This episode of the talk show is about social topics, but because the main stage performance has been postponed again, only the discussion session of the screenwriting department has been broadcast this week. In fact, on the topic of social interaction, there are still many details to talk about. Among them, they talked about WeChat. WeChat can be said to be the most widely used social app in China at present, and almost everyone is using it. But everyone's frequency of use, dependence, and understanding of the app is different.
Take the actors in the screenplay department of Qing Yuqiang, the number of WeChat friends of each person is very different. For people like Cheng Lu, WeChat friends exceeded 3,000, while Wang Jianguo did not even have 1,000. Although WeChat friends may not be real friends, this data can also reflect a person's social breadth to a certain extent.
Of course, talking about WeChat cannot avoid the circle of friends. In fact, the understanding of the circle of friends is the main part of the topic of WeChat. Sure enough, everyone has different degrees of use of the function of the circle of friends. Two of them were in stark contrast, one was Cheng Lu and the other was Yang Meng'en.
Although Cheng Lu is a middle-aged man in his nearly 40s, his circle of friends is very active, and a little thing is worth shouting at in the circle of friends. For example, I drank with Wang Jianguo today, rode a horse with Li Zhi the day before yesterday, and so on. Such a mentality, like a small child.
Yang Meng'en is just the opposite. Although he is not very old, he is not interested in the circle of friends. According to his own account, in recent years, there has been basically no circle of friends. Because he feels that nothing is worth communicating with other people, and the circle of friends cannot express his heart.
In this regard, Cheng Lu jokingly said that the circle of friends can still express the heart?
In fact, from the two people's different understanding of the circle of friends, we can feel the gap between the two people's mentality.
In reality, there are actually many people, like Yang Meng'en, who are not impressed with the function of the circle of friends, think that this cannot express their true selves, and they are increasingly unwilling to share their inner joys and sorrows, and are unwilling to communicate with others. This mentality seems to be mature, but in fact, they have raised the circle of friends too high.
Who said that the circle of friends is so ritualistic? Isn't the circle of friends a tool? Why sanctify?
You have to say that pressure, everyone has, in fact, Cheng Lu, who is nearly 40 years old, the pressure is definitely much greater than Yang Mengen, who is less than 30 years old. But Cheng Lu usually giggled and looked like he had no heart and no lungs. That's because he's long past the age of pretending to be deep. At this stage, people live a little more freely, and don't take many things as so grand. Circle of friends, happy to send a hair, this does not mean anything, no one through the circle of friends of the word to dissect a person, even if there is, so what? Still afraid of being senselessly dissected by insignificant people?
The reason why Yang Meng'en does not want to send a circle of friends just proves that he cares too much about this platform and cares too much about other people's evaluation of himself. People will know at a certain age, don't let other people's evaluations affect them.
In reality, middle-aged people who are under pressure face life with a smile and a cynicism, because they cherish any opportunity in life to decompress. Many young people, on the other hand, want to give new words to force themselves to worry, and make themselves deep thinkers.