, wearing a golden hoop can not love you, fate makes people, when you love, you must use all your strength, otherwise you will lose, you may not have the opportunity to save. It is the happiest and luckiest thing to be able to stay with the person you love, so please hold on tightly.