As mentioned before, the mink cicada is not Lü Bu's wife, although when it comes to the mink cicada, people list her as one of the "four beauties" in ancient times, but the history books only have Xi Shi, Wang Zhaojun, and Yang Yuhuan in detail, and there is no record of the mink cicada, which can only be regarded as a legendary figure. Lü Bu was a person who had already established a family, according to historical records such as the Chronicle of the Three Kingdoms, Lü Bu had a family before he joined Dong Zhuo, but there is no detailed record of Lü Bu's wife and his daughter. It is conceivable that in the feudal society of that time, after the age of sixteen, it should be married, and some even earlier. The history books detail that when he first made his debut, Lü Bu had great trust in his generals Wei Yue and Wei Xu brothers, and Lü Bu came out of his hometown at the age of 20, according to the customs of the time, Lü Bu had already married and had children. Lü Bu's generals included Wei Yue and Wei Xu brothers, Lü Bu had extra trust in them, and had a marriage relationship with their family surnamed Wei, but did not specify who they married, so here you can boldly guess that Lü Bu's wife may be surnamed Wei.
Before Cao Cao attacked Lü Bu, there were two records of Lü Bu's wife in the history books: Wang Yun's strategy failed, resulting in the fall of Chang'an, and Lü Bu left his wife behind and struggled to break through on his own. In the "Heroes of the Late Han Dynasty", Lü Bu's wife was extremely dissatisfied: "Concubines used to be in Chang'an, and they were abandoned by the generals, and Lai De Pang Shu secretly hid concubines and ears." "Who is Pang Shu again?" There is no detailed record, there is no way to verify. Another time was when Lü Bu in Yanzhou was chased and beaten by Cao Cao and asked Liu Bei to take him in, as in the "Heroes of the Late Han Dynasty", this paragraph is written with profound meaning and does not elaborate on what it means. Lü Bu's wife followed Lü Bu around and also suffered a lot, and later Cao Cao's army pressed on, trapping Lü Bu in Xia Pi City, at this time Chen Gong offered a plan to block the grain route of Cao Cao's army, because Cao Cao's front was lengthened, grain transportation was difficult, as long as the Wei army's grain was cut off, Cao Cao would naturally retreat. Although Lü Bu did not have a big strategy, he still admired Chen Gong's strategy, and various operational arrangements and various general orders were issued. I also went home and confessed this matter to my wife. Although Lady Lü was not the legendary mink cicada, she pinched Lü Bu to death, and when she heard that her husband was going to go out of the city to fight, she had the feeling of being left behind, and wanted to stop it, but there was no positive reason. So he changed the rhetoric, which is recorded in the "Record of the Heroes of Han" that Lü Bu heard about it, and he was also conflicted in his heart, and he was ready to give up his plan to rob the grain road.
However, Chen Gong thought that this opportunity could not be lost, so he also suggested that Chen Gong sit on the city pool, Lü Bu led the team to ambush outside the city, forming a situation of bag clamping, as long as Cao Cao came to attack the city, Chen Palace confronted the enemy head-on, Lü Bu copied from behind, and could also catch Cao Jun by surprise. Cao Cao's army was large and powerful, and this simple tactic might not be able to shake the attack of the powerful Cao Army. The only thing that is desirable is that this plan has great flexibility, which can disperse the concentration point of the Cao army's attack, and at the same time, after dividing the troops to the periphery to make a pinch attack, it can also grasp the initiative in hand. Lü Bu's perennial combat can be better understood, even if this plan fails, he can still run away. It was intended to be executed, but Madame Lu jumped out and resolutely opposed it. The "Spring and Autumn of the Wei Dynasty" records that Lü Bu heard that his heart was even more contradictory, and Chen Gong's plan was once again aborted.
Judging from these things recorded in the history books, Lü Bu is a fierce general with no choice or a typical "wife and strict management", which is not exaggerated, and it can even be said that Lü Bu is only suitable for being a subordinate, provided that there is no rebellious heart. But on the other hand, it can also be said that Changbu is a person with heavy feelings, whether the love between him and his wife has reached the earth-shattering level with the marten cicada in the legend, and the relationship between husband and wife is definitely harmonious. There is a gap between the red face and the evil water or what kind of children's love, and the mighty image of Lü Bu himself, but this is more in line with the real Lü Bu. Later, Bu was killed in the White Gate Tower, the whereabouts of his wife and daughter are not recorded in the history books, referring to Cao Cao's practice of surviving his mother after Chen Gong was killed, Lü Bu's wife and daughter should also be taken care of by Cao Cao, as for lü Bu's wife becoming a nun, marrying Xu Chu, and "Guan Gong beheaded at night", such stories belong to the appendages and legends.