Chinese Drinking: Masochism and Abuse
⊙ Wen / Zhang Qing
Chinese-style drinking has always been known as "Chinese wine culture" YAG.
But because my IQ is not high, my cultural background is thin, and my knowledge is shallow, I really can't understand this so-called "wine culture".
In my eyes, Chinese-style drinking, in general, drinking to the extreme, is either drunk to death, or humiliating, ugly. Specifically, there are two main forms: one is self-abuse, and the other is abuse. These two forms have extremely perverted manifestations in many parts of the country.
Whether it is on the street, by the stinky ditch, or in the bus, the subway, or in the restaurant of the hotel restaurant, whether it is a wedding or funeral, or a reception, birthday celebration, full moon, festival, and various party wine venues, we have seen such scenes - red-faced, dilated pupils, stagnant eyes, burping wine, salivating, rolling their eyes, or spitting white foam, ripping open their clothes, opening their pants and completely shameless drunken men, they either fell to the ground and chewed mud, or drilled under the table to pinch women's legs. Or simply see a woman and hug and rub up a stinky mouth, or glimpse the pig and feel that the pig's double eyelids are very tempting, and even peek at the tree hole or wall crack to want to play obscene, intended to rape.
The Disciple Rules say: "Drinking and getting drunk is the ugliest." "The ugliness of Chinese-style drinking is really as ugly as it is ugly."
Masochism
Let's first look at the masochistic form of Chinese drinking.
In Chinese drinking, desperately drinking oneself over and over again, and abusing oneself in a very despicable way to show submission or to show the so-called deep feelings, this kind of way of similar bitter meat is actually exposed to the evil of human nature.
After getting yourself drunk, the humiliating, self-destructive performance officially begins.
There have been news reports that a drunken man in a Shanghai subway car first vomited, then peed in public, and then enjoyed lying down in his own excrement intoxicated.
At first glance, it sounds like a drunkard peeing in public, which is a bit appalling. In fact, this kind of thing has gone on a lot. Believe the man, if he had not entered the subway that day, but a plane or Zhongnanhai, he would still not be afraid to spit and pee on the ground, and lie drunk and ashamed.
The ugly and humiliating appearance of men is the most extreme performance is to pee in front of the public after being drunk.
There is a poet, a friend of one of my friends, when he does not drink, he talks very poetically, once he drinks, he must be drunk, and after he is drunk, he not only pees in public or in front of the door of other people's bungalows, but also pees on the cabbage stored by Beijingers in winter, and I don't know whether he has a vendetta against Beijingers or with Beijing cabbage.
I once knew a handsome man with a very good impression, when he did not drink, that polite and cultivated, simply made people believe that there were really gentlemen in China, others joked with him, he would even show a valuable shyness, and a beautiful and moving red cloud could rise on Bai Xi's face.
Later, I met him again at a painting exhibition, and before the opening of the exhibition, he was still the gentleman and handsome man who gave a very good impression, and at the banquet after the opening, he drunk himself. Then he walked red-faced to the lady's table, his shirt collar wide open, the tie almost turned into a trouser belt, he walked to every woman, he had to hug affectionately, and in his mouth vaguely called out to his sister or sister, saying extremely meaty and almost almost, that scene, I have seen it for a long time, and I have looked dumbfounded. I truly admire the greatness of wine, and it is unfortunate that a man can be transformed from an elegant gentleman into a lewd before and after drinking.
Even more unfortunately, when he left after dinner that day, because of the tense condition of the car, the activist actually arranged him in the same car that my girlfriend and I were riding in. The car went all the way, he sat in the front row, still unable to calmly pull at the back of our back row, the sister in his mouth was short, and the face that described the spitting star splash was really ugly, how ugly.
In a moment, he suddenly vomited out a mouthful of filth fermented through the stomach, although it spit on his own chest, but the smell inside the car was instantly dirty and smoky, and the driver of the car was anxious, quickly pulled over and braked the car and opened the door. He got out of the car, spit on the spot, and after vomiting, he unzipped the pants door that was already open, and began to pee in front of the pedestrians coming and going on the side of the road, the passers-by covered their noses in disgust, and my girlfriend looked at me helplessly, I turned my head to look at the sky and said weakly: "Oh, my god!" ”
In the early years, I attended the wedding of a girlfriend, and the bridegroom of my girlfriend was an alcoholic. On the day of the wedding, the groom could not hold himself, took the lead in drinking high, and then he forgot that he was a well-dressed groom, and he actually stood high on the sofa in the living room of the wedding room, unzipped his pants and peed in front of all the men, women and children, and while sprinkling, he also blew "shhh" with his mouth. The panic of the crowd can be imagined, and the bride is even more ashamed and angry, and almost turned her back, and finally poured her wedding night with tears of grievance. Such a marriage is doomed to failure. A few years later, the marriage, which was disgraced by drunkenness, came to an expected end.
