Recently, Lai Chi-shan was a guest on Thunder 881 Radio.
She is a TVB Gold Host. Often listening to guests share, this time it was finally her turn to expose herself. The host asked about her past love history. She generously took over the conversation: "They are right, the male stars I have interacted with are all red." ”
Source: Radio program Thunder 881 "1 Circle (Weekend Edition)"
"Maybe I can really want to ex, hahaha." Who are Li Zhishan's predecessors? Counting down, there are five who have publicly admitted. Liang Jiahui, Zheng Yijian, Chen Xiaochun, Shao Chuanyong, Zhang Dalun... All are male god level. The ideal lover for thousands of women. For this reason, she was also nicknamed "the harvester of the male god" and "the queen of philatelicism". Moreover, after associating with her, they all seemed to have good luck. From a no-name pawn, he suddenly jumped to a big red and purple. Leung Ka Fai Golden Horse Award and Golden Statue Award were soft. After Zheng Yijian and Chen Xiaochun starred in "Ancient Puzzle Boy", their popularity soared, and the song and film world blossomed twice. Shao Chuanyong developed like a fish in the water. Darren Zhang's role and popularity are growing. Li Zhishan smiled: "Maybe the men I chose are not in the pool." ”
What's even more amazing is that she can become friends with her ex-boyfriend. We often make dinner appointments and meet each other. Invite on your own show, generously chat about love history and the current. Many people are curious, Li Zhishan is not beautiful, why can she always attract all kinds of handsome men? How did she become a "former friend"? This began in 1982.
In 1982, Li Zhishan was 17 years old. It's the age of crazy play. She loves to go to discotheques with a bunch of friends.
At that time, the stars of the dance hall gathered. She often met Zhang Guorong and Chen Baiqiang there. Chen Baiqiang and Zhang Guorong Zhang Guorong are older than her and have always called her "Liang Sister" ("Little Sister" in Cantonese). Later, Lai became a TVB reporter. When my brother saw her when he was interviewed, he would always call her to the front with his eyes. In addition to her brother, Li Zhishan also met another man. "Emperor of a Thousand Faces" Leung Ka Fai. Zhang Guorong and Liang Jiahui were not yet famous at that time. He is still a year away from winning his first Academy Award. In the dim light, Li Zhishan looked at him, and her feelings were dark. He is 9 years older than Li Zhishan. At first, they didn't care about the age gap. Liang Jiahui picked up Li Zhishan from class every day. Hand in hand to attend the premiere of the movie "Hanging Curtain and Listening to the Government".
Li Zhishan also took Liang Jiahui home for dinner. But father didn't like him. "The drama is ruthless, how can you talk to him?" Li Zhishan did not care, still went in and out with Liang Jiahui. A few years later, they broke up. The age gap is a hurdle they can't get over. In 2012, Lai invited Leung Ka Fai to appear on her own show. Exactly 30 years have passed since their first encounter. Chatting and chatting, Li Zhishan suddenly asked: "Surely you didn't think I was (the marriage partner)?" Liang Jiahui paused for a long time. He thought about it. "But no, you're too young." She was 16 years old, and he was 25 years old, and her mind was not on the same channel.
After the breakup, Liang Jiahui married his wife Jiang Jianian and became a model of love. Li Zhishan frankly praised in the show: "He is a super good man, a good husband, a good father." "They still see each other a lot today. He is a work partner and a friend of the old days. And Li Zhishan has never looked for an "older" boyfriend again. After Leung Ka Fai, every boyfriend is younger than himself. With Leung Ka Fai, Li Zhishan's career was also in the bud. She grew up in a dance hall, singing and dancing. Musician Angus noticed her. After a training promotion, she became a signed singer. In 1984, Lai Zhishan, along with Chen Lemin and Chen Huixian, released the album "Girls Magazine".
It is a pity that only Chen Huixian was popular. The following year, Chen Huixian flew alone. Li Zhishan and Chen Lemin also released the record "Girl Declaration, AbsoluteLy Hot Love". The response was still mediocre.
