How accurate is a woman's sixth sense? Let me tell you

I was second married when I was with my ex-husband, had a child, the girl was 8 years old, and lived with her mother

The two of us met because of work reasons, he is my customer, contact time is long, just added WeChat, there is a sentence without a word of chat, slowly together, at that time he has been divorced for 2 years, the reason is that his ex-wife cheated, at least with me said so, I also believed at the time

Later, we got married, because he was the second marriage and said he was sorry that he didn't have a wedding, and at that time I was also carried away by the so-called love, so I agreed and traveled to get married

After coming back, we lived the life of an ordinary couple, and we had no plans to have children for the time being, and at that time the feelings were very good, at least I thought it was very good, and we had to make many phone calls every day to work, and there were endless words

If life goes on like this, I think it is also very happy, but life always gives you unexpected surprises, of course, there are also shocks

About half a year later, one day his ex-wife called him and said that he was going to work in the south, (we landmark northeast), the child was not brought, let him take the child over, let us take care of it, I had no opinion at the time, after all, it was his child, love the house and Uma, so the child came to live with us

In terms of children's lives, I feel that I am not ashamed, and I try to do a good job in all aspects, but she is also 8 years old, because her parents are naturally sensitive and have unspeakable hostility towards me, as if I stole his father, I am also innocent

After 3-4 months, the child's mother came back, picked up the child, and told us to live for 10 days and then send it back, because she still had to go to the south

It's also very good, at least we have more than 10 days to live in the world of two people, to go out to see movies, and it was really beautiful to think at that time

It's not a holiday yet, and I'm at work, but I always feel that he calls me less, and for a few days he doesn't make a single phone call, and I ask him after work, and he says it's very busy these days, there's no time, and I don't say anything

You don't call me, the next day I called him during the noon break, didn't get through, busy, has been busy, can have more than an hour, and then opened, I asked him who he called for so long, told me about the customer, I didn't say anything, just passed

The next day I didn't call me at noon, I called him at noon, still busy, and for more than an hour, I didn't feel right, I didn't continue to fight, it was time to go to work, to go home from work

When he was taking a shower, I opened his mobile phone to look at the call record, the record of more than 1 hour of call time was deleted, yesterday's was not, it should be yesterday and today is a person, but it must not be a customer, if it is a customer, it should not be deleted

I stabilized my emotions when I didn't know what to do

After that, every day I took the initiative to call, as long as it is busy, I record the time, at night to see the call record according to the time, half of the time record is gone, that is, deleted, such a day until the New Year we take a vacation

We were both at home, and I noticed that his phone was muted, didn't vibrate, and deliberately avoided me, and the phone was in his pocket and didn't look

At this time, I think it should be to a certain extent, unlike when I first found out, when I could still see the mobile phone, and now I basically can't touch it

After the End of the Year, also to work, his ex-wife called to say that the child was not sent first, because she did not leave, those days I have felt his absent-mindedness, sometimes I can not hear the words, after more than 10 days of precipitation, my emotions have been normal can no longer be normal, I decided to showdown

After work in the evening, I didn't cook, he came back and said how not to cook, I said go out to eat, before eating, we still nag it, I said what I recently found with my ideas, I said you can not admit it, but it doesn't matter, I know there must be something wrong, but the details I don't know, the days can not go on, but also depends on your attitude

I also did not expect that he said it very cheerfully, it was in contact with his ex-wife, the details of the process did not tell me, in a word, he can not do without the child, the child can not be separated from the mother

Saying so clearly, I pretended to be confused a bit to say that I couldn't say it, I didn't eat that night, I packed up my things and left overnight, he also said falsely, tomorrow morning to go again, so late is not safe, I laughed and said, it doesn't matter, the old woman has a place to live

Call the best girlfriend, let her pick me up, more luggage, she let me go to her house, I didn't agree to stay in the hotel because she also has a husband and a 3 year old child, I can't be too disturbed

After that, I rented a house, moved, (the house his parents didn't have a dime to do with me)

Later, we made a phone call and set a time to go through the divorce procedures, during which there was no trouble, no crying, that is, calmly divorced the marriage

Because I don't think it's worth it, if he doesn't love you, it doesn't matter what, although I became a second marriage, I avoided a lot of problems, what if I have children in the future in this situation? What about children?

This matter has been a long time, I have put it down earlier, a new boyfriend, or a marriage history, now very good for me, I don't know what will happen in the future, but I think love is coming, don't hide, what should be done, very good