What's even more bizarre is that in an event where many people have a dinner, there is a man who is pretentious, very good-looking, self-respecting and vanity- He also peed in public without exception, but he did not sprinkle on the ground, but instead spilled the urine into the empty glass cup cup after cup of good control, and then drank his own urine cup after cup, in full view of everyone. The world is so big that there is nothing strange about it, so masochistic, that the people are ashamed, and God is ashamed to hide in the clouds.
There are also some people who pee more subtly after drinking, they do not undo the pants door, directly in the pants inside the smouldering, and then drag the wet pants around, if the pants are longer, just can be moped like a mop, they shake the pants tube, do not take away a trace of urine smell.
The most radical form of masochism is that not only a drunken party rests, but also a drunken end of one's own life.
Abuse
Let's take a look at the abusive form of Chinese-style drinking.
Under the flickering and instigation of the so-called wine culture of "deep feelings, emotional iron drinking and bleeding", Chinese drinking blindly urges others to drink more and drink more, until they watch others drink and drink over and drink unconsciously before they feel enough friends. This logic of not caring about a friend's stomach and not taking care of a friend's liver is incredible.
Drunken men, after indulging in self-abuse, began to abuse people. Incidents of beating people after drinking, fighting with weapons, and even slashing people with knives and killing people occur everywhere in the country. Back at home, the drunken men did not stop, they either beat their wives, bullied their children, or smashed furniture or destroyed electrical appliances, as if to let all kinds of violent voices continue to hear to prove that they were men.
I once saw a drunken father, first of all, his wife crying in extremely violent language and movements, and then inexplicably took the bottle in the hands of the super cute four-year-old daughter who was drinking milk, and threw it toward the window, with the harsh sound, the window glass shattered, and the child's bottle flew down like a suicide by jumping off the building, and the child was frightened and his eyes widened, and his mouth was wide open, and it was only a minute later that he cried out " Wow". Poor angel-like little girl, crying helplessly, it was really painful to see.
During the Spring Festival in 2016, a man named Wang Baojiang in Weihui City, Henan Province, beat his wife badly after drinking, and even in front of his 5-year-old son, he wentuged out the eyes of his 39-year-old wife with great cruelty.
My hometown, although a small remote county, is one of the most typical places for Chinese drinking. Many places drink, people will drink while drinking, while letting two or three small dishes as a companion, the custom in my hometown is dry drinking, just like drinking tea and drinking water, without accompanying dishes, meet to do four or eight cups, of course, white wine. When he was drunk, he began to draw fists, the sound was loud enough to deafen people's ears, and the movements were exaggerated like practicing Falun Gong.
In my childhood memories, the husbands of the neighbors around me, drunk and beating their wives, were commonplace, and the ghosts cried wolf in the middle of the night and tore their hearts and lungs, which often frightened my heart. In the nearby hospital outpatient clinic, I always saw women who had nowhere to tell when they were beaten by their husbands. When men chat together, they will even compare to see who beats his wife more times and shoots fiercely. And every year in the stinky ditch, next to the telephone pole, in the street pit, under the bridge, there will be a few brave men who have been drunk to death by wine. At that time, I quietly decided in my heart: when I grew up, I must leave my hometown, leave the strange place where men drink wine as water, fight wine as their ability, beat their wives as glory, do not think about progress, and do not know what their dreams are. (This does not mean that I do not love my hometown, which also has a lot of cuteness, and here only people despise the drinking customs.) ）
Later, I successfully left my hometown, but I still heard all kinds of unfortunate news from relatives and friends about drinking in my hometown, especially my two best girlfriends with great talent, one who broke two ribs by her drunken husband, and one who was beaten up when she was pregnant and had a big belly, and almost lost the child in her belly.
All of the above, if anyone feels that they are talking about themselves, then tell you the truth: it is you who are talking, welcome to the right seat.
After getting drunk, there are also men who do not commit violence, but they especially like to say some seemingly sweet promises or swearing nonsense to women, women are silly and very serious to listen to the heart, but after waking up, men do not honor, and even completely deny that they have made promises or vows. The pain that causes many women to cry is caused by the unreliable words in the fog of men, and the men instead beat a rake to blame women for having too much desire, which is another kind of abuse on women's spirits.
On the other hand, alcohol is also a tool of politics, and eating and drinking at public expense to death can be regarded as a typical example of Chinese-style drinking. Alcohol is also a man-made tool for killing people wearing emotional masks, and incidents of death caused by excessive persuasion of alcohol among relatives and friends occur every year in the country. Just before the Mid-Autumn Festival, at a wedding banquet in Wenchang, Hainan, a young and beautiful bridesmaid was persuaded to drink to death, turning a festive wedding into a human tragedy.