Li Zhishan was extremely depressed. At this time, Hong Kong TVB threw an olive branch to her. She looked at it and wow, this opportunity is fantastic. She was too busy to agree. Became the host of the show "430 Shuttle".
At that time, Li Zhishan did not know that this was arranged for her by her uncle He Hongshen. Yes, her family background is not ordinary. The gambling king's original wife, Li Wanhua, is Li Zhishan's aunt. He Hongshen, distressed that his niece had just lost her father, secretly helped. Li Zhishan always remembered his kindness. At Ho's funeral, she dressed in black and went to send her aunt on her last journey. However, when she entered TVB, Li Zhishan was still unaware of this. She hosts children's programs. Have fun with the kids every day. At that time, Zhou Xingchi was also the host of "430 Shuttle".
They hooked up all day and played well. Xingye loves to talk about passages, and she often laughs until she rolls.
Later, Zhou Xingchi left TVB to shoot a scene. He was replaced by Zheng Yijian. At that time, Zheng Yijian was not yet an ancient puzzle boy. His eyes were green and tender enough to pinch out the water. Her temper was very hot, comparable to Li Zhishan. But these two "powder kegs" are inexplicably together.
After the two fell in love, they quarreled at both ends for three days. A quarrel is bloody, and the whole building knows. Almost every colleague has witnessed their "big war". But Zheng Yijian is also very sweet. There was a birthday of Li Zhishan. He was too shy to afford expensive gifts. So he gave her his "most important thing" ID card.
Such a small detail, Li Zhishan is still very touched when she talks about it now. They lived noisily for more than three years. Li Zhishan passed through Zheng Yijian's most frivolous years. At that time, he did not understand tolerance.
Many years later, Zheng Yijian finally became a calm man. Unfortunately, it is no longer her around. At the end of the interview that day, Li Zhishan said to Zheng Yijian's wife: "You are very happy, you can know Zheng Yijian during this period." ”
And blessed: "I hope you will always be happy and happy." After the breakup, the working relationship, Li Zhishan often went to interview him.
Someone asked her if she was embarrassed. She laughed: "How come, but there is an advantage." "Because he doesn't dare not answer me!" Hahaha. "Now that we meet again, the two of them get along naturally as before. Li Zhishan launched the column "Best Actor". Zheng Yijian came to support without saying a word. Zheng Yijian opened a concert, and Li Zhishan waved a glow stick offstage. She even has a good relationship with Zheng Yijian's wife, Meng Jiahui.
When Li Zhishan and Meng Jiahui participate in the event together, the three of them will happily take a group photo. Meng Jiahui (first from left), Lai Zhishan (second from left), and Zheng Yijian (first from right) can become good sisters with their predecessors, and only Li Zhishan is there.
Li Zhishan has almost no empty window period. After breaking up with Zheng Yijian, she quickly fell in love with actor Shao Chuanyong.
The relationship was bland and long-lasting. It lasted eight years. In 1998, they faced a huge crisis. Shao Chuanyong suffered a serious car accident. The second cervical spine was ruptured and nearly paralyzed. Everyone thinks that Li Zhishan is so playful that she will definitely break up and leave. But she didn't. She has always stayed by Shao Chuanyong's side and never abandoned. Take good care of him. Help him get back to health. Half a year later, Shao Chuanyong finally recovered.
It is said that suffering sees the truth. People are starting to speculate again, now it's time to get married, right? But Li Zhishan once again surprised everyone. She proposed a breakup. Asked why, she smiled and said, "It's not a matter of suffering together that there will be results." ”
But even if they broke up, she wasn't willing to say he wasn't. Once on the show, the host Liang Tailai said half-jokingly: "Shao Chuanyong is very careful, you picked the wrong person!" Li Zhishan leaned back and laughed, "Wow, don't say that, he's fine." ”
Li Zhishan is not a perfect person. These eight years of love, in fact, is not without waves. In 1993, the year after she fell in love with Shao Chuanyong, Li Zhishan briefly cheated on her.
