What is uncle's love like?

In addition to the increase and retreat effect of adrenal glands and dopamine from the biochemical point of view to explain, love should be overflowing, a person perfects his love at the same time but still feels empty, there are still a lot of excess love, these love is not painful or feel that it is to pay, nor do you need to return, but most of the twenty-something years old are not even able to love themselves, even they can't take care of themselves, they don't have the ability to have financial resources, in this case they also pay themselves, most of them want to get something, And if you give and then lose, you will be sad and angry, because that is the only thing they have, and the love that has not yet grown will be taken off to you. The older ones are different, guessing that they are different is that they have matured and have excess, and if they give the excess to others, they will not care much about gains and losses. But whether or not it was redundant, it also filled the heart, but it cooled down with the autumn wind. Then they are not willing to cool down, can't pick it up and put it down, do you want to twist it? Twisted melons are rational and love themselves, and they will deliberately use the guise of acting childishly and irresponsible after rational judgment to cover up their long-chilled hearts and the indifference of the trade-offs between pros and cons, even if you are not confused or unhurried, do not hesitate to firmly and persistently walk toward him Even if you take the exaggeration or metaphorical wording obtained from the elementary school teacher, is it a human ideal that tiptoes up and still wants to match shoulder to shoulder, or the galaxy that withdraws the palm of the hand is still eager to touch After all, Darwin's theory of evolution is still constantly pushing forward the timeline. It seems that this kind of thinking is the winner, this kind of thinking people live less tired panic or entanglement, no, they are also entangled, but their entanglement is not the embarrassing situation I have experienced in the past, but a cold and cool way of dealing with it, an unresolved coping strategy, so people who don't understand and those who understand and are not moved will be eliminated and will no longer feel the comfort of the winner Frankly, from the perspective of persuasion, I should not refute the coping strategy of the rational person, what should be provided is the solution. Can I or can't offer but I can't do it, because such a way of persuasion would make me seriously suspicious, so this is a dead knot?