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Are there any friends who have not watched Yang Meng'en propose?! They are so sweet!
Obviously a funny show at the talk show conference, it moved me to tears...
Although the marriage proposal is not a big deal, everyone has also watched a lot of weddings on National Day.
But Yang Meng'en's marriage proposal is really a little different, it can be said that it is the top 1 marriage proposal I have seen,
He makes perfect use of the time difference and space difference, sincere and romantic, gentle and moving,
Originally, when proposing marriage in public, the woman was kidnapped by the disguised morality, but this time he actually kidnapped himself morally.
At the scene, he said:
"The reason I say it on this stage is not because it's romantic or special.
It's because I feel like I've grown up to this day, with what I've seen in life and my faith, telling me to believe in one sentence:
In this world, there are no naturally good people, only civilized people who are constrained. ”
Speaking of this, Li Tian, who has just been divorced, took off his glasses to wipe his tears, and Pang Bo, who has been married for 7 years, turned around and wiped his tears.
Yang Kasa, who ridicules men every day, also cried and said:
"There's something wrong with you."
Although everyone has suffered from love, in the face of sincere and beautiful feelings, they still bend their backs repeatedly, just as Meng Fei said:
"It's hard for us to be moved by that suffering, but we're particularly susceptible to happiness."
Yang Meng'en prepared two marriage proposals, once in front of everyone,
In the recording scene of the show, he announced his love, he said:
"Liu Peiyu, are you married?"
Ordinary three words, but more touching than "marry me", because this is not to take possession, but to have each other,
In everyone's booing, "Marry him!" "Marry him!" "Marry him!" "When,
Later, it was found that his girlfriend was not at the scene at all.
He did not put his girlfriend in such a cajoling and persecuting environment, without moral kidnapping, nor did he chase ducks to the shelves.
In order not to let his girlfriend be sad because of his elimination, he chose to wash away with the joy of proposing marriage.
In front of everyone full of bravery and romance, and the girlfriend and immense respect and love, this space difference brought, almost all netizens full of touch and blessings,
The second time was to wait until the TV show aired, and then to propose again with his girlfriend alone.
In that short proposal video, there are no salutes, flowers, balloons, lights.
There is only a palm-sized mobile phone, which contains the video of Meng's marriage proposal, the beautiful time difference, in that space, only you and me,
He said: "Finally the exciting moment has arrived, when everything is ready to be beaten back to the original, the proposal looks very simple, but she, looks beautiful." ”
Originally love is only about two people, as long as two people are willing to spend the rest of their lives together, then it doesn't matter if others say anything,
As netizens said:
"Make a promise before the whole world and wait for you to respond in nowhere."
The brightness of love, and the meticulousness of love, Yang Meng'en, can be said to be the ceiling of marriage proposal,
Don't put pressure on your girlfriend in public, but you are very willing to give a commitment in public, and even say directly:
For the sake of love and faith, I volunteered to be the civilized one who was bound,
Not because of how romantic and special I am, just because I believe, because I love deeply...
"Because she is already an integral part of my life",
"I may face countless temptations in the future, but I swear in front of thousands of people, because I love you, I voluntarily put on the shackles of civilization for myself." 」
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Up to now, in fact, we have seen more points and combinations,
How golden the child is on the show, how much is unswerving, in reality, how much chicken flying dog jumping, fish dead net broken,
It is unimaginable that the love we yearn for will eventually be interpreted like this, marriage is the graveyard of love, in fact,
A series of tearing, real hammer war continues to open the curtain, refreshing the lower limit of netizens, one mask after another is torn, the ugliest human nature is revealed,
Dating, cheating, pornography, gambling, domestic violence... In short, only you can't think of it, without them can't do it,
But why, after the 1001st injury, do we still shed tears for a marriage proposal?
Because of his purity, sincerity, romance, because the essence of love is a kind of giving and self-restraint,
As Richard Dawkins' Selfish Genes says:
"I will go against my nature, rebel against my instincts, and love you forever."
It is precisely because the most important thing in marriage is a process of covenant making and keeping covenants.
I don't need to marry a perfect person or marry a perfect person, I need a covenant-keeping person, an ordinary person who will repent and grow,
Marriage is an extremely important agreement in life, and when Munn proposed marriage at the talk show conference, he had already entered a marriage contract.
In this sacred covenant, he himself said that he voluntarily was bound to become the "civilized one",
In reality, many people, it is precisely because they do not realize that they want to self-discipline, they choose self-persistence and self-centeredness.
So the divorce rate is rising, because they are not willing to give, sacrifice, and are not willing to change, so they can only escape themselves in a broken relationship.
This is true both in a marital relationship and in a romantic relationship.
I don't know if you have seen a post-90s blind date variety show "90 Marriage Agency" on Station B.
This large-scale love variety show like a debate competition, documentary, idol drama, a gathering place for high-quality women of human beings,
Just by watching the program, you can feel the common characteristics of the post-90s:
Confident and direct, strong personality, unwilling to compromise, more concerned about themselves than others,
This type of person is naturally difficult to take off the single, even if it is off the single, it is difficult to maintain an intimate relationship,
Like can also be obedient, refer to deer as horses, but love is another thing,
Remembering a passage that Teacher Luo Xiang once said, it is a good description of what love is:
"I suddenly remembered a story I read when I was a child, very old-fashioned, very old-fashioned, many classmates may have heard, every time I think about it I am very warm, there is a boy has a gold watch, he fell in love with a girl, this girl has a beautiful long hair, it is about to be Christmas, the boy decided to sell this gold watch, buy a beautiful hairpin for the girl, when he excitedly handed this hairpin to the girl, found that the girl's hair had been cut off, it turned out that the girl cut her own hair, Because she wants to pay this hair back, to buy a strap for the boy, the real love must not be an instant touch, but must be a permanent commitment, sacrifice each other, achieve each other, respect each other. ”
Not to do my best to seek the bottom, but even if I lose money, I will continue to walk,
It is not that it feels that love has come to die and come back to life, but it feels that it is still possible to keep the agreement and guard as before,
It's not what I want or what I want, it's what I want to give to others, what I can give...
Indeed, Yang Meng'en woke up many people with a marriage proposal and a sentence.
He believed, he hoped, he loved, so he "voluntarily put on the shackles of civilization for himself."
The Bible says, "There is faith, hope, and love that exist today; the greatest of these three is love." ”
Why does the Bible say that these virtues, the greatest of which is love,
Faith is the foundation, hope is the goal, and love is our supply along the way, so that no matter how difficult we go through, we can move forward sweetly, so the biggest is love,
And this love is not self-interest, not self-centered, but value the needs of the other party,
The essence of love is self-denial, it is restraint,
Only in this restraint and exclusivity can we enjoy the unique sweetness of love,
I believe that each of us deserves to be loved and loved uniquely,
I also wish Yang Meng'en and Liu Peiyu brave enough to enter the marriage hall, and even more to love each other and stick to each other enough.
Finally, I gave you a song "Love, Can Be a Little More", I hope we can all find that unique love~
Love, could be a little more
I can have the whole world without love
I can understand everything, but it's still blank
I can move mountains with faith, but I am still alone
The world is devoid of love, and everything is still black and white
Don't bury it in your heart and speak out about your love
Don't stand around in silence and live out the love
Oh love, it could be a little more
Don't be afraid of being hurt And lock your soul
Love from tianfu takes fear away
Discover happiness meets you around the corner
In an instant, the world became beautiful