Today, a video rushed to the hot search, a coach in Quanzhou, Fujian Province, helped to take the baby when the female trainees practiced the car, like a "temporary nanny", according to the coach, the female student's family has no one, and now the child has just turned old, and encountered the situation of learning to drive, can only take the child to learn to drive together. The trainees have difficulties, of course, the coach has to go up, and has been helping to take the baby for about a week, each time to take more than an hour.
In the video, the coach puts the child on his back, still holding the umbrella, afraid of the child's sunburn, and constantly gently shakes his body to comfort the child. Originally, this was a positive and positive thing, but moving to the comment area was a miasma of black smoke, which was really mixed.
There are many netizens who have said "widow-style education", "where has the child's father gone", "one child can't afford to bring, and expect to have three children, huh"... All kinds of negative comments have been made, and many netizens have expressed difficulty understanding, obviously it is a positive energy thing, how can everything be associated with widowhood education, and the coach and the child's mother in the video also said that the child's father wants to work, but there are still many netizens who insist on involving this matter with widowhood education, which is really difficult to accept.
This also reflects a phenomenon at present, many people know the term "widowed education", they abuse it at will, so what is the real widow education?
Some fathers are at home as a hand-waving treasurer, never help with the baby, nor do they assume family responsibilities, what problems are pushed to the child's mother, no matter what happens, it is always the mother who bears the responsibility, in this case, the child has a father and no father, what is the difference between this?
In addition, on the "three children" issue also involved in the comment area, you may wish to talk about it. Some people say that they can't afford to have one child, and they still want to have three children?
In fact, it is not, whether to have three children, just from this one video to conclude, it is too arbitrary, which has too many factors to consider, including economy, energy, the willingness of other children and so on. Indeed, at present, the birth of three children for most people, the economic pressure is very large, with the baby also consumes a lot of energy, but also excludes that some people are willing to bear these hard work, pull the child up, but also can be cultivated into a child with a good performance, but there are too many responsibilities to bear and too much suffering to eat.
Of course, then again, about the matter of taking a baby, many fathers do have a lack of responsibility, usually there is no time to take a baby at work, after work, but also busy with friends and leaders, it is not easy to wait until the evening, maybe the fathers also have to steal a little laziness in their leisure time, play with their mobile phones or watch TV to relax, and accompanying children has naturally become a "luxury".
And mothers take on more responsibilities, some mothers not only have to work, but also have to do housework when they come home from work, which is the case, or to take care of their children. Just like many netizens said, obviously they all have jobs, why can't fathers take time to accompany their children? This is also one of the problems that give rise to contradictions.
The family should be a place of tolerance, should also be considerate and tolerant of each other, everyone has the obligation to assume family responsibilities, a little more is not so-called, but at least should do their best to provide a healthy growth environment for children.