Text/Blue Phoenix
Recently, the domestic variety show "My Family That Girl" has aroused heated discussion on the Internet, and many netizens have pointed out that the star parents in the variety show lack the most basic respect for their daughters, but objectify them as "commodities", and the only value of existence is whether they can find a satisfactory Langjun to get married early.
For example, Wu Xin's father, who is so anxious about the fact that his daughter is still single, is almost eager to grab a similar man from the street and let his daughter quickly complete the lifelong event; and Fu Yuanhui, a young girl in the flood, is just in her early 20s and is going on a blind date. "In their opinion, raising a daughter is no different from raising animals," the posted netizen said.
As soon as this remark came out, it caused an uproar. Many netizens even said that these female stars are very pitiful, and they should break off relations with such a family that does not know how to respect their daughters as soon as possible, and it is only a serious thing to seek a life that they want alone. Not to mention whether the netizens' inferences are correct or not, are these parents really urging marriage every day because their children are daughters?
You may wish to take a look at the original Korean variety show "My Bear Child", the content of the Korean version of the variety show is similar to the domestic version, but also invited the parents of the stars to sit in the live broadcast room, observe and comment on their children's life every day. The guests in the Korean version are mostly male stars, according to the inference of mainland netizens, male stars must not have to face the problem of marriage urging.
However, this is not the case. As one of the resident guests in the variety show, the original generation of idol group member An Shenghao can be regarded as a successful career and a success, as Aidou, he has experienced what the top scenery is like, and there are still a large number of die-hard fans who have not abandoned after decades of activities.
As a boss and entrepreneur, An Shenghao can be called an investment genius, and at the same time, he has a pair of discerning eyes. He had signed the then unknown BigBang group for a lower price to endorse his school uniform brand, and soon after signing the contract, BigBang became popular, and the sales of school uniforms naturally rose.
Seeing the frequent problems of school lunch, An Shenghao planned a restaurant project to provide students with lunch while also receiving other guests to eat; because he was greedy for glasses and liked to go to convenience stores to buy some appetizers, he opened a convenient snack bar project. No matter what you invest, AnShenghao, who can accurately grasp business opportunities, is definitely a winner in life.
However, An Shenghao's mother, in the daily life of the show, is "Shenghao can't go down like this, it's time to find a woman to get married", "When will Shenghao get married". The anxiety is palpable.
And the host quipped: What if Sheng Hao can't get married until he is 50 years old. My mother even jumped out of the golden sentence of the program: "What can I do, just wait for the 60-year-old marriage and the 60th birthday together." Sure enough, it is the same parent in the same world, Anderson Hao can not be described as unsuccessful, but he is not married, and in the eyes of his mother, he is not successful enough.
As the people around the star, in fact, the parents of the star are closer to the rice circle than you and I imagine. Sometimes, maybe some big guy who can reveal a few things from time to time is the star's relatives and friends at the other end of the screen. Being close to the rice circle means that they know what to say, what not to say, and what to red lines.
Moreover, the female celebrities in "That Girl" have a normal family relationship with their parents, and there is no idea of ruining their daughter as Mao Xiaotong's father.
Then in the show, there are only two possibilities for the star's parents to openly urge marriage, the first is not at all an offense or objectification of the daughter, but just a estrangement and collision between the two generations of thought. In the eyes of ordinary people, there is nothing missing, and the star is always a child who needs to be taken care of in the eyes of their parents.
The second is caused by the editing of the program group, after all, a program needs to burst, and scolding and controversy are also means to improve ratings. The disputes caused by such devil editing have emerged endlessly over the years, and if the program team of "That Girl" really uses this trick, it is not a new thing.
The fierce reaction of netizens is probably to project their own experience in it, feeling empathy, and feel that female stars are pitiful, and the parents of female stars are hateful. This is probably because most netizens can't blame their parents, nor do they dare to disobey their parents' orders, so they have to take out their anger on others.
Speaking of the two shows, although they are in the same world, parents are the same anxiety about the future of their children. But if the parents of these stars are really stubborn to treat their children as heirlooms, it seems unlikely that these stars will remain single until now.
Therefore, many times the nagging of parents is just nagging, and it does not have to be taken seriously or more truthfully, just listen to it. Especially on the variety show, the star himself has no reaction, and netizens are indignant and eager to rush into the show to quarrel with the old diehards, why bother?
The program is always the program, just look at it, why think too much. However, Hunan Satellite TV should really reflect on it, the same is a parent-child relationship program, the same content, why is the Korean version so popular, but you are slaughtered by netizens to write a small paper criticism?