Chinese-style drinking, drinking to death you are not negotiable.
Wine, very wronged
The toasting, persuasion, punishment, and forced wine on the wine table have created all kinds of intrigues, sinister and cunning, hypocritical and flattering, and shameless performances, which make interpersonal relationships extremely complicated and even dangerous. Even if some people can't drink it, but because of the so-called customs, affection, official prestige, etc., they have to harden their scalps, pour wine into their stomachs against their hearts, say a bunch of insincere words, and live themselves as the most hated people.
For people, chinese drinking, which is dominated by self-masochism and abuse, lasts a particularly long time with each drink. The words spoken when drinking are basically bragging, and the higher you drink, the bigger the cow blows. After blowing the bull and messing around, then drinking, then bragging. What a waste of a vicious circle, a waste of time, money, and human and social resources. Such drinking, in a nutshell, is a waste of life.
For wine, the wine itself has always been in the position of being abused and wronged.
Why? Chinese-style people who fight wine, the most common is, frown and drink, vomit and spit out, spit out and then drink, drink and spit again, not finished, in the form of urine in public and then sprinkle, so back and forth, I don't know what the meaning is? In this way of torturing wine and abusing wine, I believe that the heart of wine must be very uncomfortable, but wine cannot speak, and it has to be bullied.
On the other hand, drunken people, who have done all the wrong things, bad things, and evil things, they will say very easily and innocently: "I don't know, I drank too much, and I can only blame the wine." "In the way of blaming wine, there are many people who find reasons, excuses, and shirk responsibility. For example, in the case of Hongmei, a female journalist in Inner Mongolia who had a great impact and was extremely bad in nature, who was killed by domestic violence by her husband Jin Zhu after drinking alcohol, Jin Zhu repeatedly argued in court that she "drank broken pieces" and "did not remember", never apologized, and did not admit guilt to her evil deeds of using extremely cruel means to cause death.
Chinese there is no spirit of repentance, and everything does not find a reason from itself, and everything can find a reason to blame it from elsewhere. Wine is the most thorough black pot bearer in Chinese.
Poor wine, really wronged.
Everyone says: Spit out the truth after drinking, and show your true face after drinking. At this point, I believe that all the actions that appear after drinking are a kind of surviving subconscious, that is, all the manifestations of your drunkenness are the real you, including the bad things you have done and the ugly state you have revealed. So, don't blame the wine anymore, the wine is really wronged.
Stop at the right time, drink a beautiful poetry
Wine is made of grain, and I think we should respect, cherish and be grateful for wine.
Wine, very romantic, but also very poetic, provided that it is in a moderate mood.
Appropriate drinking, small drinks, can relieve the muscles and blood, nourish the body, the amount of alcohol is better, you can also eat meat, drink in large bowls, but the premise is not to get drunk, do not abuse yourself after getting drunk, and then abuse people. Wouldn't it be better to leave a dignity for yourself at the wine table, while also leaving true respect and care for the body to others. There is sobriety in the slight drunkenness, there is character in the slight drunkenness, there is appreciation in the tasting, so drinking, in order to exchange feelings, communicate the heart, release loneliness, identify the acquaintance, cherish the fate. Why not? If you can also write poems like Li Bai, fill in words like Nalan Rongruo, or simply exude true temperament, passionately recite a few poems and songs, or dance ink to write a few beautiful calligraphy, or play a set of cool and handsome drunken fists, then the style is even higher. Drinking in this way can we drink comfortably, drink beautifully, and drink the beauty of romantic wine. When a woman is nourished by red wine with her delicate hands and a goblet, it is the most beautiful situation of drinking.
A lifetime is to grasp a degree and then have an understanding.
The Southern Song Dynasty thinker Zhu Xi said in the Commentary on the Four Books: "It is appropriate to stop; there is no greed." "The cultural sages have long since left such words. In fact, anything that can be stopped in moderation is a high realm, otherwise it will lead to the extreme reversal of things. Chinese-style drinking, but always with the amount of alcohol as a glory, take the wine farm as a battlefield, do not drink until the east and west or die and live will never give up.
Chinese drinking, which is dominated by self-masochism and abuse, actually follows the word "culture" after the word "wine", which in my shallow opinion is the biggest ridicule and blasphemy against "culture".
The Bible (Ephesians 5:18) says, "Do not get drunk, for wine may make man debauched, but be filled with the Holy Spirit." For example, Liu Qiangdong, who has always had a good reputation and is very affectionate with his wife, ruined himself in front of the world because of a debauchery after drunkenness. The Bible (1 Corinthians 6:10)) also says, "Neither the thief, nor the greedy, nor the drunkard, nor the abusive, nor extorted, can bear the kingdom of God." So Aaron's two sons were punished and killed for offending the sacred in God's sanctuary with drunkenness.
This shows how much God does not like drunken people.
