We are all familiar with the poem Saint Du Fu, it can be said that from elementary school, his works have always appeared in our textbooks from primary school to high school, and those words that are either miserable or heroic show us Du Fu's life. From the ambition of youth, to the depression of middle age, and finally the turbulence of old age, this person always seems to be miserable.
In fact, du fu in history also has a tender side, in that era when poets were more popular, he only married one person in his life. His wife Yang was born as an official eunuch, and was considered a young lady of Shuxiang Mendi, the difference between the two was more than ten years, and they had been married for thirty years. Not only did he not marry a concubine, but he did not casually become intimate with other women even when he was out socializing.
He wrote the most patriotic poems in his life, but he also wrote many poems for his wife, and there are poems about his wife in the "Northern Expedition" and "Moon Night", "The wife is dressed in a hundred knots" and "The incense mist is wet, and the jade arm is cold." When to lean on the false pretense, double photo tear stains dry. ”
Her wife did not enjoy happiness after marrying him, living in poverty, not to mention having to take care of the children alone, Du Fu also felt deeply guilty, and every time he returned home, he would bring some small gifts to the Yang family. Although the two have a bad life, but they love each other for a lifetime, this taste, presumably only they know.