In 2004, Song Dandan invited nearly 100 friends to hold a "family version" of the Oscar ceremony for herself at home, in her words: "At my age, the Oscars are not good, but the acceptance speech makes me uncomfortable."
In fact, Song Dandan did all this for her original dream, in Song Dandan's report performance not long after he was on the art, Zhao Baogang said bluntly, "This child, acting is doubly good!" ”
Since then, Song Dandan has dreamed of winning an Oscar, because in her view, the Oscar is the most valuable affirmation for an actor.
She thought so and did this, just graduated from renyi with the "Red and White Happy Event" won the first prize, when the monthly salary was only 23 yuan, she received a bonus of 1100 yuan, she once said bluntly: I will not give anyone the bonus, this is what I deserve, you will slowly get used to it in the future, because I will often win the prize.
At the age of 24, she won the Feitian Award for Best Supporting Actress for "Finding the World Back", and at the age of 25, she won the Italian Silver Award at the International Film Festival for "Crescent Moon", and it seems that all of this is making her move in the direction of the Oscars.
However, fate made a huge joke to him, in 1989, the Spring Festival Gala director team killed 7 sketches in a row, song Dandan went down to save the scene at the recommendation of others, but in fact, Song Dandan's heart was rejected at that time.
In Song Dandan's view, she is an actress with the most elegant art, a strong contender for future Oscars. Didn't you lower your own value? In fact, At that time, Song Dandan's impression of the sketch was like Zhou Libo's later saying that Guo Degang's cross-talk was garlic.
What Song Dandan did not expect was that the sentence "My name is Wei Shufen, female, 29 years old, still unmarried." What made him popular overnight was that he did not expect that in the next few years, she would become one of the most popular people in the Spring Festival Gala sketches.
Although the Spring Festival Gala and the skit brought Song Dandan a very high popularity, but also brought her a lot of trouble, such as every time the day a very serious performance drama, the audience saw her smile, for example, once the son Batu had a fever, Song Dandan took him to see a doctor, the result of the nurse had to let Song Dandan tell him how his teeth were made at the Spring Festival Gala, otherwise he would treat Batuu, which made Song Dandan very distressed, and also let him realize that his Oscar dream was shattered, in order to meet his wishes, She threw herself an Oscar.
Nowadays, the "queen of comedy" Song Dandan has withdrawn from the Spring Festival Gala, and has also reached the age of retirement, but looking back at Song Dandan's sixty years of life history, which has both the joy of career success and the pain of emotional failure, then how can Song Dandan stand in the entertainment industry for sixty years without falling, and then we enter Song Dandan's magnificent life.
Song Dandan, born in Beijing in 1960, has two sisters and an older brother, she is the youngest child in the family, and a month before Song Dandan was born, a boy named Yingda was born, and the Song family and the Ying family at that time would not have thought that these two children who were born not more than a month apart would cause such a big storm in the future.
Song Dandan's family background is deep, his father is the secretary of the Beijing Federation of Literary and Literary Circles in the early years, his mother has been engaged in education work, and his brother Song Beishan has achieved a very high official position, it can be said that Song Dandan was born in the family of official eunuchs.
Song Dandan when he was a child and the current appearance is completely different, now Song Dandan can be said to be full of aura, but when he was a child, Song Dandan's figure was relatively bloated, his hair was relatively thin, and there was no half-cent relationship with the beauty embryo, at that time, he most admired the eldest brother Song Beishan, but every time the eldest brother said to make fun of her body type, Dan Dan grew up, that is, the meat seller in the alley.
Time flies, in the blink of an eye, Song Dandan has been in the third year of high school, this year not only the country resumed the college entrance examination, but also Song Dandan encountered the first ignorant love in her life.
At that time, Song Dandan's class turned to a veteran named Yuan Gang, tall, handsome and handsome with a sunny atmosphere, so that Song Dandan had the feeling of a deer bumping, and what was more interesting was that when Song Dandan went downstairs, he accidentally fell down, and was just caught by Yuan Gang, just like the plot of the idol drama, and the two began to get acquainted.
