Liang Jingru, who gave everyone "courage": This is a "history of changing lives against the sky" with "courage", the story behind it is touching to go through all the ups and downs before debuting, and then falling in love with her boyfriend is unmarried and enters marriage, but she is deeply depressed because of the other party's cheating

On September 1, Liang Jingru's new EP "Time Caprice Three Days of Thoughts" was officially launched, which is her "comeback" after two years of silence.

Although the response is not as strong as when she was in the sky, there are still a large number of fans who pay for it.

After all, since the successful launch of the song "Courage" 21 years ago, Liang Jingru has become a well-deserved "love song diva", and has been prosperous for more than ten years.

Even after the launch of the choice of marriage in 2010, Liang Jingru still released classics such as "Love Songs Don't Tell You" and "Love Sees People's Hearts for a Long Time".

But after she gave birth to her son four years later, her popularity and traffic were obviously much worse than before.

The attention of singles such as "Waiting for You in Love", "The Best Arrangement", "Secret Fruit", and "Never Thought About It" that has been launched successively cannot be compared with the popularity of previous songs.

Later, Liang Jingru also experienced a marriage change, and generously announced her love affair with the president's boyfriend, but in February this year, she announced that she was single again with a sentence of "come together, and if you don't meet, you go", and also expressed her open-minded view of feelings.

Now that she is 43 years old, looking back at her journey from a "small town girl" to a "love song queen", she is already a legend in herself.

<h1 class= "pgc-h-center-line" > became popular with "Courage", and the story behind it is moving</h1>

The year of Liang Jingru's fire was 2000, when the Chinese music scene suddenly changed: Jay Chou, Jolin Tsai, Xiao Yaxuan, and Sun Yanzi were "born out of nowhere", and the competition was particularly fierce.

"Courage" is Liang Jingru's second solo album, which includes songs such as "Courage" and "Love You Not Two or Three Days", which quickly caused a sensation.

In particular, the song "Courage" not only won the Top Ten Original Song Awards of the Malaysian Entertainment Association Awards, and was nominated for the Best Music Video Award of the Taiwan Golden Melody Awards, but also made Liang Jingru a hit.

The reason why this song can be so enduring, the story behind it is also very lamentable - because behind it is a bitter love affair of Liang Jingru.

At that time, she went to Taiwan from Malaysia and began to record albums under the direction of her master Li Zongsheng, but what she always had in mind was her hometown boyfriend, a lyricist Guan Qiyuan, whom she called Ah Guan.

The other was talented, mature and considerate, the two loved sweetly despite being far apart, and the other party later wrote her many words, and each capital was very touching.

However, because Liang Jingru was in the initial stage of her career at that time, it was not disclosed to the public.

It was at this time that the Malaysian musicians Rui Ye and Guang Liang, inspired by this love affair, composed a song "Courage" that became popular throughout the Chinese world.

In August 2000, at the press conference of "Courage", 22-year-old Liang Jingru suddenly kissed Ah Guan at the scene and announced their love affair with the action official.

Although this move also caused an uproar, it did not prevent Liang Jingru from marching towards the height of "Tianhou", and then she became the "Four Little Queens" with Sun Yanzi, Jolin Tsai, and Xiao Yaxuan.

After that, her development was surprisingly smooth, and she could say that any album could be fired: in the "Shining Star" album released in 2001, "Unconditional for You" and "The World I Most Want to Travel Around" were fired;

In the "Sunrise, I Like" album released in 2002, "I Like" and "Happy To Break Up" have become popular all over the streets;

In 2003's "Beautiful Life", the title song of the same name, "Beautiful Life" and "The Happiest Year", also achieved very good results, and was also nominated for the Taiwan Golden Melody Award for Best Pop Music Singing Album...

The nomination of "Beautiful Life" made Liang Jingru's career reach a new height, but the opponent she encountered at that time was Faye Wong.

Despite this, Liang Jingru's career is still booming, but her relationship with Ah Guan has encountered problems, because the other party's parents hope that the two will enter marriage as soon as possible, and Ah Guan has also proposed to her, but she refused to focus on her career.

After dragging on, the two finally broke up after Valentine's Day in 2004, and the other wrote a song for her called "Acceptance", which was included in Liang Jingru's sixth album "Swallowtail Butterfly".

