Is there something wrong with a single aristocrat?

Sister's story

She is 2 years older than me and graduated from graduate school. He now teaches at a university in Zhengzhou.

Over the years, for her marriage, her mother has broken her heart. Back and forth many times, after coming back is all kinds of reasons, fat, thin, too dark, too white, too little hair... I know what she thinks in her heart, she once told me that she likes to live alone, free, eat whenever she wants, play when she wants, don't have to be locked in by various household chores, don't have to deal with the parents in two families.

She said that I was living alone, I could live well, I couldn't adapt to a strange man coming to my house, I had to change his hobbies for him, changed his diet, and even, I couldn't bear to wake up in the morning and find my bed occupied by a man. It's this kind of thinking that can't be changed.

But, our mom, she's an extreme pessimist. She couldn't figure out why her daughter, though not so good, wasn't so bad, and why she was left alone. I cried countless times and quarreled countless times, but in exchange for the result, the gap between mother and daughter, no one dared to talk about this matter again, as if it was a scar, unveiled is a new wound that hurts the heart, and the bloody dare not come closer.

Once, she talked about a half-year relationship for her mother, but half a year later she still proposed to break up, she did not dare to tell her mother, told me, she was suddenly very relaxed, she has been carrying a heavy shackle for this love, obviously do not love, obviously do not want to get married, but still maintain, this feeling is too tired, too sorry for others. She said that the moment she said it, she was so relaxed.

I agree with her idea, living alone, what's so bad about it? Last year, my mother did heart stents, all my sister ran up and down alone to accompany me, my brother and I did not pay anything because of work, in fact, think about it, parents raised us for so long, can accompany them in their lifetime, why not, every time she goes out, she can go light, her work arrangements are appropriate, bought a single apartment, paid insurance, food and clothing worry-free, so that maybe you can share it for your parents in a better state! In such a life, what reason do we have to bother her? After all, in the area of filial piety to my parents, my sister did much better than my brother and me.

One person can live one's life well, don't use your own thoughts to morally kidnap others.

I hope that the world will be more tolerant, so that girls like my sisters can live their lives well. Don't bother.