However, early love is accompanied by a decline in grades, there is no suspense Song Dandan failed the college entrance examination, and Yuan Gang was admitted to the law department of Peking University, in order to catch up with Yuan Gang's pace, Song Dandan decided to re-read, but the cruel reality gave her a blow to the head, she fell off the list again, this matter on Song Dandan's blow is very big.
When Song Dandan was preparing for the third re-reading, her heart was broken, at this time her mother was hospitalized and sick, and her father took care of Song Dandan infinitely, but every time he asked him how he was preparing for the college entrance examination, Song Dandan, who had a heartbreak, ran to Qingdao with 80 yuan to hide, but three days later, he was still arrested by his father.
When Song Dandan fell into despair, Yingda wanted to apply for the Peking University drama major, because of the high myopia and was rejected, helplessly he could only go to study psychology, during the Peking University, Yingda met his first wife, later, Yingda decided to go to the United States to study drama, but did not want to break up, so he relied on family relations to get his girlfriend out of the country.
On the other side, Song Dandan also ushered in a turnaround, when Song Dandan's neighbor told him: Beijing Renyi is recruiting students, I think you should consider being an actor.
In this way, Song Dandan stepped into the examination room of renyi with the mentality of a dead horse as a live horse doctor, although Song Dandan did not have any special skills at that time, but he read the renyi enrollment brochure and regarded broadcast gymnastics as a talent, which attracted the attention of the invigilator, especially in the third exam, Song Dandan's topic was that his mother was sick and called his father.
At that time, in order to test Song Dandan's on-the-spot adaptability, Blue Sky Wild deliberately did not answer Song Dandan's phone twice, and finally the phone rang, Song Dandan said: Dad, you come quickly, when you come, bring me two bottles of yogurt by the way! As soon as this remark came out, it instantly detonated the whole audience, and Song Dandan also felt that the art was stable.
However, at this time, some teachers said that Song Dandan's body was too bloated and not suitable for the actor's path. Song Dandan was anxious after listening to it, and she said: Teacher, don't you still have half a year to try to read? I'm sure I'll lose weight by then, and if I can't, you'll have time to fire me again."
In this way, the 20-year-old Song Dandan, who had no acting foundation, entered the human arts, and the first thing she did here was to lose weight as much as possible and not be dismissed from school, during that time, hunger was full of song Dandan, fortunately, after half a year, she lost a full 30 pounds and changed from an ugly duckling to a white swan.
When she first entered the art, Song Dandan regarded winning the Oscar as a lifelong goal, she worked hard to learn all kinds of knowledge, and soon she became the most outstanding student in the art of people, of course, at that time, Song Dandan did not forget the original intention, after all, one of the purposes of entering the university was to be able to be with Yuan Gang.
However, at this time, Yuan Gang made the decision to go abroad, Song Dandan was very sad after learning about it, after all, his brothers and sisters all had the experience of going abroad, and she had already had enough of the pain of lovesickness, the so-called twisted melon was not sweet, with the departure of Yuan Gang, Song Dandan's five-year feelings were burned.
For this relationship, Song Dandan said in his autobiography, "He never put our fate together, and he never wanted to walk the path of life with me." ”
When Song Dandan was sad and weeping, it turned out that Yingda on the other side of the ocean made the decision to return to China for development, but at this time his wife did not want to return to China, after all, it was difficult to rely on the relationship between the Yingda family to get the green card, how could she easily give up, and as a result, Yingda chose to divorce and embarked on the plane back to China alone.
The so-called love field frustration, workplace pride, on the other hand Song Dandan will focus on the performance, did not expect that he really broke out of the famous hall "Red and White Happy Event", "Looking for the World Back", "Crescent Moon" and other popular works, so that Song Dandan has a small reputation in the show business circle.
This year, Song Dandan did a big thing while busy with his career, that is, he got married and married a man who had known him for only three months, but it turned out that flash marriage would not have good results, and the two divorced in less than a year.
For this marriage, Song Dandan rarely mentioned, it is said that on the day of the divorce, the ex-husband said to Song Dandan: If you become famous in the future, do not mention my name in any place. Sure enough, Song Dandan did it, and the public only knew that Song Dandan had this marriage, but did not know who the other party really was.