Ah Guan sent affection with a song and wrote softly: "We all accept, it must be that each other is not mature enough." In love, there is no difference between the heavy and the heavy, the honesty is too much, and it is impossible to step back and move forward..."

When Liang Jingru filmed the MV of this song, her emotions collapsed several times and she burst into tears.

It is said that Ah Guan once wrote in his last letter to her: "This is the last time I call you this, and I will take good care of yourself in the future." ”

As for how Ah Guan called her, Liang Jingru did not reveal it from beginning to end, only saying sweet words between lovers.

When she mentioned the song again, she also said sadly: "When you see the color of the sky and eat, you will think of him, but that person really left you like that..."

<h1 class= "pgc-h-center-line" > went through ups and downs before debuting, and falling in love with a boyfriend again is unmarried</h1>

The reason why I can't forget Ah Guan is likely to be because the other party is her first love, and she is also a fellow countryman, and every time she thinks of it, it is a sad past that affects her own "changing her life against the sky".

Born in 1978 in a small town in Malaysia, Liang Jingru lived very comfortably as a child, flying kites and fishing when she was fine.

Because her parents like to sing, even acquaintance and love are because of singing competitions, and the whole family is very infatuated with Teresa Teng, resulting in her also being very interested and talented in singing.

However, at the age of 18, her 38-year-old father died of nasolabial cancer, and Liang Jingru had to give up the opportunity to go to college and began to work to earn a living.

On the eve of the college entrance examination, Liang Jingru and two classmates formed the "Blue Boiling Water" group, and ran to participate in the "Conch New Rhyme Award" singing competition, and finally won the third place in the middle school group.

Despite this, Liang Jingru was not discovered, and the brokerage company at that time thought that her appearance was too ordinary, so it only asked her to do harmony.

In desperation, she chose to sing at the quota restaurant, which can earn about 100 yuan an hour.

In 1997, Lee Chung-sheng, a well-known singer who was a senior executive of Rolling Stone Records in Taiwan, went to Malaysia to produce albums for Kwang Leung and Pin Guan, and looked for new artists.

In a CD handed over by the record company, he accidentally found that the harmony was very distinctive, and he hoped to meet this "harmony", that is, Liang Jingru.

However, because Li Zongsheng's itinerary was too full, he flew to Singapore before he could meet, while Liang Jingru rushed to Singapore accompanied by her mother to meet the "Godfather of Music".

At that time, Liang Jingru only sang one song, and Li Zongsheng proposed: "Are you willing to go to Taiwan to develop?" ”

It was the first time that the "small town girl" went to Taiwan, and then she was given the stage name by the master, "Jingru".

During that time, Liang Jingru had an extremely hard time, having to practice Chinese every day, but also facing loneliness, and more importantly, the winter in Taiwan was more than in Malaysia, which caused her nose to be allergic and her recordings were also affected.

After turning over several times, Li Zongsheng lost his temper and said bluntly: "I have never heard the voice of Jingru when she first tried the sound..."

Liang Jingru was inferior and sad, and chose to return to Malaysia to adjust for a period of time.

After getting Li Zongsheng's permission, she returned to the local folk song restaurant in her hometown to continue singing, gradually regaining her lost confidence, and thus getting to know her first love boyfriend Ah Guan.

In April 1999, the 21-year-old Liang Jingru returned to Taiwan and released her debut album "Growing Up Overnight" half a year later, during the promotional period, Taiwan encountered an earthquake, causing all publicity to be stopped, and finally the sales of this album stopped at 40,000 copies.

But fortunately, Li Zongsheng did not give up on her, and helped her produce a second album "Courage", which made her completely popular.

In 2004, after breaking up with Ah Guan, Liang Jingru began to work with Ah Xin of Mayday, who admired her very much and wrote a rock style "Swallowtail Butterfly" for her to compose and fill in the lyrics.

This album also includes "I Know" composed by Tao Zhe for her, and "Ningxia" personally written by the arranging genius Li Zhengfan...

This album also made Liang Jingru nominated for the "Taiwan Golden Melody Award for Best Chinese Female Singer Award", but in the end, she defeated Sun Yanzi by one vote, becoming an "unforgettable".

But at this time, Liang Jingru was not discouraged, because on the emotional road, she met her companion again- a member of Mayday, Beth Martha.

In the song "John Lannon" created by the other party, he gently wrote: "A red bean, why do you want to single out this universe."