The other party is Chen Xiaochun. Zheng Yijian's good buddy. Chen Xiaochun was 26 years old at the time and was one of the members of the Wind and Fire Sea Group. Young, hormone-thriving. Eyebrows are sharp, and the smile is prickly. That night, Li Zhishan went to see Lin Yilian's concert. Accompanied by a dance. One of the boys was "very eye-catching, different from others." She couldn't take her eyes off her at all. The heart is pounding.
Later, the two friends met at the drink shop. Li Zhishan knew his name: Chen Xiaochun. In the midst of the crowd, she looked at him. He was also determined to look at her. Between the electric light and flint, they were "electrocuted". But soon, Li Zhishan found that the boy was a bit "wooden". He didn't understand romance at all.
On Valentine's Day night, Li Zhishan was full of expectations. As a result, Chen Xiaochun grinned and took her to eat roast goose. And it's sitting on the stage with other people. Li Zhishan loves to play and love to clubbing. But he liked to drink morning tea and read the newspaper, like a grandfather. Li Zhishan thought, we are too different. This underground affair ended quietly in less than a year. Soon after, Chen Xiaochun starred in "Ancient Puzzle Boy". With the role of pheasant, it became popular.
The boy who did not understand the style now had a wife and children. Or a well-known family man. Li Zhishan and he are not suitable for being lovers. But they've always been friends.
The most special man in Li Zhishan's life, I think maybe it is him. Actor Darren Zhang.
From 2004 to 2012, they were together for nine years. The reason for the separation is very helpless. Li Zhishan has witnessed her parents' discord since childhood. She did not believe in marriage and was firmly unmarried and infertile. Zhang Dalun also had no opinion, and seriously said to her: "It doesn't matter, I can not want children." ”
Having said that, on the road, the love for the child in his eyes could not be hidden. "He should have a whole family, and I can't delay him." Li Zhishan thought to herself. At the age of 35, Darren Zhang chose to let go. After the breakup, Li Zhishan created a new program "Best Actor". Invite artists, prepare interview outlines, record programs...
She fills every gap in her life with her work. Always smile cheerfully in front of the camera. Only once, someone asked about him. She was rarely silent, half-dazed, and sighed quietly. "Really helpless..." Four years later, Darren Zhang got married and had children.
Li Zhishan is still alone. But they didn't forget about each other. Instead, they became each other's family.
They have a bunch of mutual friends. Often come out to meet and eat. Darren Zhang also has the keys to Lai's house and the keys to the car. Whenever Li Zhishan had something to do, he would go to help take care of the cat. The two cats were adopted together that year. At the beginning of the outbreak last year, Li Zhishan took the "Diamond Princess". She went home and self-isolated for a month. During this time she thought of the worst-case scenario. In a hurry, she called Darren Zhang: "If I really have an accident and am hospitalized, you will be responsible for taking care of them." ”
The media marked the word "orphan". It's tragic. Darren's reaction made her angry. He didn't care if she was okay or not. The first sentence is: "Don't be too close to the cat!" ”
Some netizens said that this is really like what their brother said. Unconsciously, the relationship between the two is closer to their relatives. Once Dalun Zhang was asked who Li Zhishan's most handsome predecessor was. He laughed widely: "The most photogenic is not me, but the most handsome real person must be me." ”
Darren Cheung was Lai's last lover. Since then, she hasn't been in love again.
Her peach blossoms are still exuberant. A lot of people pursued her. There are even people with iron heads to propose. But Li Zhishan never felt moved. She thought that it would be better to be comfortable with herself if she took the risk of investing in her feelings. She shared in the interview: "It's really good to be single. "Very free, with more time, 100% control over your life without interference." But many years ago, Li Zhishan was not so transparent. As a young woman, she was decadent after a lost relationship. Friend Yang Qianwei advised: "The most important thing about being single is to be beautiful, don't give up on yourself." She suddenly woke up, yes, life is not only love.
In the following decades, Li Zhishan became the "big heroine" in everyone's eyes. You can afford to put it down. Follow your heart rather than the expectations of the masses. The lights of the city are shining, and the streets are bustling with people. She is alone and lives her life calmly. In the Hong Kong storm, she may not be the most beautiful, but she is the lightest - a kaleidoscope of flowers, laughing alone in the spring breeze.