Broken House: The Unbearable Pain of Life When sweetness is given to the person who gives sweetness ends

Forming a happy family requires a lot of hard work, and destroying all this business and accumulation only requires a small accident. We pay attention to, talk about, and lament unexpected tragedies, and after tragedies, the reconstruction of people's hearts and normal lives is often even more lamentable.

In the Belgian movie "Broken House", the male protagonist Didier at the beginning of the movie, holding a guitar-like instrument banjo, and his own "bluegrass band" sang: May the relatives and final reunion; Lord, Lord, be blessed by you; more beautiful homeland, waiting for us; heavenly clouds, heavenly clouds.

Although singing the hope for a better home, at the beginning of the story, Didier's daughter Mabel suffered from cancer; but the story did not blindly tell the sadness brought by the disease or render the strength to fight the disease, but a large interlude about the romantic beauty of The age when Didier and Mabel's mother, Alyssa, who ran a tattoo shop, met.

After making love in the caravan, in a quilt with red light, they talk about music and distant stories. They laughed and sang, singing the same romantic song as the psalms: the young man was always in good condition of the corn until July was already high in September, and the frost of September suddenly fell from heaven and the young man's corn was all frozen

They fall in love on the grass and in the caravan; they yearn for America, singing Carefree American country folk songs by the campfire and on the stage; you think that such literary and artistic young people will only play irresponsibly, but they make promises in the chapel to welcome the arrival of new life in the new house, and in the process of growing up, they continue to sing while learning how to be parents.

But this is not a movie about romantic love, and the beauty of these encounters is accompanied by the anxiety of caring for her cancer-stricken daughter Mabel in the hospital. Seeing the little girl doing chemotherapy, the hair slowly becoming less, and the trembling of the small body when the big needle pierced past, all made people sigh the beauty of the first encounter, so unreal.

Alyssa was initially very rational, and she said to her husband who was sad in the hospital, "We said okay, we're going to be sad to go home sad, we're going to be happy here." Together, they translated the disease into the language of fairy tales, coaxing sick children to giggle. They are working how to grow from taking care of their lovely daughter's parents to being able to work together to care for their 6-year-old daughter who has cancer.

A bird crashed into a window, and daughter Mabel asked Didier why the bird had died. For the death of the bird, the parents' explanation can be perfunctory. But in the face of his daughter, who was facing death, Didier found it difficult. He said, "People have all sorts of explanations: some people say that birds have immortal souls and will ascend to heaven, where they can see Mom and Dad fly together, where the sun will always shine; after death he will get many chicks that he has never seen, and he can have fun; but these, Dad does not believe, Dad thinks that all things are dead when they die, but you can't say that." "This rock musician father is still learning to deal with the fact that his child is sick, learning to explain to his child that life and death are all that we don't want to bear but have to bear."

But it's also not a movie in which parents take their daughters to fight cancer, and less than a third of the movies kill their children from cancer. Then, that's the beginning of the tragedy, but they still sing: If I need you, can you come to see me, can you come to see me, soothe my wounds, if you need me, I can go to see you, I swim across the sea, soothe your wounds.

The Bible says, "Though I have walked through the valley of the shadow of death, I am not afraid of being harmed, for you are with me." "When a child dies, will the mother still believe in God?" She no longer believed in God, did not believe in the man around her, did not believe in the United States she longed for, did not believe in the comfort of song and love.

After the child died, Didier kept comforting Alyssa, telling her that her life should change and that they should move forward. But Alyssa said: Before your daughter was born, you didn't think about having children, did you? Didier said, but since she was born, I have been the happiest man in the world. Alyssa said: Yes, I was very drunk and drank for 10 days; I didn't know when I first got pregnant that I smoked and drank... She kept blaming, Didier couldn't stop it, and the situation continued to spiral out of control. Alyssa continued: "We have never had cancer in our family, you have it in your family, your two uncles and your father...

They sang so much about the yearning for a better life, they had such a beautiful love, such an interesting life, they were so fragile; they fought, they worked hard, they sent away cancer with full love; but they did not suffer the hard reconstruction after the tragedy. The severe pain of losing a child must find an emotional outlet. If you throw a fist at the hateful life and fate for this purpose, there is only powerlessness and helplessness. The outlet of emotion is to find someone, drink heavily, it's all you, blame you.

Love hurts. Finally, the claws of a woman's emotions will reach out to the people who have been accompanying her. Because his cuteness has been drowned out by sorrow, and all his hateful details have been remembered. The women will take out all these hateful details and lash out at you, telling you that it is because of your abominations that have led to the current sad situation, not you, but also indirectly because of you.

There is a Mexican proverb that says that home is not built on land, but on women. At this time, whether it is the man involved or the bystander, it will be impossible to understand how this sexy, cute, considerate, and agile woman can become so vicious and incomprehensible. Who is to blame? He was angry and helpless. At this time, some men will keep quiet; some men will be involved in this unreasonable endless quarrel and mutual harm, and the unbalanced life will eventually collapse.

Who's going to stop all this from falling? When the sweetness is given to the sweet person to terminate, it is the unbearable pain of life, and it is also the abyss that the emotional woman is difficult to walk through, and if you are not careful, you will never recover. In the end, unable to warm each other, the rebuilding of the beautiful Alyssa and Didier separated, and Alyssa commits suicide. In the euthanasia ward of Alyssa, everyone sang for her a song that had lost her lyrics, called "Dune", the original lyrics were, life is like a dune, hard work; the wind blows, instantly scattered.