Two years later, Jay Chou still took this as inspiration, and in the song "Amnesia" composed for Liang Jingru, echoed: "I fought with you for several nights john lannon pictures, but I couldn't spell a forever..."

This is what Cai Kangyong once said: "The whole of Taiwan knows that they are in love, but they just don't admit it." ”

At this time, Liang Jingru was 28 years old, and had begun to long for the family life of washing her hands to make soup, but Martha was an unmarried person, even if Liang Jingru sang to him at the concert site: "Since you have feelings for me, why not be braver and dissolve me..."

In the end, this relationship did not end, and some media asked whether it was because Liang Jingru forced marriage, but she denied it.

In 2009, Liang Jingru sang in her 10th album "Jingru &amp; Love Songs - Stop Shedding Tears for Him": "Fate is so humorous that everyone who loves is silent." A whole universe, for a red bean. ”

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Frustrated and her career not getting much better, Liang Jingru, although as always with a large number of fans, failed when she was nominated for the Golden Melody Awards in 2006, 2008 and 2009.

5 consecutive runs caused her to collapse and cry in the background, but no one could change the ending.

In the year of releasing her 10th album, she accepted a marriage proposal from her rich businessman boyfriend Zhao Yuantong, who met through her agent's introduction in 2007, and the two then fell in love in a low-key manner and went all the way to marriage.

Being able to marry Zhao Yuantong, Liang Jingru said that it was because the two had the same hobbies for each other, although the other did not like to listen to music, and even listened to Liang Jingru's concerts before, and fell asleep several times.

However, Liang Jingru was very comfortable in front of him, because the other party did not regard her as an artist, and she felt very relaxed.

In 2010, the two held a grand wedding on Boracay Island in the Philippines, and Li Zongsheng appeared as a witness and said bluntly at the scene: "I was the first man to take her into this industry, and today I personally handed her over to the second man in her life." ”

And her husband Zhao Yuantong is also very affectionate, and also confessed: "Thank you for being my other half and completing my life." Living with you in the name of love is the happiest thing I think is. ”

However, after the relationship finally experienced a seven-year itch, it finally came to an end in 2019 because the other party was suspected of splitting legs.

The two gave birth to their son Zhao Yichen in 2014, and their married life was low-key and sweet.

Liang Jingru was also very good to Zhao Yuantong, and it is said that when the other party was rumored to be in an economic crisis, she also mortgaged the property to support the other party.

However, some heart-warming moves are ultimately inferior to other younger women, and Zhao Yuantong was photographed at the end of 2019 walking intimately with other women and broke the scandal of cheating.

A month later, Liang Jingru held a concert in Taipei, and when she sang "Happy To Break Up" and "Unfortunately Not You", she frequently wiped her tears, and finally squatted down and cried bitterly.

It is said that this "love song queen" who has comforted countless people has never been able to heal the pain in her heart.

It is said that before she performed on stage, she would drink alcohol to numb herself, but when she sang the love song of "empathy" on stage, she still could not control her grief.

It is said that after that, Liang Jingru suffered from depression several times, shed tears at every turn, and had to seek help from a doctor when she was serious.

Last year, she was nominated for the Golden Melody Award for the sixth time, and once confidently prepared a yellow note full of acceptance speeches, but finally lost to Wei Ruxuan, who sang "Hiding is not equal to forgetting".

Career frustration again, Liang Jingru chose to use feelings to make up for the loss, also at the end of last year, she generously disclosed a new relationship, the other party is Picasso International Enterprise President Lin Daguang.

The two were photographed kissing on the beach, and Lin Daguang was subsequently pulled out to be 14 years older than her and financially superior.

Liang Jingru also smiled like a flower in an interview: "It is also great to talk about a relationship", and directly praised her new boyfriend: "I think he should be very handsome, should be very tall, should be very knowledgeable, should be very humorous." ”

But helplessly, this relationship from the official announcement to the breakup, only took 3 months.

In February 2021, Liang Jingru posted on her personal social platform: "Any relationship in the world, not demanding, personality is not compatible, good to get together and disperse." ”

Since then, Liang Jingru, who has sung love songs for most of her life, has become single again, although she may seem lonely.

However, I believe that after half a life of ups and downs, she has learned that love is not as long as there is "courage" to be satisfactory.

Sometimes, "blank" is also a kind of consummation.