I saw such a sentence on the Internet: the three best states of life, unexpected encounters, self-evident, and healing without medicine.
Such a gentle sentence made my heart grow grass at once, stared at it for a long time, and decided to copy this sentence on my notes and read it from time to time.
Sometimes I think that in this life, it is only a few decades, time is as fast as flowing water, many of us in this long river of time, constantly looking for a better self, want to meet more beautiful scenery, want to face life in the best state.
But what is the best state?
Until I saw the sentence above, just twelve words summed up the life I wanted to live, maybe this is the charm of words.
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A good friend from junior high school got married last week, and I couldn't attend her wedding, but her love story still made me sigh that if two people were true love, they would definitely meet.
Friends and mr. are junior high school classmates, at that young and ignorant age, the two people do not know what love, what is love, naturally will not fall in love early, but it is very lucky to go to the same high school together in high school.
She was in the liberal arts class, he was in the science class, there was a staircase in the middle, there was not much intersection, just the time of recess exercise met on the stairs, that's all.
Later, the two went to college, not in the same city, and naturally there was no connection. It wasn't until a party of high school alumni that pulled the two back to high school, when the two had contact information for each other and spent three years in college.
After graduating from college, like all long-distance couples, two people are faced with a choice, whether to go to your city to find you or I want to go home and choose a stable job. Obviously, the situation between the two of them is much more complicated, the boys have to go abroad to study for graduate school, and the girls want to go back to their hometown to take the civil service examination.
Just like that, the two people were separated. Divided for many, many years, until the wedding of another friend, the two people met again, and time pulled them back to many years ago, when the man was unmarried and the woman was unmarried.
Until October this year, the two people finally entered the palace of marriage.
I was a witness to this love affair to marriage, and it seemed that in both of their youth and the time that followed, I was perceiving their lives with the mentality of a bystander, and perhaps the word envy was tired of saying.
You can only sigh that in this world, the person who is destined to be with you will definitely meet you unexpectedly.
In this life, we are destined to meet many people and say goodbye to many people. Maybe we feel heartbroken because of a certain separation, or we may feel sorry for meeting the right person at the wrong time.
But I think that every parting and encounter is a kind of growth, and some people may miss it and will not see each other again. Some people, even if you forget each other, time will still make you reunite again.
Life always has the warmth of unexpected encounters, so we will say goodbye, because we always have a hope in our hearts that we can still meet again after the change of seasons and the cycle of years.
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The most precious thing in life is to understand a word. After all, a person you like will not necessarily like you, and the person who likes you may not understand you.
I often hear people lament that it is obvious that two people live together, but they are more lonely than when they are alone. In fact, the truth behind this is that we are not unaccompanied, but because no one understands you.
Many times, people who understand you are self-evident, and people who don't understand you are too much to say a word. It's like, you like to read, he likes to play games, you may just have different interests. But if he says that you are reading books and pretending to be literary, and you say that he is playing games as a waste of time, such two people together, that is, the three views are not in harmony, that is, they do not understand each other.
And a person who does not understand himself cares, happiness and sadness are not understood, then life is like a stagnant water, lifeless. Love is regarded as a luxury, understanding becomes a kind of temperament, two people together feel only loneliness and suffering, obviously living under one roof, but living more lonely than when they are alone.
The friendship story of Zhong Ziqi and Yu Boya believes that everyone will not feel strange.
Zhong Zi's piano skills were very skilled in their time, and everyone praised his superb piano skills, but this did not make him feel happy, and he always felt that no one could understand his own piano sound, no one understood himself.
Until one day he met Yu Boya, he understood the sound of his piano, he could understand what he thought. For example, when he plays the piano, he thinks about the mountains. Bo Ya sighed from the side: "This piano is like a mountain, majestic and high-pitched, majestic." And in the next song, when he thought about the flowing water, Bo Ya continued to sigh, and the sound of the piano was as clear and pure as the flowing water.
This is the classic story of the famous Boya and the sub-mountain flowing water meeting Zhiyin, which also tells us that in this world, it is rare to meet a person who really understands himself.
We will meet a lot of people in this life, most of them come and go in a hurry, and there are very few people who can really enter your heart and enter your life.
Therefore, if you really meet a person who understands yourself in the vast sea of people, you must cherish it. Because only such people are on the same frequency as you, you are highly compatible spiritually. A lot of things, it has long been self-evident between you,
Whether it's love, friendship, or affection. Understand, more important than anything.
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="03" data-track="45" > rare in life, it is healed without medicine</h1>
There is a sentence in the "Island Bookstore": "Perhaps, in everyone's life, there is the most painful year, which makes life beautiful and vast." ”
No one's life is smooth sailing, a horse, there are always a few moments when you cry alone when you dream back to midnight, but you will find that when you cross that hurdle, you become incomparably powerful.
I love the word self-healing, which, as the name suggests, self-healing. In my more than twenty years of life, difficulties are always much more than happy times, such as when I was in college, I could only do part-time work to earn tuition, because the family income was so much, and those who were not enough could only make up for themselves, and the living expenses needed to be earned by themselves.
Many people have heard that the children of poor families have long been in charge, if your origin can not give you an umbrella, then you can only run in the rain, if you want to live better, you need to run harder.
I worked as a waiter in a restaurant, and in the summer of more than thirty degrees, I wore a doll suit to hand out flyers, just so that I could earn two hundred dollars. These things seemed to me now, it was really just an experience, I could tell them to others like a story, but at that time it was really bitter and I thought it was cool.
Only after we have experienced a lot of things ourselves, we will feel that no matter how difficult things are, you can only face themselves and heal yourself.
This journey of life, thorns and bumps are everywhere, when we are alone to experience the warmth and cold of life, shoulder the pressure of life, have enough courage to face those difficulties, and harvest a strong heart.
No winter is insurmountable, as long as there is hope, you can meet your own beam of light. Learn to heal yourself, and you will eventually be able to harvest a strong heart and a colorful life.
Finally, I would like to send you a word from Mr. Yang Dai:
"We were so eager for the waves of fate, and in the end we found out that the most beautiful scenery of life is the calmness and calmness of the heart... We have been so eager for outside recognition that in the end we know that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others. ”
With this encouragement.
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