China's single adult population has exceeded 240 million. The proportion of unmarried and single states reached 55.6%, while the proportion of women was 39.2% single
Singleness has become a common social phenomenon, especially in more developed cities.
There are both objective and subjective reasons, of which the following are common
Detached from the inherent cognition of the acquaintance society, the stranger society has emerged along with the modernization process, and the movement of people is the main reason. People are in a hurry, but most of them are just passers-by, and most of us are used to the bustling crowds in the depths, without the laughter and shouting in the city, without the chatter between neighbors. The improvement of our morality is accompanied by the indifference of emotions. We prefer to immerse ourselves in our own affairs, turn a blind eye to others, and with the rise of various scams over the years, strangers are reluctant to help even if they can. Over time, I became accustomed to being alone and self-reliant. Women learned to fix computers, men learned to wash and cook, and although it was not easy, they also enjoyed themselves.
On the other hand, the stranger society also leads to a social circle that is too small, which is not conducive to smoothly getting rid of the list. And what has to be mentioned is that it is because the work is too busy.
"There are thousands of reasons for being single, and it takes no. 1 to make money"
The cost of marriage and love is too high, the workplace is seriously involved, and most people weigh the pros and cons and put money in the primary goal. "No money to talk about love?" Indeed, when you have problems eating, love cannot make you hungry, and the modern workplace is seriously involved, coupled with the impact of the epidemic, many companies are open source and throttling. A little carelessness was put on the big list of layoffs. Everyone shouted "don't work hard today, try to find a job tomorrow" and inject more time into it. It has become accustomed to it for a long time.
The leap in the improvement of work ability, social ability is not necessarily. When I found out that it was time to get married, there were very few people of the opposite sex who could talk around, and I opened the address book except for relatives and colleagues.
Hey, forget it, or my girlfriend knows me best.
Among the 240 million single people, the number of single people living alone has reached 92 million, of which the proportion of women with marriageable and high education far exceeds that of men. What does this mean?
The rise of working women and intellectual women is an indisputable fact
Modern women advocate economic independence, live independently, and like to seek their own ideal life. Instead of clinging to the husband's support. Childbearing and caregiving have also become synonymous with traditional women. Therefore, in the concept of marriage and love, more and more women take Ning Que and Not Abuse as the motto, and even can't find the right one to prefer to be single all the time.
Fitness, yoga, shop visits, food, travel, cat ownership... It seems that there are always things that cannot be done, there is no need to fall in love at all, and you can live as you want.
"Single is not alone, life and soul can be self-pleasing"
In addition, the poor economic conditions of men and the higher requirements of women for mate selection are also the core factors leading to the growing size of the single population.
The richness of material conditions and the satisfaction of the spiritual world make many young people unwilling to easily get rid of the single, so that they always look for a partner beyond the requirements of their own actual level, and they do not know that the most real love is a bland taste, as plain as water.
Imagine the way we first fell in love, no sky-high bride price, no car and no house
Just because of the excitement of that moment, I knew that there was a wind blowing that summer evening.
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