A long time ago, I thought about what it is to like and what it is to love. The likes and loves between the opposite sex, some people like the joy of the first sight, and the long-term tirelessness is called love, but when a person meets another person, there is only a sense of surprise, who can tell anyone, I like this person or I love this person? How long is it? Can it be understood that love disappears after a long period of disgust? Just a few days ago, on the way home on National Day, I suddenly seemed to know how to distinguish between like and love, and I seemed to have figured out several of the above problems.
In my humble opinion, liking is a physiological behavior, representing the most primitive desire of human beings, just like when you grab a toy in the hands of a child, the child will use crying to express his dissatisfaction. Love is a psychological act, suppose you grab the bread in a person's hand, he not only does not express his dissatisfaction with you, but also hands you a glass of water, this is love.
In general, liking is selfish, thinking about what you have gained and lost, gaining is happy, and losing is sad; love is selfless, and love is thinking about what the other party has gained and lost, taking the other party's joy as joy, and taking the other party's sorrow as sorrow. Going back to the first few questions, I think that the joy of seeing at first glance produces love, but not getting tired for a long time is not necessarily love, but it can produce love. And whether love will disappear, I think it will, but it is not easy to disappear, although love belongs to the behavior of deep into the bone marrow, but he is a conscious behavior, although it is difficult to control but does not mean that it can not be controlled, and everyone has a bottom line for everyone, when the loved one frequently tramples on the bottom line, love will fade, and disappear only traces.