After two setbacks in their feelings, under the arrangement of fate, Song Dandan and Yingda finally met, when Yingda returned from abroad, coinciding with the rehearsal of "Arsonist", Yingda, who studied directing, stayed, and Song Dandan was an actor at that time.
In fact, the combination of Yingda and Song Dandan in addition to the two people in love, their family lineage also plays a certain role, Song Dandan's family lineage has been introduced at the beginning of the chapter, the Same is true of the Yingda family, the Yingda family's ancestors to the grandfather's home, all of them are big coffee, grandfather Yingzhi and Liang Qichao and other people have close contacts, grandmother ai Xinjue Luo Shuzhong is born noble, father Yingruocheng's earliest translator, is a milestone artist in human art, mother Wu Shiliang's father was the principal of Shanghai Jiaotong University in his early years, very powerful.
In 1989, Yingda and Song Dandan were licensed to marry, at this time, Song Dandan was already popular throughout the country through the Spring Festival Gala sketches, and Yingda was still a period of time away from becoming famous.
As the only son of Yingda, from childhood to do no housework, the family of large and small things are Handled by Song Dandan, although sometimes Song Dandan feels very tired, but because the first half of the love of the two people is still quite happy, which has the 60,000 pieces they earned to the sky of the beauty, but love will not last long, in the long life, the feelings of the two have also ushered in a crisis.
In 1993, Yingda finally ushered in the opportunity to become popular, this year "I Love My Home" invited Yingda as a director, Liang Zuo as a screenwriter, Song Dandan starred, the film has achieved unprecedented success since its release, and Yingda's British comedy has also become popular in an instant.
Just when everyone was celebrating, Song Dandan's marriage with Yingda came to an end, it turned out that when filming "I Love My Home", Liang Tian and Liang Zuo's sister were also the screenwriters of the play, as a director, Yingda often worked with the screenwriter all night for the film, and Song Dandan, who already had Batu, could only run on both sides, so slowly Yingda and Liang Huan spread a scandal.
At that time, this matter was very big, the Song family and the Ying family were very embarrassed, and Liang Huan's family also strongly opposed the feelings of the two in order to avoid embarrassment, and even said cruel words that they did not recognize Liang Huan's girlfriend.
Song Dandan was very angry when he learned about it, and directly asked Yingda for divorce, but Yingda did not agree, and the angry Song Dandan said: If you don't divorce me, I will go out and look for it! In that period of jealousy, quarrels and cold violence, Song Dandan met a man in the case of extreme loneliness and loneliness, and the two soon had a relationship, and then Song Dandan told Yingda, I found other men, let's divorce! This time, Indah did not hesitate and immediately agreed.
On the day of the divorce, Yingda's pager landed on Song Dandan's car, when Song Dandan saw Liang Huan's message to Yingda, he was finally convinced that Yingda had indeed cheated, and her little guilt was finally put down, and then Song Dandan got the custody of her son Batu, and the two relied on each other.
According to Song Dandan's first two relationships, the past will not be mentioned again, except for Yingda, especially when Yingda said that he would take his son and Liang Huan to space, Song Dandan was completely angry, he accused Yingda of being a scum, the loving father was fake, and ignored his son Batuu after the divorce.
In this regard, Yingda said that since the divorce must be completely broken, otherwise I am sorry for my wife and children now. For a time, Yingda was accused by netizens, but I am afraid that the most deeply injured should be Song Dandan's son Batu.
Of course, after separating from Yingda, Song Dandan still found the other half of his life, Zhao Yuji, the two met and had a dinner, and then in less than a month of acquaintance, the two quickly got a license to get married, this time Song Dandan chose the right, and now Song Dandan's life is happy and happy.
Although he has withdrawn from the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, in the hit drama "Your Love is Beautiful", Song Dandan played the fashionable old lady to once again let the audience appreciate the effect of the comedy queen, hoping that in the future, Song Dandan can star in more film and television works to bring more joy to everyone.